Thanks Thespian. It has taken me 25 years to finally get my act together but I think I have learnt by many failed attempts over the years what works for me and what I need to change and what I need to accept. Yes, just weigh once a week. if you want the wine and allow for it within your daily or weekly points then have it and build it in. No points sacrificing stuff that you will want to at some point in the future. i think it is much better to lose slowly but in a weigh that can be managed longer term, rather than quickly and then it all goes back on again when we start eating 'normally' again.
Ethan, I agree with imjessie. Can you not save your weeklies for weekends if that is where you struggle more? my very first time of joining WW many years ago I gave up chocolate and chips and also didn't eat out during the six months I was losing. Once I had a chocolate craving for two weeks and gained 11lbs! I never got that close to goal again and the weight just crept up and up and up. I now realise that if I make changes, they need to be sustainable in the longer term if I am going to suceed this time, when I have failed miserably in the past. I know that eating out is a part of my social life now and I need to be ale to manage these occasions. I also love chips, so building them in as a regular treat, really helps. I do have the occasional, chocolate treat too, but found I need them less now than I did in the beginning. Apart from this, the rest of the time I eat pretty healthily. I don't drink much now, but again, allow for it at the times I want to have a little tipple.
My coach was saying to a member the other day, if she keeps intending to do overnight oats but doesn't and has toast with butter, why is she trying to oats if toast is really what she wants. And maybe look st what she can change with the toast and have something with lower points on the toast instead of butter. I have managed to lose weight on both of my last holidays. Usually I would gain at least 7lbs, if not more. I have been careful, and walked much more, but also planned for treats too, so I don't feel like I am being deprived or missing out. Also I am finding replacing some of the snacks I used to have with lower pointed Cake recipes I have found, is really helping me now.