I really think that some of these members of F4J who are now acting like victims of rad-feminism should take a good long look at the organisation they are allying with.
F4J misrepresent statistics on their FB page an in their advertising. The whole premise of their organisation is erroneous. 4 million children are not "living without fathers" - the stats are that 3.8 million children are affected by parental separation and this figure includes all the families who have shared/ co-parenting. Where on earth is their evidence that Gingerbread imply that 90% of fathers are unfit? From GB's own website it is clear that contact with both parents is encouraged, unless there are good reasons to deny access.
It's all been said already on this thread, but only 10% of relationship breakdowns end up in family court, and only 1% of these end up with a parent being denied access. This figure simply does not add up to the 'thousands of children will be silenced by family court in 2012' that is all over F4J literature.
F4J then post an aggressive call-to-arms on, asking that F4J bombard Gingerbread helplines with calls (yes, that's charitable helplines, there for the very people they claim to represent). Then they deny they set out on this intimidating campaign against GB and now they want to make out they condemn and disown anyone who targets Gingerbread. When the full instructions on what to do were on their own FB page hours before.
They initiate an organised offensive against MN, detailing on FB how to sign up to MN and linking to this thread. In the same breath as squawking about 'free speech' they then ban anyone from their FB page who disagrees with them, and state that this is what they've done on their page. They claim they want rational discussion, but then shut down the discussion when it's not going their way. Finally they threaten legal action and the police 
Hello? Nice little publicity stunt, no?
Finally, lets not forget, these people are well handy with the handcuffs and purple paint, alongside the intimidation.