I wasn’t talking just about you.
you said people seem to have a victim mentality. I was explaining people are reacting to judgement. Not compassionate concern. Not you in particular. But the thread you commented on is full of judgement.
I was pointing out where it was pure judgement with no compassionate concern anywhere to be seen. Another poster brought up the concern she has for her daughters.
If you haven’t read the thread why would you form an opinion about what’s happening on the thread. How would you know if it’s compassionate concern or judgement? Or if people have a victim mentality? Seems you just read a few posts, in isolation and let your bias take over. Then posted an uninformed opinion.
You are just as concerned about laxative over use? Ok how often to do you go onto a thread where someone is discussing the use of laxatives telling people ‘don’t use that you could just do’. Or ‘using laxatives is damaging to women’. Or ‘too many people use laxatives as an easy way out’ or ‘I am concerned about the impact on my daughters because people use laxatives’.
When do you or anyone else do that? That’s what happened on this thread. If there was a report on someone dying, possibly (in part) due to laxative use, would you be going on threads or creating threads about how people shouldn’t be using them. Even when doing so appropriately. Or that they shouldn’t be using them because other people may take them inappropriately?
Would you be telling people who have and do use them appropriately they should be grateful for the compassionate concern of people posting things like above?
Again, it’s not all about you. I was talking about the entire thread. Since you referenced a group of people, I didn’t realise I was meant to keep my post to just you. I was also referencing the group of people you think are showing compassionate concern. They aren’t.