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Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight

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Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
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Werhere · 12/07/2026 09:32

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:31

No, because my things were taken away with no explanation. There was nothing wrong with them and I was made to feel like some kind of terrorist. I simple explanation of what they were doing, where they were taking my things, why and when I would get them back would have gone a long way. Airport security lines are stressful enough.

So one dodgy experience with one member of staff

and “airport security staff are dicks”?

lovely

allthewa · 12/07/2026 09:33

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:31

No, because my things were taken away with no explanation. There was nothing wrong with them and I was made to feel like some kind of terrorist. I simple explanation of what they were doing, where they were taking my things, why and when I would get them back would have gone a long way. Airport security lines are stressful enough.

They’re not going to tell you that, are they? Because if they do, and you do have something illegal on you, you could kick off.

If you can’t handle airport security there are other methods of travel available.

Newname26 · 12/07/2026 09:33

Ihatelittlefriendsusan · 12/07/2026 09:28

@Nadsthakur I appreciate the work involved in pumping, however this is not on the staff at Manchester. This is on you not doing the research ahead of time.

How are they to know you are not a terrorist with posion/explosives within the frozen pack?

They have to apply the rules across the board for everyone. They cannot make exceptions.

Yip very good point.
There could be a knife or anything in the middle of a frozen block of milk.

Staff were doing their job.
People seem to have forgotten the planes that have been hijacked over the years not just 9/11 and Lockerbie

ImPamDoove · 12/07/2026 09:33

I get that it was frustrating but to be ‘absolutely heartbroken’ and ‘devastated’ is a tad disproportionate.

You should’ve been better prepared OP, and done your homework. The staff were following the rules.

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 09:33

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:23

Airport security staff are dicks in my experience. There is simply no reason for them to be so rude, bellowing instructions at you, changing the instructions all the time - electronics in, electronics out, belt off, belt on, liquids in clear bag (pointless), or not now at Stansted.

I’m sorry you had this experience. I recently had a poor experience at Stansted where they were obsessed with my Nivea suncream. They kept taking my bag away, bringing it back, taking it away again, swabbing it, swabbing it again. No explanation of what or why. I eventually got sent on my way with the very normal suncream but it was quite a distressing 20 minutes being separated from your belongings, no communication when you haven’t done anything wrong.

Honestly I think they just enjoy the power trip. I wouldn’t mind so much if I could see the point in it all but there have been numerous research papers highlighting the ineffectiveness of their “safety” measures, it’s all theatre to try and make people feel safer or dissuade people. It doesn’t actually do anything.

I’m sorry this happened to you OP and I would be putting in a complaint.

Oh give over distressed being separated from your bag, that was within view!

Airport security are not all dicks, they’re a broad range of people like any other class of workers,

And as for they “do nothing” are “on a power trip” and all your other slurs, i’d hazard a guess that any that are “rude” to you are mirroring your attitude to them!

OP can complain, she’ll be told she tried to break the rules and no amount of her haranguing will make them do that, they may send her a further copy of the rules already clearly stated.

Newmeagain · 12/07/2026 09:34

Jollyhockeystickss · 12/07/2026 08:36

Youve obviously never been there

I have been to Morocco. No idea why it’s not suitable for children !

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:35

Newmeagain · 12/07/2026 09:30

This is complete nonsense. The staff do a really important and stressful job and they do not make up arbitrary rules. They implement the rules that apply to keep everyone safe.

If they aren’t arbitrary why are they different all the time and in different countries? Please explain exactly how putting my liquids in a clear bag makes them safer?

ThisISmycircusandtheseAREmymonkeys · 12/07/2026 09:36

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:31

No, because my things were taken away with no explanation. There was nothing wrong with them and I was made to feel like some kind of terrorist. I simple explanation of what they were doing, where they were taking my things, why and when I would get them back would have gone a long way. Airport security lines are stressful enough.

Another one who really shouldn’t travel.

CatkinToadflax · 12/07/2026 09:36

Not long after 9/11 I was held up at Stansted while security demanded to know why I had a large knife in my bag. They repeated the phrase ‘large knife’ so many times that I was nearly starting to believe that somehow something resembling an axe had made its way into my hand luggage without me realising. They then opened my bag and triumphantly pulled out…. a hairbrush with a thick handle. They didn’t apologise.

Security staff do generally seem to be ‘in the zone’ and lacking in empathy…. however OP in your case it seems that they followed airport/governmental rules and did nothing wrong. I hope you enjoy your trip.

ThatCyanCat · 12/07/2026 09:36

Unbelievable that people take routine and necessary additional security checks as such personal affronts and get so worked up over them. I don't even know where to begin. Honestly, some people just shouldn't fly.

Hollyhobbi · 12/07/2026 09:37

Ryanair’s longest flight is about 6 hours plus the op said she also had some refrigerated milk. Plus 8 month old babies can drink bottled water in an emergency, just check the mineral levels on the bottle.

Bansea · 12/07/2026 09:38

sittingonabeach · 12/07/2026 01:51

I was going to ask whether you could buy formula in the airport? Have you not started weaning at all or is there a medical reason you have delayed it?

A baby’s main source of nutrition up until age 1 is milk - breast or formula. Weaning or not is irrelevant.

Katrinawaves · 12/07/2026 09:40

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:35

If they aren’t arbitrary why are they different all the time and in different countries? Please explain exactly how putting my liquids in a clear bag makes them safer?

Because some airports have newer and more advanced scanners than others. It’s not rocket science!

allthewa · 12/07/2026 09:40

Bansea · 12/07/2026 09:38

A baby’s main source of nutrition up until age 1 is milk - breast or formula. Weaning or not is irrelevant.

It’s not really.

Manchester to Morocco is 3.5 to 4 hours flying time. An 8 month old baby should be having milk 3-5 times a day. Realistically OP didn’t need anywhere near as much milk. She could’ve given baby formula and food to avoid this situation.

sittingonabeach · 12/07/2026 09:41

@Bansea it was for a few hours whilst on the plane to supplement the liquid breast milk the OP had not the whole holiday.

professionalcommentreader · 12/07/2026 09:41

Unfortunately children are often used as vessels for smugglers, nappies, milk, formula cut with drugs, it’s not personal it’s the law.

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 09:42

ThatCyanCat · 12/07/2026 08:01

you could very easily have been allowed to defrost one for them to test.

From a security perspective, that's not good. Several frozen containers and only one is tested?

Not just that, but who's got the time for that

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 09:44

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:35

If they aren’t arbitrary why are they different all the time and in different countries? Please explain exactly how putting my liquids in a clear bag makes them safer?

I fully understand why you find airport security are rude to you….

What an attitude.

You’re the one standing in line, huffing, puffing, whining that this is all unnecessary.

The rest of us accept this is a part of travelling, very happy to wait and looking forward to our trips.

CoffeeInTheClouds · 12/07/2026 09:44

Firstly OP, I am so impressed that you have persevered with the pumping for 8 months!

Negotiating airport security with small children is so stressful, even without the drama you explained. We enjoy the luxury of generous accommodations in our day to day lives, but airport security is one of those areas where no has to mean no. And, there is no point arguing.

Thankfully, your daughter is of an age that milk isn't her only form of nutrition. Hopefully this will help someone else to avoid the same mistake in future.

Emmasblackboard · 12/07/2026 09:46

BakedPotatoBeansCheeseColeslaw · 12/07/2026 09:31

No, because my things were taken away with no explanation. There was nothing wrong with them and I was made to feel like some kind of terrorist. I simple explanation of what they were doing, where they were taking my things, why and when I would get them back would have gone a long way. Airport security lines are stressful enough.

That’s so dramatic. “There was nothing wrong with them” - would you be happy if the same thing happened to the person in front of you, they said “there’s nothing wrong with them” and security said “ah ok madam, terribly sorry, on you go”?
I still remember when I went to Olympic archery at Lords with the family. I was wearing a belt my sister had bought me, they took it away and I could see them frowning over it and looking along the length of the inside. Then they got another couple of people over. It felt like ages! I was thinking, I don’t know where my sister got the belt. Then they just put it back on the tray. No explanation but I didn’t expect anything! Just accepted as their job and was relieved my children didn’t witness me being handcuffed and removed.

Pinkchickenwine · 12/07/2026 09:46

Emmasblackboard · 12/07/2026 09:46

That’s so dramatic. “There was nothing wrong with them” - would you be happy if the same thing happened to the person in front of you, they said “there’s nothing wrong with them” and security said “ah ok madam, terribly sorry, on you go”?
I still remember when I went to Olympic archery at Lords with the family. I was wearing a belt my sister had bought me, they took it away and I could see them frowning over it and looking along the length of the inside. Then they got another couple of people over. It felt like ages! I was thinking, I don’t know where my sister got the belt. Then they just put it back on the tray. No explanation but I didn’t expect anything! Just accepted as their job and was relieved my children didn’t witness me being handcuffed and removed.

I’d expect that on return this PP shouted “told you so”!

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 12/07/2026 09:47

SurferRona · 12/07/2026 08:59

I think this is exactly what should happen, the OP asked to quickly defrost some in a hot cup.

And it could be tested frozen, all they need to do is chip off a bit, it would melt in seconds! I just don’t understand what the security risk difference actually is between frozen and liquid breast milk- does frozen breast milk resemble semtex? Then chip some off and test it FFS! I mean, how often is this an issue, that parents try to bring on frozen breast milk to feed their baby?

Im so sorry this happened OP, it’s frankly appalling they threw away all a baby’s food, that’s not on. When they could have asked you to defrost it first. Leaving a babe in arms to go hungry or assuming you can express enough in flight is pretty poor. And I would never want to fly with a hungry baby in the cabin. Glad you made it through and it’s helpful for others to learn about this too- I didn’t.

Leaving a babe in arms to go hungry or assuming you can express enough in flight is pretty poor.

You are ascribing the blame to the wrong people. Security aren't leaving a baby to go hungry, the OP is by choosing to board the flight even when the milk has been discarded.

Airport security don't have the staff to stop and wait whilst a passenger fiddles about defrosting milk.

Buttonspoons · 12/07/2026 09:48

Notrainingbutpouring · 12/07/2026 09:05

Bring frozen on checked luggage? Use pump while on plane? Bring bm in one of those thermos style cups that keep liquids cool for hours? Plan a shorter flight/connecting flights so she has break. That’s all the work arounds I’ve come up with in ten seconds - just engage your brain and think for ten seconds. And if that’s a reach because critical thinking is in short supply, google it. Use AI. Ask someone like la leche league.

Riiiight... All great ideas when you have a time machine but none of these things OP could have done in that instance, which is what was asked. You'd know that if you'd 'engaged your brain and thought for 10 seconds'.

Aside from pumping on the plane of course - which is great as it means that there's no problem here. Baby is fed, all is well. If that doesn't work, however, I guess it's a hungry baby.

likelysuspect · 12/07/2026 09:51

PrettyLittleRose · 12/07/2026 09:06

Well the OP said herself that it was stressful! Taking 3 young children abroad, and a baby too. And going to Morocco will be harder than if she had just gone for a week in Spain to a resort.

So not a stupid question from @Jollyhockeystickss at all!

Agree. Its not a stupid question at all given OP is virtually moaning about everything about it, and its not really any different going to Spain either given the problems she caused herself

If its difficult and there are issues feeding your child and it involves lots of planning and compromise that you dont want to do in order to take a flight, then dont take the flight, do a different holiday.

The entitlement here is outstanding.

Viviennemary · 12/07/2026 09:53

I sympathise but these airport people are absolute tyrants with no empathy for anybody.