@Mounraine as an emotional eater, I understand the craving for sweet things, I really do. The thing is it is a con. There is nothing joy bringing about a chocolate bar. You don't really feel any better about life or your situation because you have eaten it. The only thing that has changed is that you have fired up some receptors in your brain that are addicted to sweet things. Other than that you life is exactly as it was before, only you have just added somewhere between 100-500 calories that you don't actually need.
Anyhow, that is the logic that we all know. That's the easy bit, the hard bit is stopping doing that. I had therapy, long before I started WLI and that helped me address the binging that I used to do (so the entire packet of biscuits or my go to which was a tray of 5 chocolate eclairs from M&S). The therapy wasn't for anything to do with food, but it obviously had food benefits.
Then the WLI made me so repelled by food that I couldn't comfort eat. When I was feeling hopeless, bored, angry, stressed, unhappy etc etc etc, I'd toddle off to the kitchen to try and make everything better with sweet food, but I couldn't because food disgusted me. So I had to deal with feeling hopeless, bored, angry, stressed and unhappy. If I go back to the posts that I put on the August 2024 starters threads, I often talk about how constantly angry I felt!!!!!
You have to feel the feelings, not try to eat them away. It's not fun and for those of us who have spent a lifetime forcing them down with food, it is scary and very challenging at times. But you have to feel them. I've had a difficult time recently and I swear to god in addition to all the difficulties, food is shrieking at me during my waking hours and I'm 2lbs up because bloody apple crumble and cream (on several occasions) got the better of me. But the difficulties will pass and the food noise will subside again, and this time instead of being half a stone heavier and filled with self-sabotaging "fuck the diet" feelings, it is just 2lb which I will lose again fairly easily this week and next.
Long post, I hope some of it resonates or is helpful.