For most trans it's about legitimacy. And the only route available is to attempt to conform to the 'opposite' end of the binary. Ridiculous hoop jumping.
I hope you are being deliberately disingenuous when you discuss trans as if their very existence is a deliberately patriarchal ploy to reinforce gendered behaviours and erase the true meaning of woman, Nyac, But somehow I doubt it.
Both trans and women are victims of the patriarchy. that is why they should join forces.
At the moment they have absolutely no choice except to conform to the trans institution as it stands, whatever their true feelings about their own individual identity.
It's all a crock of shit.
So both trans and women should be taking issue with the big daddy legal panel. And fighting for such ridiculous institutions to be scrapped. It can only possibly happen alongside the dismantling of the entire institution of gender though. Meanwhile, it's pretty much what we're all stuck with. And I wouldn't want it dismantled without some other form of protection for those in the 'no man's land' of gender.
Kim, as a slight aside, can you apply for the panel if you are still using your male identity when you see your son? I know someone who couldn't fully meet the 'living as a woman' requirement due to employment stuff, so was having to wait...
And yes, traditionally you gussy up and practise your high voice and walking in heels. Cos that's all a woman is.