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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

Has anyone got 2 stone to lose? I'm starting tomorrow (Monday).

727 replies

Dalmatian2017 · 27/03/2016 10:19

I'm looking for a buddy to join me and help motivate to lose some of this flab! I'm 5'7" and about 12st but will weigh in tomorrow morning.

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ThisToo · 31/03/2016 08:41

Thanks cocoa I did suspect that, although considered a source of protein for veggie diets, pulses/lentils would be a no-no for low carb diets. I also like quorn pieces and mince so will focus on them instead (the kids will be grateful). I bought some frozen quorn sausages last week though and found them really claggy so won't be buying them again.
Expanding A veg hangover is a cruel price to pay for making such good choices last night. Hope you're feeling better.

hollyisalovelyname · 31/03/2016 08:49

Could somebody please post what is a great breakfast, lunch and dinner to eat as a dieter that ensures you won't hit the snacks.
Thanks in advance.

ijustwanttobeme · 31/03/2016 09:09

cocoaone re: late night munchies- I brush my teeth so then I won't eat anything else. This has often meant brushing my teeth quite soon after dinner, but it does help.

Well done too, for starting the shred. I've started Insanity- 5 days so far. My DSS is doing it too, so he's my motivation not to give up. Only 55 days to go Grin.

I'm not adding the exercise to MFP though, as when it adds on extra 'available calories', I end up using them too and I'd like to stay well under. So far, it's working for me, plus I've added all the MFP'ers from here to keep me on track.

holly I'm low carbing, so often have:

ham/cheese/eggs for breakfast
huge salad for lunch with chicken/fish/meat
chicken/fish/meat with lots of low carb veggies for dinner

Snacks I have walnut halves (7 is my max), olives, greek yoghurt (plain), or baby bels and pepperamis.

I drink herbal tea (current fave is Taylors Lemongrass and Ginger) or spiced tea (Palanquin), but also the odd skinny latte if i'm out and about (it's LC, but hey).

If I'm sensible with portion sizes, all of the above just fits into my 1200 cals per day on MFP.

ijustwanttobeme · 31/03/2016 09:11

not LC, but hey...

Kreeshsheesh · 31/03/2016 09:18

Morning all! I went to bed feeling hungry last night. Sad I've been so used to filling up on rubbish recently that my body has got a shock. My MFP target is 1560 kcals a day. That seems much higher than some of you. Does that mean I won't lose any weight? I've tried losing 2lbs a week before - never worked for me. I've turned my measurement into kilos so I don't feel upset by reading it, (I don't really understand kilos, haha.) I don't eat meat, but find that quorn sometimes upsets my tum. (too much wind!) I struggle to find meals to make that are easy and that everyone will eat. Have a good day everyone.

hollyisalovelyname · 31/03/2016 09:54

Thank you Ijustwantobeme.
What are low carb veggies ?

ijustwanttobeme · 31/03/2016 10:05

Kreesh It's all in relation to your height and weight isn't it?

MFP it sorted it all for me, so assume its done based on height/weight/ desired weight loss pw entered.

what sorts of foods do you like and can you tolerate ( my non meat eating DP also has wind issues with quorn) ? Have a fab mushroom pasta dish, that's only 500 per portion (just MFP'd it to double check). Sometimes I make it but just have a small portion and just have loads of salad to go with it:

Chopped two packs of assorted mushrooms and crushed garlic in a tiny amount of olive oil.
Add a small pack (150g) of dolce latte cheese and stir till melted.
Add 1/2 a big tub of single cream (could use elmlea I guess, but not tried)
Whisk two eggs and stir in then season with salt and plenty of black pepper
Add to cooked pasta (wholewheat if being super healthy)
Turn into a greased baking dish and top with a pack of grated light mozzarella

Bake for around 30/ 40 minutes in a 180 oven (timings are approx as my oven is a bit temperamental) -serve with salad.

(Back in non diet days I'd have used two packs of cheese and double cream Blush)

SoakedinBleach · 31/03/2016 10:33

kreesh Google TDEE calculator and you can work out your calorie intake to stay the same weight at your activity level. You then deduct 3000 from the weeks total for 1lb weight loss. I've found it quite accurate but the total figure can be scary if your a shortie like me!

TippyTappyLappyToppy · 31/03/2016 10:40

Cocoa you need to read up more on low carbing, it actually has a proven reverse effect on bad cholesterol, in spite of how it might seem.

Low carbing really really works, (if you stick to it and don't cheat) but in the short term it requires you to eat a lot of fat and protein but very few carbs, then eventually you return to a more balanced system but still picking your carbs wisely and keeping them within limits.

The danger with low carbing (as I have found to my cost many times) is that you can stuff your face full of butter, cream, cheese etc and miraculously lose A LOT of weight pretty quickly, but if you don't stick to it and make sure you remain in a state of ketosis, but keep yo-yoing in and out of ketosis or starting the day on a low carb, high fat diet and ending it on 3 glasses of wine and half a packet of digestive before bed as you fall off the wagon yet again, you are taking on zillions more calories than you might otherwise have done if you just ate 'normally' by eating too many carbs and not actively trying to up your fat levels. Does that make sense?

Giving it a proper go takes a real leap of faith in the first few days when you really do need to eat a lot of fat and protein to get yourself well and truly going, then it becomes much easier after that and you soon find you don't need to eat a huge quantity of anything much, but you can if you want to, so long as it's low in carbs. Unlike a calorie controlled diet where you max out quickly and if you are still hungry then tough luck.

The other danger of low carbing is that when you have lost your weight and are just trying to maintain it, you become accustomed to being able to eat all those previously demonised high fat / low sugar foods like avocados, egg yolks, nuts, lard, butter etc, and you keep doing it even when you aren't actively trying to diet and cut the carbs. Once you know that they aren't the work of the devil and in many cases are actually incredibly good for you, you think 'why not?'

But if you are going to be eating everything in moderation to maintain your weight loss then that's exactly what it has to be - MODERATION! Not wolloping great slabs of butter and cheese on your Ryvitas or your little bit of bread if you are going to allow yourself Ryvitas and bread, because it's too highly calorific overall and if you are not trying to get into ketosis (or have knocked yourself out of it by eating too many ryvitas) then all those calories from fat will now count. So you are back where you started. Confused

Personally I could never go back to counting calories or doing the everything in moderation way of dieting. I find it easier to just stay away from high sugar or wheat based foods altogether. I can't eat them in moderation, they set off a chain reaction in me of wanting more and more. Even if for example I ate supposedly healthy and satisfying porridge with apple or raisins or banana for breakfast, my sugar cravings will spiked and I want to snack on carbs all day long, then feeling inexplicably tired and lethargic and craving more carbs, even if I know logically I've had enough food.

And I love porridge but I don't want to eat it without some sugar, so even though the porridge is supposedly good for me and will fill me up, the sugar will make me crave more sugar as will the carbs in the porridge.

Proteins and fats satiate your appetite better than low fat or fat free carbs will, but of course fats are very high in calories, so when combined with carbs you are getting the worst of both worlds because every calorie counts. Unless you do LOADS of exercise to burn it off.

For people who are unsure of how low carbing works, in a very simplistic nutshell, it's this:

Eating fats and proteins in pretty large quantities in the absence of very many carbs will mean that the calories DON'T get converted to fat and stored as unused energy (body fat) for another day, they just get partially used and the rest flushed out. In the absence of many carbs in your diet your body will always chose to take your stored body fat and burn it for energy first, rather than use the calories that you've eaten from fat or protein that day.

But as soon as you eat some carbs it will chose to use those first instead because they are quicker and easier to convert to instant energy than either dietary fat and proteins or stored body fat. That's why allowing carbs in your diet in any great quantity (regardless of how apparently healthy their source is - fruit and wholegrains or quinoa for example) will always mean slower weight loss. Because unless you exercise like crazy to burn MORE energy than the energy you just took in from the food you ate, all you are ever doing is topping your body up with a readily available and easily converted source of energy - carbs. So your stored body fat stays exactly where it is.

It's the equivalent of having a full fridge and still going food shopping every three days, shoving more food into the front of the fridge and ignoring what's already in there, using whatever's nearest/freshest at the front then complaining you've got too much unused stuff at the back. Grin

CoffeeAndOranges · 31/03/2016 10:47

Hi, not RTFT but can I join in? I have about 2 stone to lose to get to my pre pregnancy weight, 1.5 til I can (probably) fit back into my pre preg clothes.

I have a 4 month old breastfed baby who has reflux and wakes several times a night, so I often get very hungry in the night if I've been up a while.

I like to eat whole foods but find that some of the foods that are great and full of nutrients are also full of calories- dates, nut butters etc.

I currently am not exercising as I am waiting for physio as post c section and pregnancy I still have a clunk in my pelvis and a slight ab split so daren't do anything until I have prescribed exercises in case I make it worse. I used to run several times a week and also did body attack and resistance training at the gym. All that has now gone and I really miss it.

I might just have to aim to maintain until I can get more active as being hungry and sleep deprived isn't a good combo. But this thread might help me stay away from too much junk and keep my head in the zone!

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littleleftie · 31/03/2016 10:49

According to the TDEE I should be maintaining on 1659 calories with my totally sedentary lifestyle, so I don't understand why 1200 calories isn't doing much.

It also says my ideal weight is 125 - 132 lbs at which I would look shocking. Once you get over 50 you do need a bit of fat on your face! I don't really want to fall below 140lbs or I will look haggard. Still,getting below 12 stone would be a start Sad

lorelei9here · 31/03/2016 11:04

hi Coffee! Welcome.

LittleLeftie -sorry but the TDEE doesn't work for me either. I can't recall what it allows me but it's pretty much a nonsense for me. It might be the same for you and in terms of weight range, I used to be underweight and I recently saw a calculator that made my underweight weight okay. I did look okay on it but in my 30s - I can imagine I would look haggard now.

You have lost weight though yes - you're just on a plateau? Don't lose heart. Takes the body a while to figure out what's going on I think.

Titsalinabumsquash · 31/03/2016 11:11

I'm late to the party but after gaining 4lbs over Easter I am finally appalled at the food I was eating, junk and more junk in vast quantities. Blush

I'm 10st 11oz and I would ideally like to get to 9st.

I also loathe throwing things away so for the next 2 weeks I'm using up the 3 boxes of tesco ultraslim shakes. I know it's not the best way to lose weight and I know they're mainly sugar but I can't waste £30! Plus it might at least give me an initial boost.

I'm on day 3 now of shake for breakfast and lunch and then a regular dinner, it does say you can have 2 snacks of fruit/veg a day but I don't always, sometimes I have one and sometimes I have none.

Normally I can't see my weight gain. It's a shock to look at a photo but this time I really noticed it in my face and flabby belly so I had to do something!

I'm still bfing 11 month old DD and I'm on the pill which makes me retain weight but something needs to happen before I tip into the next stone bracket. If you'll have me that is?!

LMGTFY · 31/03/2016 11:35

I'm in. 5'5" and approx 12 1/2 stone. Just place marking for now so it's in the threads I'm on but will start in the morning when I can weigh myself.

Clutterbugsmum · 31/03/2016 11:54

Can I join.

Weigh in: 14st 0lb
Lbs lost this week: 0
Lbs lost overall: 0
Goal weight: - not sure, but would like to be a size 12/14 (to start with) am 16/18 at the moment
Age: 46
Height: 5'2"
Motivation: Need to lose weight due to being pre diabetic !

ChubbyMummy12 · 31/03/2016 12:16

Completed a Zumba session on the wii for the second day in a row! My god I was sweating. It will all be worth it in the end :)

thecountrysideistooquiet · 31/03/2016 12:33

Hi everyone, I have had a read through the thread and added people on MFP who have given their user names. Mine is julzfd. I am 5'7" and have just weighed my self and I am 186.6lbs, the heaviest I have ever been in my life, I weigh more now than I did when I was pregnant and I only have 1 child and he is 6 and a half now, if I never had trades people in the house right now I would burst into tears I am so upset with myself Sad I am going to be taking up karate starting this Saturday and have downloaded C25K. Stress plays a big part on my over eating these days but unfortunately I have so much stressful stuff going on it is hard to think about diet and exercise.

ExpandingRoundTheMiddle · 31/03/2016 12:41

I think the 'stuff yourself with raw veg' diet must be working - I've hardly left the loo all day. I must be stones lighter surely. There can be nothing left. Sad

Cocoaone · 31/03/2016 12:45

Tippytappy- re cholesterol - because mine is hereditary, my liver doesn't process fats in the same way as 'normal' people. So instead of the fat receptors sweeping away the extra cholesterol, they ignore it so it ends up collecting in my arteries. In 'normal' people, their receptors just deal with the extra cholesterol so it doesn't have as great of an effect.

When I was 22, 9.5 stone and fairly healthy and active, my cholesterol was 8.4 Confused I haven't been tested in 18 months, and I'm dreading the next one hence why it's been put off for so long

AngelBlue12 · 31/03/2016 12:59

Hi, can I join in please?

Weigh in: 11st 11lb (friday last week)
Lbs lost this week: ? (will update tomorrow)
Lbs lost overall: 8lbs
Goal weight: 9st 6lb
Age: 34
Height: 5'5.5"
Motivation: I just bought some gorgeous cowboy boots but I can't fit in my skinny jeans to wear with them and I am not buying bigger skinny jeans...

Kreeshsheesh · 31/03/2016 13:22

Everyone who has joined in - I think we should all pat ourselves on the back for taking the first step. If you're feeling stressed or comfort eating (I am guilty of this), don't be too hard on yourself. Small steps can lead to big changes. Expanding, my tummy goes crazy at the start of eating more fruit/veg. Was dreadful when I did SW (I blame artificial sweeteners) It does settle down I think once your body gets used to the extra fibre. I hope your tummy is better asap. Flowers to all of us!

proudmom135 · 31/03/2016 13:34

Hi lovely,

To avoid eating snacks, you need to eat meals on low amount but more frequent. By this, you'll always full but your body can easily digest the food intake.

Hope this helps!

Smile
Titsalinabumsquash · 31/03/2016 15:49

What I've found from drinking the Shakes is it has really made me notice how awfully I was eating before. I joins a lot of other people in saying I was going to diet from Jan 1st but my head just wasn't in it, I can't diet if I don't have the right head on if that makes any sense.
I was eating 2 slices of toast slathered in butter and jam and a big bowl of cereal for breakfast then having another couple of slices of toast mid day before having a sandwich stuffed with cheese, ham, mayo and salad for lunch with a bag of crisps, chocolate bar and fruit and then having another snack mid afternoon of biscuits with my coffee and then a huge takeaway dinner or giant bowls of pasta and cheesy sauce, no wonder I ballooned but something clicked and I was suddenly not enjoying the food anymore. I'm glad it did before I got any bigger.

lorelei9here · 31/03/2016 15:59

Expanding - oh dear. Are you sure you haven't got a bug of some sort?

ExpandingRoundTheMiddle · 31/03/2016 16:37

Could be. There's a first time for everything, I suppose. My stomach is usually like a galvanised tank - what goes down stays down! Smile but I'm feeling better now (and less bloaty) so I'm going to risk hot yoga tonight.