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Is 30 too many for a hen do?

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mam1998 · 28/07/2026 16:41

this Is my own fault, I’m very number blind and created a hen group on Facebook and feel like I went overboard inviting people… I didn’t realize how many I actually wound up inviting 🙈

my sister kicked me from the group so it can be a surprise she’s organizing it the only guide I said it I just want a weekend city break abroad.

I feel really bad her having to plan for all these people now, even though she said it’s okay.

my anxiety is in overdrive and I’m just panicking that I have gone way over the top with invites? Has anyone else gone abroad with a big hen do group?

so far 20 is confirmed…

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mam1998 · 31/07/2026 06:24

@PigeonDuckGoosei meant element but it won’t let me edit it lol

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Mathair2 · 03/08/2026 18:40

@mam1998 I know you have calmed down since you posted this but no its not too many. My Sister had 34 and I organised and it wasn't as big a pain as you'd think! Itll be great fun! Enjoy it

EmailsaysOOO · 14/08/2026 18:23

Sounds like my idea of hell
Sozzles

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