Discussions on this or similar topics always make me feel queasy. I understand that many will have strong feelings on the topic, or strong feelings on religion (e.g. it's very important to them and their identity or conversely, they see no value in religion for themselves or anyone else.)
But, so often, it seems to end up that a small group of people end up seemingly "quizzed" about their beliefs. Sometimes, it's genuine curiosity and people want to know more. Other times, it comes across as expecting people to "prove" what they believe, but without any willingness to engage with them, where one has strong feelings in the opposite direction.
It starts to look like those being quizzed are being used as "guinea pigs," and expected to offer up their personal experiences for scrutiny by others.
I've seen this happen in a very unpleasant way in bad diversity training - where the one or two Black people, gay people or women's experiences are used as "case studies," and end up getting picked apart and sometimes even vilified by others who frankly, don't want to know. It can leave the few people who share their experiences feeling pretty vulnerable and sore.
Speaking personally, I don't believe faith, belief and feminism are incompatible. For me, they are intrinsically linked. I accept that that is not the case for others and their view is equally valid to mine. I choose not to discuss this on MN, however, because for a range of reasons, it does not feel "safe" to do so.