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Is this for real?

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TheRealMBJ · 16/07/2011 19:47

Fucking Hell Shock

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Petalouda · 16/07/2011 19:52

what the piss?

"when rape is a gift"

vom

snowmama · 16/07/2011 19:52

Oh my days. Didn't get past 'when rape is a gift'...felt physically sick and couldnt read anymore.

floyjoy · 16/07/2011 19:54

I like this testimonial:

"Enter Taken In Hand. We had been experimenting a little with erotic spanking and I was starting to realize the feelings that his being dominant in the bedroom were provoking in me. It made me think of how he had been in the early years of our relationship and how our dynamic had changed so much since then. I knew he had it in him to be head of the household because he had exhibited head of the household behavior when we were first married and just seemed so much more confident at that time. I realized that we had been in a bad vicious cycle. My taking on the leadership role made him feel less valued. That made his self confidence go down and he felt less capable of stepping up at home and at work. He didn?t really feel needed. And my being the leader made me feel like I had the weight of our lives on my shoulders and that I was the only one I could trust to captain our ship."

Shock Thanks for the link!
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TheRealMBJ · 16/07/2011 19:54

I am speechless tbh.

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floyjoy · 16/07/2011 19:54

Oh, you couldn't make it up. (Or could you?)

DirtyMartini · 16/07/2011 19:54

Ugh. Ugh ugh ugh.

ZZZenAgain · 16/07/2011 19:54

fromthe section entitled the Resistant Woman: "If a girl is submissive, obedient and docile, she's probably not strong enough to withstand what I'm going to do to her. It's part of my particular brand of masculinity to be physically and mentally tough and challenging so in general I'm not attracted to girls like that. If a girl won't enjoy the rough and tumble, the physicality, the violent love and verbal jousting they'd get from me we won't have the compatibility. If she will, we might have a future."

??????

I cannot bring myself to look at the section : "The Gift of Rape". I just don't want to know

DirtyMartini · 16/07/2011 19:55

"head of the household behaviour" Hmm

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TheRealMBJ · 16/07/2011 19:56

I haven't read further than the opening page. I feel sick.

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HerBeX · 16/07/2011 19:59

God ZZZZ that man sounds like a real psycho. He's only interested in confident, strong women so that he can wreck them. Yuk.

floyjoy · 16/07/2011 19:59

I don't want to make you feel sick but, from Edwina G, about sex:

Now I don't worry whether he's working up to it and what time is it, or worry if we're going to do it we should get started or we'll be tired tomorrow. If he wants it, he wants it, and he'll say "come here." I don't have to think or worry. It's very relaxing. And let's face it, it doesn't take years to get the thing done. If it's late, he typically isn't wanting something extended. Short and sweet. And I always feel happy and loved and secure and drowsy afterwards. Nice.

One thing I notice, and that delights me no end, is that he's always touching me now. When we're out he's holding my belt loop or stroking my back, at home he's smacking my butt as he passes or pulling me into a big kiss. He's obviously got a feeling of ownership that he hadn't before. His wife. I love that, it simply melts me. And it arouses me. I find that it takes him about 10 seconds to get me fully engaged now, and none of that time is spent discussing or worrying whether I'm tired or whatever, or making passive verbal approaches (because he was trying to be sensitive, and also feared rejection).

ThePathanKhansWoman · 16/07/2011 20:01

Surely this dangerous shite is encouraging hate crimes.WTF? Totally shocking.

HerBeX · 16/07/2011 20:03

It's a gift for abusers isn't it.

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TheRealMBJ · 16/07/2011 20:03

He's obviously got a feeling of ownership that he hadn't before.

Words fail me

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EauRouge · 16/07/2011 20:07

I am still in shock about this. I really hope it's just some kind of incredibly sick joke.

ThePathanKhansWoman · 16/07/2011 20:07

I thought it was some horrible wind-up, dangerous, really dangerous site.

storytopper · 16/07/2011 20:11

The site dates from 2003 and I don't think anything new has been added since 2006 - the last time the stats were updated was 2006. Hopefully the site owner has seen the light (or died).

DirtyMartini · 16/07/2011 20:13

lol at died. That is actually a comforting notion

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TheRealMBJ · 16/07/2011 20:14

Hopefully hit over the head with a cast iron frying pan by his 'strong, mentally tough, and challenging' wife.

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DontCallMePeanut · 16/07/2011 20:18

This is a joke, right? :(

SinicalSal · 16/07/2011 20:21

Maybe he was murdered.

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TheRealMBJ · 16/07/2011 20:22

I don't think it is Peanut. Sad

Here

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ZZZenAgain · 16/07/2011 20:45

....punishment spankings, maintenance spankings and submission exercises, such as kneeling silently at the foot of the male.

DontCallMePeanut · 16/07/2011 21:44

"Too educated for my own good"... Wow, take it for granted, why don't you? Up until 100 (ish) years ago, a degree wasn't an option for us women...

"I learned, through these relationships, that pain has one purpose for me ? as punishment for misbehaviour. " Yup nothing like a regular beating from your DP Hmm

Doesn't happen often, but I'm lost for words...

fastweb · 16/07/2011 21:50

Circle of Moms even has a little group for Taken in Hand

I am comforted by the fact there are only 6 members.

God help the poster's daughter if she has one

"Nothing is worse than a man who unwillingly lets a vindictive, nasty woman walk all over him. Modern times are labeled progressive but how can human beings progress when our leaders, builders and creators (MEN!) aren't allowed to BE men?!?!? Worse over, how exactly do women view themselves as "empowered" when all they want to do is emasculate their men into brow-beaten little boys? Women crave dominance, not equality. And women aren?t qualified to dominate in the ways that men naturally do. Sorry...but that is the truth. That is why there are TWO genders, not one. There are differences between us and to mess with the natural balance is to bring misery unto yourself and the man you allegedly love.

Just a bit frustrated today. I saw a good man go down recently when he married a woman that I could see right through. Unfortunately she has him under her spell for now but the bubble will burst and she will be hopefully be out on her ass by the end of their first year of marriage. I warned him as best as I could without meddling or being pushy (like SHE is) but he genuinely loves the woman he THINKS she is. Cracks are already starting to show through though. Women like that need to be put on a leash and sent to dog obedience school. Take away their feminine guiles and they have nothing; they are nothing. I wish more men would wake up and take their power back. The world would be brighter, happier and safer if that were the case."

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Is this some form of repressed fetish spilling out ?