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Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight

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Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
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selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/07/2026 09:53

warmdreams · 12/07/2026 08:58

I suspect this thread will rumble on for most of the day it I don’t think the OP will be back.

I think OP was expecting that users of a site for parents would automatically side with her if she played the "hungry baby" card, underestimating our critical thinking skills and forgetting that we want for our families to be safe on flights.

sittingonabeach · 12/07/2026 09:53

@Buttonspoons OP had some liquid breastmilk for about 2 feeds and it’s about 4 hour flight.

I get how upsetting it must be to see your hard work disposed of (I never managed to get the hang of expressing so fully admire OP persevering with that) but they have to follow the rules

thereisnomeaning · 12/07/2026 09:56

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/07/2026 09:53

I think OP was expecting that users of a site for parents would automatically side with her if she played the "hungry baby" card, underestimating our critical thinking skills and forgetting that we want for our families to be safe on flights.

I suspect you're right.

I nursed all of mine. None ever had any formula in their life. I support the airport completely.

I do sympathise with how upsetting it must have been for OP though. That is a lot of work down the drain, quite literally.

allthewa · 12/07/2026 09:57

Viviennemary · 12/07/2026 09:53

I sympathise but these airport people are absolute tyrants with no empathy for anybody.

Because they can’t have sympathy.

The rules are the rules. You break them, you get punished.

butterfly990 · 12/07/2026 09:59

A little off topic - baby not able to latch.
Have you been to a chiropractor? There are some amazing you tube clips of babies with tongue tie, latching issues who have had gentle manipulations and the latching issues have been resolved.

www.facebook.com/share/v/1M4y9BDTUA/

Buttonspoons · 12/07/2026 10:00

sittingonabeach · 12/07/2026 09:53

@Buttonspoons OP had some liquid breastmilk for about 2 feeds and it’s about 4 hour flight.

I get how upsetting it must be to see your hard work disposed of (I never managed to get the hang of expressing so fully admire OP persevering with that) but they have to follow the rules

No I totally agree. I can understand it was upsetting but hardy worth this drama. OP and PPs are making out that this baby would have been starved and what happened was akin to a medical emergency.

The suggestion of formula was being so angrily dismissed I was simply asking what OP's alternatives were - and was condescendingly answered with a number of impossible actions for OP as she stood at the security gate.

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 10:01

Viviennemary · 12/07/2026 09:53

I sympathise but these airport people are absolute tyrants with no empathy for anybody.

Empathy?

They're airport security workers not friggin counsellors

And I wouldnt blame them for being pissed off at yet another passenger that clogs up the line and causes chaos and delay in their work while they have to deal with this because they think the rules dont apply to them. What do I keep hearing on this site all the time 'use your anger'. Well they have the right to be stern and tell her off and deal with her swiftly and in a perfunctory way to get the system moving again. What a waste of resources she has caused.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/07/2026 10:02

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:23

Airport security staff are dicks in my experience. There is simply no reason for them to be so rude, bellowing instructions at you, changing the instructions all the time - electronics in, electronics out, belt off, belt on, liquids in clear bag (pointless), or not now at Stansted.

I’m sorry you had this experience. I recently had a poor experience at Stansted where they were obsessed with my Nivea suncream. They kept taking my bag away, bringing it back, taking it away again, swabbing it, swabbing it again. No explanation of what or why. I eventually got sent on my way with the very normal suncream but it was quite a distressing 20 minutes being separated from your belongings, no communication when you haven’t done anything wrong.

Honestly I think they just enjoy the power trip. I wouldn’t mind so much if I could see the point in it all but there have been numerous research papers highlighting the ineffectiveness of their “safety” measures, it’s all theatre to try and make people feel safer or dissuade people. It doesn’t actually do anything.

I’m sorry this happened to you OP and I would be putting in a complaint.

Please show me these papers that demonstrate this, because I'm not seeing how scanning cabin luggage and passengers for weapons doesn't prevent hijackings.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/07/2026 10:02

allthewa · 12/07/2026 09:57

Because they can’t have sympathy.

The rules are the rules. You break them, you get punished.

It's not even punishment, it's just the rules being enforced.

PrincessofWills · 12/07/2026 10:03

So you think the entire plane load of 200 people should be put at risk because you failed to follow the regulations.
Officers do not have the ability to waive regulations. What do you think they should have done in these circumstances.
You had a number of options. Buy formula. Decide not to travel. Leave your child with their father.

thereisnomeaning · 12/07/2026 10:05

Buttonspoons · 12/07/2026 10:00

No I totally agree. I can understand it was upsetting but hardy worth this drama. OP and PPs are making out that this baby would have been starved and what happened was akin to a medical emergency.

The suggestion of formula was being so angrily dismissed I was simply asking what OP's alternatives were - and was condescendingly answered with a number of impossible actions for OP as she stood at the security gate.

Medical emergency? No. If my child was at the airport with me and they said, "You can't board with your son's medications," I'd not board, they are that important.

A baby that age can be given a bit of suitable food and plain water to tie them over, if needed. Or pump on the plane. Needs must.

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · 12/07/2026 10:07

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:35

If they aren’t arbitrary why are they different all the time and in different countries? Please explain exactly how putting my liquids in a clear bag makes them safer?

Really? Because different airport have different scanners. Some more advanced than others.

ThatCyanCat · 12/07/2026 10:13

All you people who are obviously so sure it's safe to fly, because you can't see why they won't break the rules for you because you're so obviously trustworthy and it's incredibly offensive to apply those rules to you...

...What do you think makes air travel so safe?

SweepSqueaks · 12/07/2026 10:13

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:20

She explained why she thought that.
Again, why wasn't an alternative offered?

This is such a strange way to think. Why would an airport security team offer a woman alternative ways to feed a baby? That’s not why they are there.

YourWildAmberSloth · 12/07/2026 10:14

Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Sharing your experience and reminding parents/travellers that it's their responsibility to check and comply with the rules. I'm glad that security are taking their jobs seriously and didn't use their discretion because you were upset - not because I'm being unkind but because I want to be safe(r) when I travel.

happidayss · 12/07/2026 10:16

They need to obey strict rules or there would be danger/chaos. They can’t bend the rules for you, no matter how upset you are.

RocketLollyPolly · 12/07/2026 10:16

Did you ask to defrost it so it could be tested? If it was in bags of smaller amounts it shouldn’t have taken long under a tap. Then you could have used it on the flight and - if kept at fridge temp with ice etc - for a few days.

Notrainingbutpouring · 12/07/2026 10:17

Buttonspoons · 12/07/2026 09:48

Riiiight... All great ideas when you have a time machine but none of these things OP could have done in that instance, which is what was asked. You'd know that if you'd 'engaged your brain and thought for 10 seconds'.

Aside from pumping on the plane of course - which is great as it means that there's no problem here. Baby is fed, all is well. If that doesn't work, however, I guess it's a hungry baby.

none of these ideas work… apart from that one which means the first part of that sentence isn’t correct. also, you didn’t ask what she should have done in the moment, you asked how could someone not resort to formula. I gave you several suggestions and it’s fine if you don’t want to use them or if they wouldn’t work for you, but dismissing them because they take a little bit of forward planning is unfair. It’s like saying the suggestion to bring the appropriately sized luggage is ridiculous and you want a solution to carry a bigger bag on board that is permitted!

If you’re asking in the moment what I would have done, I would have asked could I let them defrost and purchase one of those travel mugs and popped it in there. Baby is also weaned so I would have given sips of water and food for plane and pumped immediately after getting through security.

Skyflier · 12/07/2026 10:17

Bigcat25 · 12/07/2026 04:18

Sorry op this is absolutely ridiculous and pointless security theatre.

But it is the rules!!!

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 10:18

SweepSqueaks · 12/07/2026 10:13

This is such a strange way to think. Why would an airport security team offer a woman alternative ways to feed a baby? That’s not why they are there.

They double up as parenting support officers, didnt you know!!!

There are some spectacularly thick posts on this thread, some of the worst Ive seen, comparing testing for frozen products with that of laptop screening, offering suggestions to just wait around to a defrost a batch of the milk to test it, yeah that'll be fine, chip a bit off of the frozen milk, wondering if frozen breast milk is a problem because it looks like semtex

Jesus, dont these people understand anything?

Whorulestheroost1 · 12/07/2026 10:18

Reassuring to hear that airport security do not make exceptions to the rules. To be honest it is difficult to understand how you didnt know frozen was banned especially given your circumstances. Baying the blood of the staff who were simply doing their jobs makes you look like a fool.

1WhiffyGrowler · 12/07/2026 10:20

Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Write to your local MP, Andy Burnham King of the North, the papers, the local radio, The BBC. Guarantee if you shame them you will get a proper apology and just might affect change, especially if your bringing this to light encourages other mums to talk about their poor experiences at the airport. And if you do, be sure to come back in here and post your links where other mums can see, I've already seen one other mum concur with your experience below. Really they should take a measured risk based approach rather than broad brush for everyone. Is an obvious mum carrying a baby with small bottles REALLY like to be a terrorist??! If airports and security could be bothered, they would make sure their passengers were properly cared for and could have special dispensation forms to allow them to carry breast milk. Also I thought many airports carry special scan equipment (sure I had this at Stansted) which means they don't even need to dip test liquids now (which can be a source of stress for everyone not just mums!!) so Manchester is clearly behind the times!!

PropertyD · 12/07/2026 10:20

Why do you think an exception should be made for you? The rules are for airport security black and white.

SweepSqueaks · 12/07/2026 10:20

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:35

If they aren’t arbitrary why are they different all the time and in different countries? Please explain exactly how putting my liquids in a clear bag makes them safer?

Come on! There is more than one airport in the world, you must know that.

You can’t lack the intelligence to work this out. It’s not possible that you can’t realise that different countries are serviced by different airports with different machines.

rwalker · 12/07/2026 10:21

wrongthinker · 12/07/2026 09:07

Manchester airport is the shittiest airport in the UK. Last time I flew from there, the gate agents for my flight were yelling at and insulting the passengers waiting for our delayed flight. I never fly from there if I can help it.

Definitely complain at the highest level you can, OP, and put it on social media as well.

Don’t embarrass yourself what would the complaint be
the airport made me follow the published rules