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What opinion about WLI would you not normally admit to?

212 replies

LittleMissContrari · 03/08/2025 19:42

Do you have an unpopular or unpalatable opinion?

Mine is that if you can't do the maths, you probably shouldn't be messing about with the dosage.

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Nellodee · 05/08/2025 08:08

I hate it when I see threads entitled “Is anyone else starting Mounjaro this week?”

Noooo, there are millions of people on this drug, but you’re the only one starting this week. Or, alternatively, you could look at the board and see that there are groups for every month. Either join the group for your month, or if there isn’t one yet, make one.

Same goes if you get pregnant!

usedtobeaylis · 05/08/2025 11:10

I didn't really consider how easy it would be to go too far at the other end and how dishonestly people could still obtain the medication. I feel like I'm using it responsibly and healthily but I can see how easily you could get into the 'just a little more' mindset.

I wouldn't be opposed to in-person services at pharmacies but a pp did highlight that you're then putting up barriers in various ways for some of the people who are the ones who would really benefit. So I don't know what the answer is but it's good to be aware of where people are being dishonest. Maybe GPs need to be informed as a matter of course.

CatsorDogsrule · 05/08/2025 11:50

Mamansparkles · 05/08/2025 07:35

I work closely with the community eating disorders team through my work. Patient numbers are skyrocketing. Both because anorexics are easily able to get hold of these drugs, and because so many people (predominantly women) who have started these drugs legitimately have ended up underweight with eating disorders as a result. They are very worried about what this is going to look like in a few years time.
Unpopular because people who do qualify don't want it to be harder to get (understandably) but I think it needs to have far more checks in place, in person pharmacy distribution only, through GP surgeries (not necessarily GPs themselves but other practitioners) or specialist weight loss clinics run by medical professionals and tougher penalties for beauticians and hair salons selling it - it's drug dealing and should be treated that way. This is a prescription medication and it needs to be available to those who qualify with ongoing decent quality follow up to ensure they aren't descending into problems, and not available to those who don't.

That is worrying. How many of the people are seriously underweight and are getting legal medications such as Mounjaro which is only licensed through legitimate prescribers?

Disclosing previous eating disorders would usually be an automatic refusal to prescribe. There may be some pharmacies not making the correct checks frequently enough so some determined abusers of the medication may slip through.

I would have thought the numbers must be miniscule compared with those for people buying dangerous, fake, illegal products such as relabelled insulin, or powder in vials and syringes with unknown contents from hairdressers and other black market sources.

I never understand why data about people sourcing illegal drugs is used as evidence for stricter controls on legitimately prescribed medication.

Most pharmacies have really tightened up their follow up already, so the people abusing the legal medication to continue losing weight beyond a safe level should find it increasingly difficult to continue to be prescribed.

VelociraptorsVelociRapping · 05/08/2025 11:58

CatsorDogsrule · 05/08/2025 11:50

That is worrying. How many of the people are seriously underweight and are getting legal medications such as Mounjaro which is only licensed through legitimate prescribers?

Disclosing previous eating disorders would usually be an automatic refusal to prescribe. There may be some pharmacies not making the correct checks frequently enough so some determined abusers of the medication may slip through.

I would have thought the numbers must be miniscule compared with those for people buying dangerous, fake, illegal products such as relabelled insulin, or powder in vials and syringes with unknown contents from hairdressers and other black market sources.

I never understand why data about people sourcing illegal drugs is used as evidence for stricter controls on legitimately prescribed medication.

Most pharmacies have really tightened up their follow up already, so the people abusing the legal medication to continue losing weight beyond a safe level should find it increasingly difficult to continue to be prescribed.

I can think of several threads started by MNers who have accessed the drugs by legitimately meeting the prescribing criteria but without disclosing a history of ED which should be an immediate contraindication, as you say. In at least two of the threads I'm thinking of the WLI had clearly triggered a relapse of the ED which the poster had no intention of treating. There's often an assumption that eating disorder = anorexia but only a fairly small proportion of people who suffer from ED are dangerously underweight. Many are overweight or obese.

It's a problem that currently private prescribers rely on the customer honestly and accurately self-reporting their medical history and this is going to have to change. There needs to be a clear link between medical notes and private prescriptions but the NHS could not cope with this at the moment. I've lost count of the number of threads posted on here asking for providers who won't notify your GP of your private prescription...Hmm

CatsorDogsrule · 05/08/2025 12:28

VelociraptorsVelociRapping · 05/08/2025 11:58

I can think of several threads started by MNers who have accessed the drugs by legitimately meeting the prescribing criteria but without disclosing a history of ED which should be an immediate contraindication, as you say. In at least two of the threads I'm thinking of the WLI had clearly triggered a relapse of the ED which the poster had no intention of treating. There's often an assumption that eating disorder = anorexia but only a fairly small proportion of people who suffer from ED are dangerously underweight. Many are overweight or obese.

It's a problem that currently private prescribers rely on the customer honestly and accurately self-reporting their medical history and this is going to have to change. There needs to be a clear link between medical notes and private prescriptions but the NHS could not cope with this at the moment. I've lost count of the number of threads posted on here asking for providers who won't notify your GP of your private prescription...Hmm

Absolutely not disputing this. So many people on here have been rejected for disclosing BED, but would probably really benefit from the medication without a danger of developing other disorders such as anorexia. (I'm not an expert.)

A few threads from people in danger with anorexia, etc, is a few too many, they are worrying. Those few do get lost in the sea of many thousands of other WLI threads from legitimate users, so I wonder if this is representative of the real world figures. That's what I was hoping PP could give a snapshot of from her real experience.

Removing illegal drug users from the figures of legitimate should give a truer picture of how much pharmacies need to change or for some to simply tighten up their processes.

In a perfect NHS, yes GP's would be involved, but I don't see that happening any time soon.

Periperi2025 · 05/08/2025 12:36

I think it's naive to think GP involvement will just fix everything. Other HCPs can be just as competent as a good GP or just as flawed as a bad one.

Remote/ video medicine is here to stay, so we need to get used to it and get better governance in place (which some pharmacies are doing better and quicker than others).

Eating disorders do kill, but so do obesity, type 2 diabetes, heart disease, fatty liver disease etc. Just because they're skinny doesn't make their life of more value than someone who is obese.

VelociraptorsVelociRapping · 05/08/2025 12:56

CatsorDogsrule · 05/08/2025 12:28

Absolutely not disputing this. So many people on here have been rejected for disclosing BED, but would probably really benefit from the medication without a danger of developing other disorders such as anorexia. (I'm not an expert.)

A few threads from people in danger with anorexia, etc, is a few too many, they are worrying. Those few do get lost in the sea of many thousands of other WLI threads from legitimate users, so I wonder if this is representative of the real world figures. That's what I was hoping PP could give a snapshot of from her real experience.

Removing illegal drug users from the figures of legitimate should give a truer picture of how much pharmacies need to change or for some to simply tighten up their processes.

In a perfect NHS, yes GP's would be involved, but I don't see that happening any time soon.

It would be shitty to post links but the threads I'm thinking about weren't anorexics. One was a bulimic poster with a history of BED who had started purging due to the nausea caused by MJ. The other was also bulimic and couldn't understand why anyone would choose to take a lower dose in order to feel some hunger because she was addicted to the feeling of total suppression and panicked at the feeling of normal hunger. I think of both posters often and I really hope they sought some help.

Mamansparkles · 05/08/2025 13:17

In person or live video calls to registered pharmacies with mandatory links to NHS notes and also medication reviews to check on how people are actually getting on with them would go a long way to solving the issue of people either developing EDs from using them, or picking up issues, or people getting them dishonestly without being a barrier to those who are eligible for them. Some pharmacies already do this so it shouldn't stop people who need it and should easily be possible.
Cracking down on the black market is a separate issue.

usedtobeaylis · 05/08/2025 13:34

One of the issues in relation to eating disorders is that quite often you don't actually get a formal diagnosis of it. I've got a history of disordered eating, but within the context of anxiety, and have never had a diagnosis - they barely committed to the anxiety diagnosis. In much the same way Sertraline helped with the anxiety itself, and some other symptoms, Mounjaro is helping with the disordered eating. I am maybe at risk of having problems at the other end but I don't feel like I am. I've never chased suppression, excessive weight loss, or restricted my calories too much on Mounjaro - in fact I've made sure i have a healthy deficit and have taken steps to make sure I have higher calorie protein based options on the days I'm not quite at my calories - it's a target, not a limit. For the first time in a long, long time I have a good relationship with food and, importantly, nutrition. I do think the current process doesn't quite allow for this and at some point GP involvement for an expanded use of WLIs in the NHS could help so many people.

(Also just to add that Mounjaro hasn't impacted my anxiety itself either way which I seem to be fortunate with).

suby95 · 05/08/2025 15:52

My unpopular opinion is that there's a section of mainly women on the forums and group who seem to have a smug sense of superiority when they tell you they've been on the lowest dose the entire time and how they've lost 4 stone etc. Really reminds me of the almond mum, 'I could never eat all that' side of mumsnet for some reason.

22O725 · 05/08/2025 16:00

suby95 · 05/08/2025 15:52

My unpopular opinion is that there's a section of mainly women on the forums and group who seem to have a smug sense of superiority when they tell you they've been on the lowest dose the entire time and how they've lost 4 stone etc. Really reminds me of the almond mum, 'I could never eat all that' side of mumsnet for some reason.

I’m one of those but i don’t mean it to be smug I think I’m just trying to suggest people don't move up when they don’t need to? Perhaps I don’t explain that so will bear it in mind for future posts! So many people are just changing full suppression and barely eating anything so I often say I have lost 6 stone on 2.5mg.

Herewegoagainandagainandagain · 06/08/2025 15:58

suby95 · 05/08/2025 15:52

My unpopular opinion is that there's a section of mainly women on the forums and group who seem to have a smug sense of superiority when they tell you they've been on the lowest dose the entire time and how they've lost 4 stone etc. Really reminds me of the almond mum, 'I could never eat all that' side of mumsnet for some reason.

The converse of that are those that proudly declare they are on the highest doses/ask if they increase dose early as it validates the severity of their struggle so they must have been the ones with 'real' reasons, not their fault for being obese and have a more legitimate reason to use WLIs.

I think it tends to come down to reader interpretation and personal experience of doses whether we think someone is being smug or performative. I try be mindful of that, but it is hard at times!

Pumpkinforever · 06/08/2025 16:40

VelociraptorsVelociRapping · 03/08/2025 20:04

Oh, after nearly 18 months on this board I have a lot. All based on many, many posts I’ve seen.

That someone who won’t Google a reputable source or read the patient information leaflet and wants it all explained to them by MNers isn’t in a good position to decide if the drug is for them.

That someone who gives more credence to individual anecdotes about side effects than the scientifically robust published data genuinely has no understanding of how to evaluate risk.

That it’s unethical to encourage someone to take a potent drug if they post here asking to be talked into it.

Absolutely. People just can’t be bothered to go on pharmacy website to get basic information.

Or the ‘I have a pen but not sure if I should’

Or the ‘I have half a stone to lose can anyone tell me how to cheat the system’

Pumpkinforever · 06/08/2025 16:47

Anyone who can’t follow basic dosing instructions and ends up double-dosing because they were “in a hurry” should seriously reconsider whether they’re capable of using this medication safely. If you’re a danger to yourself through carelessness, stop before you do real harm
If you can't do the very basic maths don't mess with doses

definitely this! If someone can’t follow basic instructions they shouldn’t be take medication! All of the pharmacy YouTube channels have basic how to vids but people just can’t be bothered to check - unbelievable really

I forgot two others. The first is the regular how can I get MJ without my GP knowing

And second is the infuriating I am starting this week do you want to join. FFS looking at the threads on the board is it not obvious that there is one for each month.

LittleMissContrari · 25/08/2025 15:58

I’ve got another one, Trinck touting her voucher off code everywhere.

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FoxRedPuppy · 25/08/2025 15:59

LittleMissContrari · 25/08/2025 15:58

I’ve got another one, Trinck touting her voucher off code everywhere.

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ShuriPouri · 25/08/2025 16:39

LittleMissContrari · 25/08/2025 15:58

I’ve got another one, Trinck touting her voucher off code everywhere.

meeeeeooooow..... lol need a saucer of cream???

Smallsalt · 25/08/2025 22:23

TryingToFlyAway · 03/08/2025 21:29

If I have an unpopular opinion (though I suspect very popular) it's that it shouldn't be free on the NHS

I agree with this. Anyone who can afford to eat enough to be obese can afford WLI instead. I’m on them myself and the savings on food more than cover the cost.

Edited

Poor people are fatter than rich people because fat and sugar laden processed food is cheaper than high quality healthy food.
So that's a pretty vile opinion.
There are no slim yummy mummy's in the poor areas where I live.

Many many poor fat people, couldn't possibly afford hundreds of pounds a month on pens.

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 26/08/2025 07:04

I can't stand all the dicking about with counting clicks, extracting extra doses, pens being used beyond the 30 day mark etc. I know this is my problem as I am a rule follower, but I always think, 'Just use it how it's been prescribed. You are not a pharmaceutical expert or a medical professional, you are barely able to type a coherent sentence and would probably have difficulty reading the back of a Lemsip packet. Follow the instructions!'

IamNotBeingUnreasonable · 26/08/2025 07:48

Horseapples · 04/08/2025 09:42

Hmm. Im 58 and am losing weight, very slowly on WLI despite eating between 800 and 1000 calories a day, with two days a week at 1200 to make sure im fuelling properly. I'm losing 1 to 2 lbs a week and I have a lot to lose. I intend to stay on a maintainance dose as it is impossible to stay on this amount of calories without drugs.

It's not impossible at all if you cut carbs and increase your protein.

Snogger · 26/08/2025 08:10

IamNotBeingUnreasonable · 26/08/2025 07:48

It's not impossible at all if you cut carbs and increase your protein.

I would also add 16:8 or 18:6 to above which (once you build up to it over a week, nudging an hour a day) is fine - it’s easier to feel full satisfied if the calories are in a shorter eating window having two substantial protein, fibre and healthy fat based meals from whole foods not UPF. Also going to 2MAD means less food noise - as I have my breakfast at 3pm always eggs and veg or yogurt and fruit - then only have to think of one meal to prepare every evening.

Also build up your step count each week by 1000 to 7000 - even if you are not walking outside - being up in your feet standing / pottering at home helps your BMR.

SaltAirAndTheRust · 26/08/2025 08:12

I can’t stand the whole “this might lead to people abusing them!!!” thing. We’re adults. If they want to do it, crack on

22O725 · 26/08/2025 08:49

SaltAirAndTheRust · 26/08/2025 08:12

I can’t stand the whole “this might lead to people abusing them!!!” thing. We’re adults. If they want to do it, crack on

The problem is for us sensible adults we don’t want idiotic behaviour from others to mean big changes in prescribing.

Thebigonesgetaway · 26/08/2025 09:28

IamNotBeingUnreasonable · 26/08/2025 07:48

It's not impossible at all if you cut carbs and increase your protein.

I think maybe you mean it’s not impossible for you personally, as you’d not be running in, elbows out, to tell this poster what she can and can’t do, I assume?

Crikeyalmighty · 26/08/2025 10:29

I appreciate this may be specific to me but in my experience on and off WLI not all calories are equal - I had several weeks on strict 1100 cals a day but included toasted sandwiches, small amounts of pasta and the odd biscuit or bag of crisps and simply didn’t lose weight - other weeks full of next to no carb at all , mainly eggs, chicken, cottage cheese, prawn salads etc and I lost almost a kilo but same number of calories -
i lose at exactly the same rate as when I was on MJ if I stick to 1100 and next to no carb and I think anyone needs to at least try 6 months like this as first port of call before automatically just reaching for the WLI - what MJ did do was totally reset my mindset that I can’t lose weight - I can , but had to change the mindset