Hi Yule, when we go out for the day i tend to take a picnic but my kids are small and i am tight!
Can you steer where you go for a meal? Say Nandos and not have chips, or carvery with no carbs.
When we do go out i try and avoid places where carb avoidance is hard. At our favourite thai place i have tom yum soup and chicken satay instead of something with rice. There are some nice restaurants where we live that do good food (non chain type) and i find it easy to eat there as the food tends to be quite rich and i just ask for no potatoes and extra seasonal veg with butter- these places the food is all freshly cooked so its easy to adapt something.
In pub type places i have a steak and salad or broccoli.
I do have to avoid all pizza places, fast food etc. Sometimes we go for a greasy spoon place where they do an all day breakfast. Even some of the Italian chain places do steaks or baked chicken dishes with bacon and cheese alforno. Research is key, i dont go anywhere without studying the menu online.
It must be hard with teenage DDs as you dont want to make a big deal over dieting and eating.
My DD asked why i ate differently from her and i told her that i had a poorly tummy and the doctor told me to! She was happy with that but then she is 3! Thats why i would like to get this done now.
Can you not explain to your daughters that your weight is on the higher side and you are doing the healthy thing by getting it back under control and you will avoiding certain foods, without making it a huge deal? I believe lower carb is healthier and fat isnt the enemy but thats totally contrary to what is taught in schools. Its hard isnt it, girls can be so funny about bodies and weight, i certainly was.
I usually shop in Aldi where the choice is very limited but i do a monthly shop in sainsburys for bits i cant get elsewhere and i often have a good rummage around the shelves the carb count of prepared stuff varies enormously - Lloyd Grossman jars are good for a lazy quick meal and relatively low in carbs with less unpronounceable stuff in. Jars of paste tend to be better than jars of sauce. I have had to switch brands in several things - although i am cooking from scratch more often now but it is good to have a jar in for those days you cant be bothered!
I have had to change the way i cook and learn new recipes as i was brought up in a low fat household and did SW for years - didnt bloody work! Now i love butter and cream and food tastes so much nicer.
I did legs, bums and tums yesterday and everything from my shoulders to my knees hurt so breakfast was a BPC with painkillers!