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Mounjaro / Wegovy with > 5st / 30kg to lose: Thread 5

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VelociraptorsVelociRapping · 26/01/2025 20:04

Thread FIVE of this lovely community. Anyone using weight-loss injections to lose more than 5 stone or 30kg is very welcome to join us, no matter what stage of the process you are on.

Please don’t post discount codes on this thread as your post will be deleted. These need to go in the dedicated thread on this board.

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WafflingDreamer · 03/02/2025 14:48

Funnily enough my DH has never mentioned my weight loss, although I've lost 3st I haven't changed clothes size so Ive never mentioned it to him. I dont hide it though its just sitting in the fridge. I'm a nurse and everyone at work asks me if I'm taking MJ. I'm very honest and am happy to talk to people about it. Quite a few of our nurses want to start seeing how well it's worked for me. Some people who i don't see very often know something is different but can't figure out what. I started wearing glasses at the beginning of December so that's thrown a few people off and they think its just the glasses 🤣

MooBaggage · 03/02/2025 14:49

CanIGoHomeNowPlease · 03/02/2025 12:15

I have told a few people that I'm on it.

My weight loss journey has unfortunately coincided with my mum dying. Which is obviously beyond shit. Before MJ I was a comfort eater and would eat to suppress my emotions. Thankfully this has not happened over the last couple of weeks.

Those that I have told have all be incredibly supportive. My sister is a little judgmental, but then she has lots of weird food hang-ups and probably thinks I'm not putting in enough effort 🙄

But it is still taking will power and effort to eat correctly and stay in a calorie deficit.

Its working for me. I'm seeing the benefits in how I feel. I also have a fatty liver and high blood pressure and my weight loss is helping me get healthier. I have 2 small children that I want to do things with.

So sorry @CanIGoHomeNowPlease ♥Flowers

gimmemounjaro · 03/02/2025 15:52

I've just been listening to a podcast episode with a Canadian obesity doctor talking about how to come off GLP1 medications - very interesting, recommend it. Podcast is called High on Life (her name is Dr Sasha High), episode 134. Here's a Spotify link but I'm sure you can find it elsewhere too.

open.spotify.com/episode/7ecbDNklNw9VZwhOzaabVF?si=ZHedocm_TS6spT3DPOwcnA

It's slightly depressing at the beginning because she does quote all the evidence about weight regain etc - I mean I do know about that but I'm not particularly comfortable hearing it! But the second half is advice on how to give yourself the best chance of maintaining post-GLP1, with studies to back it up.

It's a good podcast actually, all about weight loss and living well for women, covers medication now and then, but also psychology, exercise and nutrition.

WeAllHaveWings · 03/02/2025 16:27

I know I shouldn't be a gossip..........but it made me laugh........fun and games at Oushk towers today 🤣 A couple of posters saying they are being put off asking any questions in the group. The facebook hall monitors have been called out as -

Rottweilers; A cult; Rude; Judgemental; Unpleasant; Overly invested type; Harming the business; Teachers pets; hardcore stans; "pick me!" girls/boys; strange ones...........

None of the usual names have responded, although a couple of people say they have blocked them already so maybe they don't see the posts 🤣...........or they know who they are 🙈

QueenOfHiraeth · 03/02/2025 17:56

@WeAllHaveWings I had to rush to have a look Grin I'm not sure the admins are the issue, it's the creepy Hira-worshipping superfans!

I have a bit of a weird question.

I'm older, in my 60s, and unable to exercise at the moment. I recalculated my TDEE as I've been stalled for a few weeks and it came out around 1200cals/day for weight loss/deficit which is low but I kind of expected that
I saw a TT video in which the poster said "Never let your daily calorie intake go below your BMR level" so I checked that and, even working the BMR out manually as I don't trust the online ones it comes out to 1322
What do I do? If I go too low I'll risk muscle loss and slowing my metabolism but, if I stay where I am, I'll probably stay at this plateau forever and I still need to lose a lot more

alltablenochairs · 03/02/2025 18:25

Queen-

I don't exercise either. It's not because I'm a lazy arse who spends her time on her backside, it's got more to do with a combination of health needs, being a wheelchair user and an almighty dose of PEM. It's very, very easy for me to overdo things and then spend the next few days after asleep/hurting/both. I did go swimming for a while but the hoist in the hoist access changing room had been faulty for ages. I don't fancy my chances trying to stand on a wet and slippery floor.

I don't calorie count because this has been a trigger historically for me to end up in not OK places. However I am finding that as long as I am sensible with things I do lose weight.

WeAllHaveWings · 03/02/2025 18:31

@QueenOfHiraeth it is definitely not the admins, it is the self appointed hall monitors. 🙈

Yes, I have seen that before about BMR and although know I probably shouldn't have I ignored.......😳 My BMR started at over 2000 calories a day, my BMR is always only 327 calories under TDEE, which would have equated to around 0.6lb loss a week and over 3 years to go from morbidly obese to overweight! I know I shouldn't have and there will be consequences to that decision, slow and steady wins etc - I hope partly that calorie cycling and eating above BMR 2-3 days a week helps keep body guessing.

Darlinghag · 03/02/2025 18:41

@QueenOfHiraeth thats a tough one! I hope someone wiser than me can come and answer. I think I would be more inclined to not drop too low and try to change up my diet a little to see what that does first. Or maybe even take a few days off and then try again. Just to keep your body guessing!

Ordered a dress off of Vinted that came today. Its from a brand that is either horrifically oversized as a style choice or tiny as a way to make their clothes even more elitiest (free people!). It was a size 16/L so i knew it wouldnt fit yet, but thought it might be not far off, just too tight - as its a wrap style. Omfg, its like a size 12 fit!! I don’t normally keep things that are that out of size for me, but i love it and its not available anymore so i guess i’ve got my first target item of clothing haha! If i could wear it by the end of summer i will be happy!!

alltablenochairs · 03/02/2025 18:54

Darlinghag

Come and join the dress target club.
I've got a dress for a family wedding in the summer that's a size 16 in a brand that's well known for very small fitting. It was an absolute bargain though and looks absolutely fabulous on the hanger.
However I haven't been a size 16 since I was in my early 20's

I'm absolutely determined the bloody thing is going to fit.

Darlinghag · 03/02/2025 19:00

Ooh where is the group @alltablenochairs ?

mad isnt it, these brands. Luckily, it didnt give me a complex, just laughed when the upper arms wouldnt go up my arms!

I’m mostly in 18s now and even wear a couple of 16s in certain things so figured I would have a shot, but not a chance.

i’ve also not been in 16s for an awful long time. I briefly got in to them 10 years ago while very unwell, but other than that, i think i’ve been a size 18 and steadily increasing since about 15.

best bit is i might hate it on when it does fit haha!

QueenOfHiraeth · 03/02/2025 19:09

Thanks all
@alltablenochairs My problem is, hopefully, temporary but I am a bit of a lazy arse generally. I do calorie count at the moment as I have the type of brain that can convince myself a full tub of Haagen-Dazs is healthy as it's good calcium!
@WeAllHaveWings Thanks for the suggestion of calorie cycling. I haven't tried anything like that yet as I don't really get suppression then it wears off, just have a generally better ability to resist bingeing/cravings, so it doesn't happen naturally. I am a bit scared of it as the 5:2 diet left me feeling quite disordered and struggling with binges
@Darlinghag Thanks and good luck with the dress!

VelociraptorsVelociRapping · 03/02/2025 20:36

QueenOfHiraeth · 03/02/2025 17:56

@WeAllHaveWings I had to rush to have a look Grin I'm not sure the admins are the issue, it's the creepy Hira-worshipping superfans!

I have a bit of a weird question.

I'm older, in my 60s, and unable to exercise at the moment. I recalculated my TDEE as I've been stalled for a few weeks and it came out around 1200cals/day for weight loss/deficit which is low but I kind of expected that
I saw a TT video in which the poster said "Never let your daily calorie intake go below your BMR level" so I checked that and, even working the BMR out manually as I don't trust the online ones it comes out to 1322
What do I do? If I go too low I'll risk muscle loss and slowing my metabolism but, if I stay where I am, I'll probably stay at this plateau forever and I still need to lose a lot more

It’s impossible for your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) to be lower than your BMR (basal metabolic rate), even if you are bed-bound. 1200 isn’t your TDEE. What deficit are you aiming for?

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InfoSecInTheCity · 03/02/2025 20:59

For those using TDEE calculators, or hearing about them now, just wanted to give a little summary of the numbers and how they can be used as it can be confusing.

Typically they need the following info : your sex, age, weight, height and activity level.

Activity level

  • sedentary (office job, walking to and from car, up and down the stairs a couple of times but nothing really that would count as actual exercise)
  • light (1-2 x 30 minutes sustained activity a week that gets your heart rate up)
  • moderate (3-5 x 30 minutes sustained activity a week)
  • Heavy ( 6-7 x 39 minutes activity a week)

Results
BMR - Basal Metabolic Rate - calories you use just to exist every day. So this is if you were to sleep for 24 hrs, how many calories would your body use to breathe, think, process waste etc
TDEE - this adds in your activity level and calculates how many calories your body uses to exist and do the activity you have said you do. If you eat this amount you should expect your weight to stay stable. Often known as 'maintenance calories'

To lose weight
You target a number below your TDEE, there's a balance to be found here that might take some experimenting. Too low and you may feel deprived, weak, tired, just plain miserable and hungry leading to binges. Too high and weight loss will be slower or plateau. It's the Goldilocks number. As a rough starting point, going for 500 below TDEE usually equates to a 1-2 lb loss per week.

So my numbers as a 41 yr old woman, 5ft 9, light activity would be:
BMR - 1500
TDEE - 2063
Target for a daily 500 calorie deficit - 1563

If I add a couple of extra work outs to my week and increase to moderate activity
BMR - 1500
TDEE - 2326
Target for a daily 500 calorie deficit - 1826

Curvy4life · 03/02/2025 21:13

Feeling very deflated today. I’m in month two and have put on 2.6llbs this week.
I’m tracking on my fitness pal, using TDEE less 500 calories and all on target.
It’s reminded me of the horrid weigh in nights at the slimming clubs and how crap I felt when I didn’t lose weight or god forbid, gained.
I know weight loss isn’t linear but expected the loss to fluctuate a little, not to actually gain.
Has anyone else had this happen unexplained?
I’m really hoping its just a blip.

InfoSecInTheCity · 03/02/2025 21:20

Yes, I go up and down all the time.

  • Have you been drinking plenty of water?
  • Sorry for the indelicate question, but could you be constipated?
  • Is it hormonal? Week before my period is generally a bad week for weight loss

I'd post a pic of my daily weigh ins to show you how up and down it is, but the app doesn't like pictures it seems.

Darlinghag · 03/02/2025 21:21

Yes, @Curvy4life its happened to me! At least 3/4 times since I started, since I began in mid August.

its always disappointing but worth reminding yourself that unless you have eaten thousands of calories over your maintenance (not even your deficit!) then its not fat, its water.

For me, it can be down to timing with my cycle, lack of water over the week, high carb foods the day before weighing in (but within my deficit) or alcohol.

I can weigh up to 7lbs heavier than my morning weigh in within a single day!

Its just part of the cycle, if youre doing things right, it will pay off before long. Keep trucking on, it is normal and not an actual gain.

RobinEllacotStrike · 03/02/2025 21:22

What is this dress club? I'm in!

I had a Christmas party dress crisis and ended up with a gorgeous silk dress that I ordered in the biggest size - about a 16 ("XL").

It doesn't quite fit yet. It's just a bit tight still in the upper arms & shoulders. I'm hoping to wear it when I go to nz in 2 months.

I would normal return clothing that didn't fit, but I really love this dress and although it's waaay more expensive than I'd usually pay, I kept it as a goal dress.

RobinEllacotStrike · 03/02/2025 21:28

Curvy4life · 03/02/2025 21:13

Feeling very deflated today. I’m in month two and have put on 2.6llbs this week.
I’m tracking on my fitness pal, using TDEE less 500 calories and all on target.
It’s reminded me of the horrid weigh in nights at the slimming clubs and how crap I felt when I didn’t lose weight or god forbid, gained.
I know weight loss isn’t linear but expected the loss to fluctuate a little, not to actually gain.
Has anyone else had this happen unexplained?
I’m really hoping its just a blip.

It's just a blip. I think most of us experience this. Like @Darlinghag my weight fluctuates wildly even during the same day.

Remember if you have a lot to lose on MJ, you need calorie deficit, nutrient rich food, hydration, exercise if you can,and massive amounts of patience!! Be patient & persistent, settle in for a long journey, and enjoy the ride.

I think those of us with 30+ kilos to lose are looking at at least 6 months. I've lost 25kg in 6 months with 25 more to go. So I'll be on MJ for at least 12 months.

RobinEllacotStrike · 03/02/2025 21:32

Just to add @Curvy4life I get it re that horrible weighing in feeling. So far I've avoided calorie counting for these very reasons. It does my head in and can be very negative.

If I know I'm in calorie deficit I just ignore the increase weigh ins. I just log the losses.

Timetofindme · 03/02/2025 22:14

@Curvy4life it's not for everyone but this is why I weigh daily. There are some days I am up 1 or 2 pounds from the day before and because I weigh daily I know it can't be fat, it has to be more water/ more salt/ period/ needing a poo rather than gaining weight. If I weighed weekly and weigh in was on that day I'd be really disheartened whereas I can look at the trend across a week and know I'm still heading in the right direction. Some people get on with weekly weighing and avoid daily but for me it helps me see it as data (bread ALWAYS leads to an increase on the scales for me) rather than having that big hype about one day specifically.

QueenOfHiraeth · 03/02/2025 22:40

@VelociraptorsVelociRapping @InfoSecInTheCity Thanks
I have always aimed for daily calories approx TDEE-500 but that figure is now less than my estimated BMR (I screenshotted the result but can't figure how to attach a photo, I seem to have lost the doodah for it)
The screenshot shows Maintenance Calories as 1704 so -500 would mean my daily aim to lose weight would be about 1200. It then says my BMR is 1420 a day and my BMI is 32
I just can't get my head round it as the reason I checked was that I've been on roughly 1400 a day since last May and have lost almost 4stone since then. I have been in a stall/plateau for 2-3 weeks so thought I might have reached the point where I need to reduce that due to the lost weight.
I don't want to reduce it but make life harder in the long run if it's too low but, equally, I don't want to lose at slower than a snail's pace!

RobinEllacotStrike · 03/02/2025 22:53

I think MN have disabled photo uploading after the dreadful attack last night.

dimples76 · 03/02/2025 23:06

I am only one week in so no weight loss for anyone to notice yet but I have actually told quite a lot of people what I am doing/was planning to do - maybe an accountability thing. I have been working with a personal trainer since September and I was most anxious about telling him but he was really supportive and encouraging.

InfoSecInTheCity · 03/02/2025 23:08

@QueenOfHiraeth what are your age, weight, height and activity level.

Snozzlemaid · 04/02/2025 01:10

Timetofindme · 03/02/2025 22:14

@Curvy4life it's not for everyone but this is why I weigh daily. There are some days I am up 1 or 2 pounds from the day before and because I weigh daily I know it can't be fat, it has to be more water/ more salt/ period/ needing a poo rather than gaining weight. If I weighed weekly and weigh in was on that day I'd be really disheartened whereas I can look at the trend across a week and know I'm still heading in the right direction. Some people get on with weekly weighing and avoid daily but for me it helps me see it as data (bread ALWAYS leads to an increase on the scales for me) rather than having that big hype about one day specifically.

I completely agree with this.
If I weigh weekly, and on my weigh in day my weight shows as a bit higher, I get really disheartened and feel like I've wasted a whole week.
Whereas weighing daily I can see the small fluctuations and don't despair if it goes up a bit, as it will more than likely go down again the next day.
So weighing daily means I'm only miserable or disappointed for a day instead of feeling down for another whole week.

Personally I think the rule of only weighing once a week is another unhealthy idea that has come from diet groups, that we've all been brainwashed to believe is the correct way.