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Losing a couple of kg support thread

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GetYourHandOut · 28/04/2024 15:36

I'm blaming the shite weather rather than the biscuits but I'm still in my winter phase and am at the top end of my usual weight range.

I'd like to lose a couple of kg to feel more comfortable and confident as summer (hopefully) approaches.

Does anyone want to join me for a support and accountability thread?

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BogRollBOGOF · 22/07/2024 18:41

Good news, arm now functional and back to normal activity range...
Just in time for school holidays with a ravenous carb-hungry teen. Lunch was left-over bolognese today. I enjoyed it after my 5mi run.
DS moaned about the added lentils 🙄

Forgot to weigh in this morning. DS2 had loads of y6 leavers stuff to think about. Final primary school runs tomorrow 🥹
Although I haven't done many with him this year, and I think that loss of incidental exercise added to the gains over the winter that I'm trying to undo.

Defrump · 26/07/2024 18:10

Going on holiday tomorrow to Whitby for a week
Will not be watching my weight and plan to eat, drink and be merry
Current weight is around 54kg. My back is a lot better so I'm hoping to get lots of walks in aswell
Will weigh in on my return....

RamaSita · 29/07/2024 15:57

Ooh enjoy your holiday!

@Defrump and @BogRollBOGOF so pleased both back to fighting fit!

Well I've had my week away with family. I didn't go completely mad but did feel hungover one morning and there may have been several desserts enjoyed. Which was lovely! Scales this morning 70kg exactly which is kind of where I was 2 weeks ago but feel chilled about it all. Still feel so pleased with how I've committed to this and just chipped away at it very slowly week after week. I've started a new exercise class too! Many good habits formed.

Hope people have had a lovely sunny Monday!

BogRollBOGOF · 29/07/2024 18:36

It's been a sunny, run-ny Monday.
I forgot my weighin before breakfast. Last week was a bit middling. Fairly sensible by school holiday standards (messy week due to different break-up dates) but I'm not sure if it was enough to be productive.
Must focus more...
Then DS wanted to make cookies... but at least they were virtuously unprocessed 😂

RamaSita · 30/07/2024 09:19

@BogRollBOGOF did you remember to weigh in today? And tell me more about these cookies!
Toddler is waking up very early at the moment and I can't adjust my bedtime quick enough to counter it so am exhausted. Not conducive.
DH has put pie and salad on the menu for tonight - will make sure mine is a massive salad Smile and maybe some eggs and lentils for lunch?
This weight loss stuff preoccupies a lot of brain power doesn't it?

BogRollBOGOF · 30/07/2024 23:24

I did weigh in but not get the tape measure out. A pleasing 62.5kg. Had started on the thread at the start of June at 64kg, got down to 62.5 then a bounce back in the 63s when injury got in the way.

I think my waist might be getting more defined...
I like my exercise, and gaining muscle is a great thing, but it does make progress harder to read.

Still not really plan A mode with being out of term-time routine, but I'm being fairly sensible and at least staying active too.

BogRollBOGOF · 01/08/2024 20:30

Non-scale victory, I've lost an inch of my waist! I've begun to feel it this week.

Slipping on record keeping, but a home-made curry must tick about 15 plants in one go Grin

Defrump · 03/08/2024 07:45

Hello all
We have had a wonderful holiday, lots of sunshine and I've had fish and chips four times this week!
Lots of ice cream too
Dread to see what the scales will say
My weight before we left was 53.5kg
Tried to get lots of steps in but ended up sitting and reading the Kindle mainly. Oh well

Proteinpud · 04/08/2024 13:29

@Defrump I know we're all conditioned to judge ourselves by the weight on the scale, but remember you weren't actually happy with going as low as you did (I remember you were ill?), so going back up isn't necessarily a bad thing?

I stopped trying to lose and have weighed myself a couple of times since and have been pleasantly surprised that I've stayed around 59-60kg. Not sure how that works as I continued to keep my tracking habits and I'm generally somewhere between 1800-2200, yet wasn't losing unless I was 1500... I guess if I stay like this it could start creeping up after a while, but I'm still surprised I haven't actually gained. However my current gym programme is more muscle building focus than usual, so though I'll try and monitor the chocolate intake, I'm going to try and put the extra calories to good use!

Defrump · 04/08/2024 15:59

@Proteinpud
Absolutely yes
My weight is now around 54.7kg mainly because I didn't hold back. I do get worried if I start to lose too much so I am okay with this increase and I know I can lose it if I cut back. Def had way too much sugar so going cold turkey on that but will keep the carbs for the time being.

RamaSita · 06/08/2024 23:29

@Defrump @Proteinpud @BogRollBOGOF you are all doing so well! Great updates. @Defrump your holiday sounds ideal Smile

It's been 3 months now for me. I've lost 3.5kg and 3cm of my waist. I'm eating more protein and fruit, and farrr less chocolate, biscuits and buttery toast. I'm snacking less, feeling calmer and in control, and doing occasional exercise (was totally out of the habit). It's slow and steady, no doubt about that, but the motivation is going nowhere. I am determined to continue the efforts right to the end of the year and see what impact I can have on my BMI and waist. Would the GP agree to test my cholesterol does anyone know?

everycowandagain · 08/08/2024 15:57

Hey everyone! I am back from my holiday. Haven't really weighed myself yet but I reckon I am probably up a kilo or so, which is 100% fine. Easing back into my normal food habits this week, tracking loosely and planning to sit around maintenance for the foreseeable.

Hope everyone is doing ok!!

Defrump · 09/08/2024 10:51

Hey @everycowandagain
Welcome home!
Hope it was a good break
I can't believe I came back last Saturday, feels like months ago
I have not gone back to keto, I'm trying to reduce sugar tho as I notice I start to get skin tags if I have too much sweet stuff. Prob means I am prone to diabetes.
@RamaSita Did you get your cholesterol tested? I'm sure you could request the blood test from GP
Anyway, even eating not particularly well I have gone back down to 53.8kg, so I am sure you will drop that holiday weight down quickly.

everycowandagain · 13/08/2024 12:27

Well my 'relaxed maintenance' has immediately got a bit sloppy! I am going to go back to tracking I think, to try and reset my habits!!

RamaSita · 14/08/2024 17:21

@Defrump I had no idea about the skin tag and insulin resistance link, so interesting! Got lots during pregnancy. Not sure if they've changed at all. I can't be bothered with the admin of making a GP appt for a cholesterol test at the moment but perhaps in a couple more months. It would certainly be interesting to know if any change there.
I'm stuck at 69.5kg having had some more indulgent holiday type things going on. Quite looking forward to some aspects of autumn already I must admit - the back to school and well organised and routine side of things, with quiet evenings in! Although it's been a fun summer Smile

RamaSita · 21/08/2024 12:21

I've just been reading a thread where people have posted what they ate yesterday. It's eye opening! Making me wonder if a lot of people have disordered eating, or just the people who are drawn to reply to that thread? I'm not meaning to sound judgemental, I've had all sorts of days where my food intake would sound a bit wild, whether too little, too much, everything chocolate flavoured, etc. I wouldn't class my habits as disordered eating but I do use food for comfort and distraction (a habit I've done some work on these past 3.5 months).

Or possibly it's just not at all common for adults to eat three nutritionally balanced homemade meals with the odd indulgent drink or snack. Which is the standard I measure my own habits against if you know what I mean? Not what I always achieve by any stretch but the way I subconsciously feel I 'should' eat.

Interested in others' thoughts if you've seen the thread I mean.

everycowandagain · 22/08/2024 13:13

@RamaSita I didn't see that one but I have seen a lot of times where people post a perfectly normal day of food and someone says "that's far too much food!!". There's all kinds of crazy ideas about what 'good' or 'healthy' looks like round here!! People seeking advice generally end up with a load of conflicting views.

BogRollBOGOF · 28/08/2024 12:42

I tend to work of a basis of 2-3 meals a day. Probably something in between.
A healthy meal being carbs, protein, fruit/ veg.

Not that I stick to that flawlessly or I wouldn't be chasing a surplus half-stone. Grin But then again being 40+ with a surplus half-stone is a relatively healthy place to be. I just don't want it growing or to replace my clothes.

I grew up with a fairly standard 80s diet of toast/ cereal for breakfast, school lunch and hot dinner- could be home cooked, could be something like Fray Bentos pies with tinned spuds and tinned veg, or beans on toast. Snacking frowned upon.

There does seem to be a general lack of understanding about what bodies need for general good health (without going into the minefield of optimal diets for different niches). Then there's the orthorexic zealots which MN has in abundance!

I am interested in general good health and when new or conflicting information comes out, I try to have the perspective of thinking about the big picture of health and what seems to have worked or not. A lot of diet advice in recent decades doesn't seem to have helped public health in recent decades- low fat diet foods, introducing sweetners, snacking " to keep your metabolism high". I'd rather tweak the proportions of food on my plate and generally have decent habits.

I also don't do "bad food" and "good food". There's obviously more nutritious food I need more of, and less nutritious food that I need less food, but the food or me eating it has no moral value.

Anyway, back to school mode approaches 🎉
After a rather disrupted 3 weeks of holidays, socialising, events and not being home enough to buy loads of salad, the damage is... back to square 1.
But- that is no net gain since starting at the begining of June, and I only really had a month before injury issues got in the way and stalled progress. So that's not bad.
I just need to get back in mode next week when normality resumes.
I should have a decent run of routine through the autumn to make progress before the festive disruption.

RamaSita · 30/08/2024 23:57

@BogRollBOGOF couldn't agree more with your view on a healthy diet.
No net gain IS a real positive, and you could have easily put on weight with the injury I imagine? You sound committed still, and ready for a routine. What will help you put that in place? What guidelines will you aim to live by (eat by)?
Festive disruption is an excellent phrase - argh you've given me the dread! Is it inconceivable that I'll keep up my improved habits through Nov and Dec?! I really hope not but can just see it all going to pot...

BogRollBOGOF · 31/08/2024 03:41

I've written out my tracking sheet into my notebook ready for next week.

I have a tally for drinks of water
List my 30 plants
Step count
Record exercise breaks and active calories burned

It's concentrating on healthy, positive habits.

Next week is near normal (easier child off school for a couple more days!) so it's about habit building.
After that I might do a MFP check-in week. It's too tedious to use constantly- I do too much spontaneous creation of food, but the ballpark numbers are useful from time to time.

BogRollBOGOF · 31/08/2024 03:55

In recent years I've reined back on mince pies. Realising that one box is a HM worth of running some years back was a big dose of perspective. And I can get through a box of mince pies so much quicker than 2hr 15min Grin

DH has been working on his health in the last 18m or so and that helps because he's always gone into holiday mode with a big sweet binge, both holidays and Christmas, which either means constant resistance (not fun) or catching up with the consequences later on.

It's also helped over the summer as he's been signing me in to his gym as a guest while my usual classes are off, so I've been progressing not regressing. I've also kept running milage up now the DCs can be left for a few hours. Last summer I managed a 5k improvers plan and before that it was squeezing in short runs around DH.

everycowandagain · 01/09/2024 11:02

@BogRollBOGOF no net gain is an achievement. And not all progress is about scale weight.

@RamaSita I minimise festive weight gain by trying not to start Christmas too early. If it's a free for all for 2 months then it's a lot of work to undo afterwards so I focus on keeping as many of my 'normal' food and activity habits in place until as close to Christmas as possible. It's not easy because it's such a busy time but I am always thankful for my meal prep breakfasts etc because it keeps me on track much more. I enjoy what I want but don't go completely off track for 10 weeks.

RamaSita · 02/09/2024 09:49

@everycowandagain that is such a good point. I was thinking to make a note of the indulgent things I fancy and spread them out across the period and be mindful about them as treats rather than just eating things because they're lying around. Which would be a good approach in some ways, but you're right that actually properly minimising the period of relaxing the rules is a really good way to keep things simple. We will be away with family a lot no doubt, so I'll work around that period and stick to my usual habits otherwise. Thanks for the tip! I will also ask close family not to buy me chocolate this year - we had sooo much last year, even with diligent efforts it still lasted almost to Easter which was the same problem again!

I'm really pleased to report that this week I've broken through another kg 'threshold' as it were, so now 68.4kg compared with 73 when I started (nearly 4 months ago!). I'm now just about a healthy BMI which was a key goal of mine. Delighted!

Will press on for September and hope to be 67kg by the end of this month.

BogRollBOGOF · 04/09/2024 16:50

Normal routines now in motion.
Fridge contains decent food.
Mojo wobbly. I think it's that the weather's been iffy this week- it started off doing a good impression of November. Plus hormones are in their sluggish carbs mode.
Some decent food choices being made but I'm not feeling the enthusiasm and feeling focused.

Hopefully next week being normal and hormone balance shifting will make things click.

I struggle for inspiration in the autumn too. My family and I have different tastes in veg (I like Mediteranean and they like Sunday dinner) so summer marinaded BBQ meats and salad works well for all of us.

Proteinpud · 04/09/2024 20:44

My jeans started to get a bit tight so I'm back on it again, even if its just for a week or two. My appetite has been a lot lower than usual, possibly because I've done less exercise/strength training (illness/injury). Had a few days this week that have been sub 1400 with a good amount of protein & fibre, so I figure that can't hurt.

@BogRollBOGOF hope you find that mojo! I had some amazing Chinese beef noodle soup this weekend and it's inspired me to start looking up recipes, to me it's the perfect combination of fresh veg, protein and autumn comfort food.

@everycowandagain I agree with you, I try and keep Christmas food days to the days that I have off work only (which is usually less than two weeks) It's very easy for Christmas to start 1st December otherwise! Plus I found looking up calories helpful to make informed decisions. I'm not particularly bothered about mince pies and when I realised how high calorie they were I realised I was better off switching to something else.