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Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight

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Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
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Aria999 · 12/07/2026 04:36

I completely get why you're upset but it's really not a good idea to allow your prejudice about formula to put you in a situation where you can't feed your baby.

Iyamnotayam · 12/07/2026 04:38

I'm sorry this happened. Unfortunately there's no point complaining about the milk disposal as the guidelines are clear. However, if I was in your situation I would consider complaining about the lack of help and the lack of empathy xx

OneRedFinch · 12/07/2026 04:39

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 04:44

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That's an arsehole remark. There's no need to be so nasty.

The baby has only ever had bm.
OP ensured she had enough for her baby for the flight. Why would she even think she'd need formula? She thought she was within the rules and she thought she had prepared appropriately. The baby is only 8 months, so is still too young for cow's milk, for example, and not yet eating a lot of solids. Food is still exploratory. Babies need breast milk or formula as their main food and hydration source until 12 months of age.

It would have been very distressing to have that milk taken away. I'm shocked there isn't some sort of work around for people if that situation arises. OP has her other young children with her as well. What a difficult situation and frankly a very unfair and unreasonable one. The info doesn't seem clear or complete for travelling. I wonder if discretion could've been used?

SpottyPyjama · 12/07/2026 04:52

What were you expecting then to do? They could have shown all the compassion in the world and the outcome would have been the same. Their responsibility to ensure that unknown liquids don’t end up on planes is far greater than their responsibility to parents who haven’t followed the rules about baby milk. You seem to think you were owed an alternative arrangement, but what could that have been?

While I appreciate how precious expressed milk is and how upsetting this must have been, the mistake was yours and there was understandably nothing that could be fine to fix it for you. If you want to help other families avoid this, then your best bet is to point out the obvious fact that frozen milk can not be treated the same as liquid.

Einszwei · 12/07/2026 05:05

I didn't even have to read through you entire post before I guessed it was at Manchester Airport.

The security there are a nightmare. I have had many a run in with them (and I am a seasoned traveller). They once tried to make me throw my medication away!

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Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:10

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No. And it doesn't seem that an alternative option was given either. ie checking it and packing with extra cold packs, for example.

LilOleMe2 · 12/07/2026 05:11

These are the Civil Aviation Authority's rule for the safety of ALL the passengers and crew.
Sadly some people nowadays don't understand a hard 'no', and think they an their little cherub should be the exception to the rules, and their discomfort should trump everyone else's safety!

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:16

LilOleMe2 · 12/07/2026 05:11

These are the Civil Aviation Authority's rule for the safety of ALL the passengers and crew.
Sadly some people nowadays don't understand a hard 'no', and think they an their little cherub should be the exception to the rules, and their discomfort should trump everyone else's safety!

"they an their little cherub should be the exception to the rules"

Unnecessary.
But I guess it makes ya feel good. 👏

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 05:19

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 04:44

That's an arsehole remark. There's no need to be so nasty.

The baby has only ever had bm.
OP ensured she had enough for her baby for the flight. Why would she even think she'd need formula? She thought she was within the rules and she thought she had prepared appropriately. The baby is only 8 months, so is still too young for cow's milk, for example, and not yet eating a lot of solids. Food is still exploratory. Babies need breast milk or formula as their main food and hydration source until 12 months of age.

It would have been very distressing to have that milk taken away. I'm shocked there isn't some sort of work around for people if that situation arises. OP has her other young children with her as well. What a difficult situation and frankly a very unfair and unreasonable one. The info doesn't seem clear or complete for travelling. I wonder if discretion could've been used?

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Why on earth did OP think she was within the rules though? More she thought they would bend the rules for her?

I would not want security staff bending rules for anyone, the rules are there for a reason, the safety of everyone onboard that plane.

OP should’ve had an alternative prepared source of nutrition for her DD.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:20

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 05:19

Why on earth did OP think she was within the rules though? More she thought they would bend the rules for her?

I would not want security staff bending rules for anyone, the rules are there for a reason, the safety of everyone onboard that plane.

OP should’ve had an alternative prepared source of nutrition for her DD.

She explained why she thought that.
Again, why wasn't an alternative offered?

Ceramiq · 12/07/2026 05:21

Travelling with babies is complicated. 21 years ago when my DD was an infant I recall getting quite a lot of help from staff when I travelled alone with her by plane or Eurostar but the sheer volume of travelers and increased security mean that individual needs are catered to less effectively than in the past and the onus is on travellers to prepare for the worst.

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 05:23

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:20

She explained why she thought that.
Again, why wasn't an alternative offered?

it’s not the security workers job to give alternatives, that’s the parents job.

They’re job is to ensure the safety of passengers and crew.

If OP wants to travel with an 8 month old that has that feeding regime, then she needs to figure it out.

An alternative would be formula?

CatherinedeBourgh · 12/07/2026 05:24

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Ds couldn't have. He had allergies, including CMPA, and the only formula which he could have had is prescription only and tastes foul, so he wouldn't take it.

PollyBell · 12/07/2026 05:26

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 05:23

it’s not the security workers job to give alternatives, that’s the parents job.

They’re job is to ensure the safety of passengers and crew.

If OP wants to travel with an 8 month old that has that feeding regime, then she needs to figure it out.

An alternative would be formula?

All of this

SpottyPyjama · 12/07/2026 05:31

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:20

She explained why she thought that.
Again, why wasn't an alternative offered?

What alternative do you suggest?

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 05:33

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:20

She explained why she thought that.
Again, why wasn't an alternative offered?

From Ryan Air website, OP seems to have missed the word “liquid”when reading this, it really is very clear.

It doesn’t cover frozen items, it’s all liquid.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
Caffeinepleasenow · 12/07/2026 05:34

Aria999 · 12/07/2026 04:36

I completely get why you're upset but it's really not a good idea to allow your prejudice about formula to put you in a situation where you can't feed your baby.

I'm sorry, but where is the prejudice? It's not always so easy to just give a baby formula, when they've only ever had breast milk. It's a different taste and many babies would refuse it.

Limeandfigs · 12/07/2026 05:41

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:20

She explained why she thought that.
Again, why wasn't an alternative offered?

It's not the job of airport security to provide alternative meals for passengers.

The onus is on passengers to comply with the rules.

OP is completely unreasonable for not checking the rules and going full on compo-face as a result and demanding that security rules are discarded just for her.

LilOleMe2 · 12/07/2026 05:44

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/07/2026 05:16

"they an their little cherub should be the exception to the rules"

Unnecessary.
But I guess it makes ya feel good. 👏

But that's literally what the OP's post amounts to- that security staff should not uphold legal rules because she and her baby were 'distressed'.

SpottyPyjama · 12/07/2026 05:45

Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection

imsupposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her.

These two statements from your OP contradict each other. If the airline steer at you can bring enough milk for the duration of the flight, why were you expecting to bring enough to last you on holiday anyway.

SpottyPyjama · 12/07/2026 05:46

Also, how were you keeping the milk frozen without using ice packs that would be subject to their own rules about liquids?

Caffeinepleasenow · 12/07/2026 05:50

SpottyPyjama · 12/07/2026 05:46

Also, how were you keeping the milk frozen without using ice packs that would be subject to their own rules about liquids?

You can bring ice packs for keeping breast milk cool. I've done it before for chilled, not frozen, milk.