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Lapdancing and telling off dh's mate.

365 replies

Manchesterhistorygirl · 02/10/2013 17:41

I blame you lot. Thanks.

Last night dh's friend was telling him all about his recent visit to a lap dancing bar. I told him he and his mates were a bunch of twats and I was disgusted at them all, especially since they all have partners.

I also told dh if I ever found out he'd done the same it'd be the absolute last thing he ever did.

So my nest of vipers, thank you for giving me the confidence to handle a situation I've always found disgusting, but wouldn't have ever spoken out about until I joined here.

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rosabud · 03/10/2013 22:44

Thanks Cake Wine for Basil and OP

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 22:50

Do one, bale.

AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 22:56

I would consider it a result if someone who deliberately tried to make me feel less than in my own house never darkened the doorstep again.

One less wanker polluting my personal air space < dusts off hands >

A good days work, OP.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 22:57

Manchester, I'm sorry for misreading the situation. I'm sorry that because of that I called you names you definitely are not. I'm sorry

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:00

Oh. What caused you to misread the situation, do you think, bale?

I'm sure op is much obliged by your apology.

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:03

sab it was the way I read the words. The fact that OP only cleared it up now made me think I was right. I can only live and learn. Again, sorry

AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:05

nincompoops...ten a-fuckin' penny

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:06

No, you don't get to apologise to OP and claim you were right. You can live and learn though.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:09

God! What a hairy handed trucker.

registary · 03/10/2013 23:15

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AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:16

See ? Ten a penny.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:17

Yep. Ten a penny.

BasilBabyEater · 03/10/2013 23:17

Are you drunk Registary?

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:20

Register for rehab

AnyFucker · 03/10/2013 23:22

YGB, have you nothing to say to registary about his abusive threats of violence ?

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:22

Yes, I think you should baleyboy.

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:25

Come on baley - where's the distraught about op being threatened with getting her teeth knocked out over her stance against lap dancing clubs? Lets have a little continuity here!

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:26

He clearly is after a fight. If he knocks my teeth out i will have knotted hair or flys that won't do up.
You guys have already reported? Right?

He is a fundamental nut job

Manchesterhistorygirl · 03/10/2013 23:27

Bale I only cleared it up now because I've been put all afternoon and evening, hence the enormous time gap in my posting.

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SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:28

Ah, he's a nutjob. but he's one of your mates So no point speaking out? Yet you were so vociferous against OP....

Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:30

He give humans/men/his family/ apes a bad name. That is clearly abusive. It's in black an white. It's not been goaded. It's some deep routed shit.

Please report it. I don't want to say 'you can't talk to women like that' but I have. Sorry if that is annoying

SabrinaMulhollandJjones · 03/10/2013 23:31

For several hours you argued about OP's choice of words on this thread - yet registry is ok? Just a bit mad. How surprising.

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Yougotbale · 03/10/2013 23:32

Sab - one of my mates? What?

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