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Paul McKenna's 'I Can Make You Thin' Thread #15...The New Beginning!

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Solo · 05/05/2014 11:53

Welcome to thread #15 of the Paul McKenna's I Can Make You Thin weight loss system.

The Golden Rules that will aid you on your journey with our like minded friendly support system are:

  1. Eat what you WANT
  2. Eat when you are HUNGRY
  3. Eat CONSCIOUSLY
  4. STOP eating when you are satisfied and full

HELPFUL TIPS!
Lots of chewing; at least 20 chews per mouthful.

Ask yourself "am I really hungry?" Listen for your 'full signal' and leave at least a mouthful on your plate at every meal. Eat your favourite thing from your plate first so that if you get to the full signal, but have your favourite food still sitting there, you aren't going to 'make room' for it because you love it, it will have already gone.

Admire something about yourself every day in the mirror.
Try to move more; dance around the living room or walk to school...use the stairs...small things, but good things!

This weight loss system is about re-educating your body; learning to listen to it and in doing so losing weight and inches. After all, eating a meal is not a competition, it's about enjoying what you are putting into your mouth and body, but not feeling bloated and uncomfortable (or guilty) afterwards!
Many people have issues around food. Many of us have been brought up by the 'clear your plate' parents of yesteryear which leave us feeling guilty if we leave even the smallest morsel of food, but we are working through this guilt or any other hang up we may have, and we are learning to leave a bit on the plate; return to it another time if we really want to or even feed it to the dog or the bin!
So!! forget diets; they may work for a while, but they aren't permanent solutions. This is a new way of living for your brand new life!! Let's get lighter for those summer outfits!!

The Paul McKenna system really works and is easy to maintain.

I've C&P'd our previous threads links as they are helpful.

Here are the book choices on AMAZON which is all you need to get started! they aren't compulsory, but they do help! it's something to refer to and listening to the cd's can really focus you.

This is the tapping technique EXPLAINED - this can be useful to combat cravings.

You don't have to buy the book and CD, but we have found that they do help and somehow they keep you on track, so it would probably be a good investment and will cost you far less than a couple of trips to WW or SW meetings, so do consider having them in your life.

Please feel free to join us, whether it's 10lbs or 10 stones you want to lose.
We are friendly, supportive and successful, but we're not hungry and that is a great way to feel when you are dropping dress sizes at the same time!!! so come on in and start living your new life today and make 2014 your year to drop a dress size or several...if we can get those lbs off a few at a time, just think how we could look and feel for the sunny summer time!!!
Some of our thread members are also doing PMK's Virtual Gastric Band and although this thread is not about this avenue, we will still be supportive of our friends partaking of this, so don't think we won't be there for you. I'm pretty sure that the Golden Rules will be just as helpful in this process as the I Can Make You Thin process Smile so get stuck in Smile

Here is a link to From Emotional Eating which may give some insight into why we do this and help us beat it.

Ps. Could we all try to sign in at least every few days so that someone is there? We have established that it's no fun talking to ourselves and also that if there is a new joiner, it's good to say 'hello and welcome' to them too.

Ok! Let's Focus and See Ourselves wearing that body we desire! learning to love ourselves is an important daily step, so let's become LOSERS in order to be WINNERS!!! :)

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Solo · 25/09/2014 13:45

How are you all doing?

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Milllie · 25/09/2014 17:00

I did post a post just before yours Solo. Did you see it?

Solo · 25/09/2014 23:08

Hi Millie :) I agree with all that you say there. I do wish I could exercise :(

I am still at a stone off, but need to bump it up a gear somehow. I'd love to go to another seminar. That was SOOO good!

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gunsandbanjos · 26/09/2014 20:59

Evening! Has anyone else done the gastric band hypnosis? I know this thread isn't particularly for it but asking anyway:-) did anyone else get a really weird feeling under their ribs on the right? I get really bloated and full feeling under my ribs if I eat too much. Is that the band?

Hope everyone else is doing well :-)

Solo · 27/09/2014 02:52

Hi guns yes, a few of us have done/are doing the HGB and yes! that is the band working!! as I said in the OP, if you want to do the HGB and be here on this thread for support, no problem at all. It still follows the Golden Rules doesn't it, so carry on banding!!! Grin

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gunsandbanjos · 27/09/2014 08:34

Thanks solo:-) it just feels really weird but whatever works is good!

Solo · 29/09/2014 18:49

Oooh! we have slowed down! where is everyone? how is it going? I am seemingly stuck, but maintaining.

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gunsandbanjos · 29/09/2014 19:59

I'm here, plodding along!

I'm maintaining, not gaining which is good. I'm still 10lbs off which is better than nothing.
Want to lose about 2 more stone ish.

Solo · 30/09/2014 00:39

Me too guns I'll be happy with a further 2 stones off.

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mrsmilesmatheson · 30/09/2014 20:56

I'm still here. Haven't weighed in for ages as a bit scared to. But my clothes haven't got any tighter so ...

Anyway, September was rubbish. Back to work, let the stress get to me. Am determined to be back on it now. Have made some changes at work hopefully for the better and am re reading the book and will do the havening DVD on my days off.

Have eaten mindfully today, and as ever am surprised at how little I wanted when I really thought about it. Out for quick dinner with dh and really enjoyed my food Grin

Am somehow feeling better suddenly. This is one plan you need to be in the right head space for it to work.

Solo · 01/10/2014 00:33

Hi mrs :) yes, you are right, you do need to be in the right place to do this woe well. May I humbly suggest that here is the right place?! keep posting, keep up with the golden rules and keep on losing weight!! :)

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PoirotsMoustache · 01/10/2014 10:19

Hello all. I'm back on here after several a few weeks of rebelling. I hit a massive wall (not literally!) and just absolutely had enough of watching/thinking about what I was eating, so I stopped. I have probably put on a couple of pounds - I've not weighed myself, but I can see that I've gained. Which I was expecting, obviously.

Last week I started doing the couch to 5k program, and I'm starting to feel a little bit more ready and willing to think about my food intake, as I don't really want to cancel out all of the effort I'm making with 'running'. So, I think this week I will read through the book properly all the way, and listen to the CD. I have been noticing when I'm full more often, despite my reluctance to think about what's going in my mouth, and I have noticed myself deciding not to eat (sometimes) when I'm not hungry. So I just have to be more pro-active about it. Baby steps!

Anyway, I'm just getting thoughts down on here really, so feel free to ignore this post Smile

PoirotsMoustache · 01/10/2014 10:47

Oops, underline fail! Blush

Solo · 01/10/2014 13:25

Not ignoring Poirot! Welcome back :) I sat and ate a load of salted peanuts last night and the night before and I also have eaten other 'naughty' things...so we can climb back on together!

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PoirotsMoustache · 02/10/2014 08:44

Thank you, Solo. I've also been eating rather a lot of salted peanuts lately. And crisps, especially the ones that you can't stop eating once you pop them open.

Are you feeling ready to climb back on? I'm nearly there...

mrsmilesmatheson · 02/10/2014 12:43

Hmmmm salted peanuts Grin making me hungry now.

Day 3 of bring back on plan, retracing the book, albeit slowly. This one is not as easy to read as the others I find.

It's nice to know there are others of you starting again. Thanks for the encouragement solo. Although, you realise you've just encouraged me to bore you all to death with my ramblings lol WinkGrin

Hand got all my paperwork done and cooking lentil and veg soup for lunch with lots of garlic and ginger to get rid of the tail end of a cold. Tesco man is due shortly with my yummy seeded bread rolls and I have some real
Butter in the house for a change.

Solo · 03/10/2014 00:25
Grin

Have any of you noticed that at the beginning of the thread, it now says weight loss chat and that it will disappear in 90 days?! that's new right? not happy about it disappearing at all. How can we be encouraged or recap, re read if it goes poooof!Hmm

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Milllie · 03/10/2014 01:34

I can't see that SoloConfused

PoirotsMoustache · 03/10/2014 08:30

Goodness, yes, I see it. That's really no good. Can we mention it to MNHQ?

mrsmilesmatheson · 03/10/2014 09:23

Maybe we should ask for our own paul McKenna section Smile

Milllie · 03/10/2014 10:25

I have messaged MN to ask about moving us to our own slot. I can't see the ninety day thing on my phone but have taken your word for it. Smile

Solo · 03/10/2014 11:32

Yes, we could have a Paul McKenna section all of our own!

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Solo · 03/10/2014 11:35

Thanks Millie :)

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Milllie · 03/10/2014 17:22

Could we (if you haven't already) all report/message MN to request that we have a section of our own so that we don't lose all the threads that Solo has started because that would be a great shame. Smile

mrsmilesmatheson · 03/10/2014 17:54

Have asked Smile