Ahh.....Lavendersblue - you were our biggest loser weren't you?
Am sure BIWI will be along with her big stick, but sending my 'don't give up' message! (Glad to see you've decided not to, but just sending encouragement.)
You've done so amazingly well. I'm sorry to hear DH not been supportive. 'Scuse my cod psychology, but do you think some of it might be jealousy and/or fear of you 'changing'?
(I only say this as I had a friend once who wanted her DP to stay big, so that other women were less likely to pinch him - true!)
But regardless, you're doing so bloody well. Ignore the remarks and keep doing what makes you feel and look good - for you!