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Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight

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Nadsthakur · 12/07/2026 01:40

During security screening, approximately 25 ounces of my frozen expressed breast milk was confiscated and discarded. I was told that because it was frozen, it could not be tested and therefore could not be taken through security.

I explained several times that this milk was for my 8-month-old daughter, who is unable to latch and is exclusively fed expressed breast milk. This was not simply a drink or an inconvenience, it was my daughter's only prepared source of nutrition for our journey. Despite explaining this, I was told there was nothing that could be done, and I had to stand there and watch as the milk was thrown away.

I cannot put into words how upsetting this was. Expressing 25 ounces of breast milk takes an enormous amount of time, dedication and physical effort. It means pumping throughout the day and night, carefully storing every bottle and planning ahead. Every ounce represents hours of work. To have it thrown away in front of me, after explaining exactly how important it was, was absolutely heartbreaking.

What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card and sent on my way. It genuinely felt as though nobody cared that an 8-month-old baby had just lost the only food I had prepared for her. The complete lack of compassion shown towards me as a mother was deeply upsetting and made an already distressing situation even worse.

Instead of looking forward to our holiday, I boarded an international flight feeling anxious and devastated, worrying about how I was going to feed my daughter while we were away. No parent should ever be put in that position.

Before travelling, I checked the guidance available to passengers. Ryanair's website clearly states that parents travelling with an infant can bring as much baby milk as needed for the flight, provided it is presented for inspection. I relied on this information when preparing for our journey. At no point was I made aware that frozen expressed breast milk could be refused because it could not be tested, and I was given no alternative option when I reached security.

I do not know the names of the officers involved, but im sure they can be identified through CCTV footage and staff rosters for the security checkpoint.
I want Manchester Airport to provide a full explanation of why my daughter's expressed breast milk was confiscated.
The specific policy or security procedure that required it to be discarded.
An explanation of why no alternative screening method. The time and physical effort it took to express and store it, and the significant distress, anxiety and disruption this caused to both me and my family.im supposed to enjoy my holiday and now im stressed in morroco about how I will feed her. She doesnt latch and only has expressed milk. Besides complaining to the Airport what else can I do so no other family goes through this.

Airport security discarded ALL my frozen expressed milk before our flight
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Funnytaster · 14/07/2026 18:15

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card

By airport security? Really?

rwalker · 14/07/2026 18:37

Funnytaster · 14/07/2026 18:15

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card

By airport security? Really?

She’ll of asked how to complain and told them how unhelpful they were
so they’ll if given her the card in an attempt to draw a line under it

Newname26 · 14/07/2026 18:47

limetrees32 · 14/07/2026 17:06

The OP has an 8 month old baby that doesn't latch .
Reading her post it sounds as though she was explaining that this is why it was so important to her .
Is that really emotional blackmail?

She was in the wrong , hadn't checked the requirements properly, shouldn't have argued with the staff .
But .. perhaps if the staff had shown some sympathy (what Red toothbrush calls, presumably for dramatic effect) " fluffy"she wouldn't have felt the need to persue this with the airport.
What made the situation even worse was the attitude of the officers involved. Throughout the interaction, I felt they showed very little empathy or understanding of how serious this was. I was clearly distressed and repeatedly explained that they were taking away my baby's only food for our journey. Rather than trying to help, showing compassion or explaining whether there were any alternative screening options, my concerns were simply dismissed.
TBH I hope she does complain - about their attitude .
Some airport staff go out of their way to be unhelpful.
I recently witnessed a staff member telling an elderly and flustered old woman that she had to put her carry on luggage sideways into the frame that checks the dimensions.
This was after she had placed it ( with ease) the correct way round .
Just why?

It wasn't the only food for the journey.
Op had unfrozen / fresh milk too.

Part of the issue with frozen is it could be used to conceal anything, explosives, knifes or drugs. Security would have no idea what was in the middle of a frozen opaque lump.

Its not like milk in its liquid form you can slosh it around to be reasonably sure its just milk.

RedToothBrush · 14/07/2026 18:53

limetrees32 · 14/07/2026 17:30

But not every one is the same Red

You coped , she messed up and got upset.

She's not you .

If it's that much of a problem why is she flying in the first bloody place? Just give it a few months. Problem solved.

These Right To A Holiday Abroad shit doesn't help.

Take responsibility and be a grown up.

Shitshowpolitics · 14/07/2026 19:18

Funnytaster · 14/07/2026 18:15

After my daughter's food had been thrown away, I was handed a customer feedback card

By airport security? Really?

I'm surprised by the lack of compassion on this thread.

Imagine being at Manchester Airport with an 8-month-old and three other young children, watching hours of expressed milk being thrown away and suddenly wondering how you're going to feed your baby for the journey and once you arrive. Even if security were following the rules, I can completely understand why she'd be distressed.

Some posters seem more interested in criticising her than acknowledging she was probably panicking in that moment.

limetrees32 · 14/07/2026 19:21

Red toothbrush - so now you've moved on from criticising her for being upset( the drama ) to classifying her as entitled ,irresponsible and immature?
Right ..

Shitshowpolitics · 14/07/2026 19:29

RedToothBrush · 14/07/2026 18:53

If it's that much of a problem why is she flying in the first bloody place? Just give it a few months. Problem solved.

These Right To A Holiday Abroad shit doesn't help.

Take responsibility and be a grown up.

That's a pretty harsh take.

Parents don't stop having lives because they have a baby. Whether it's a family holiday, visiting relatives or something else, people are entitled to travel with children.

The OP has already accepted she should have checked the airport's guidance more carefully. That doesn't mean she should be told she had no business flying in the first place. Those are two completely different arguments.

Hotthread · 14/07/2026 21:25

Airport security don’t hand out customer feedback forms! This isn’t a hotel.
This will be a complaints form that @Nadsthakur demanded.

Duvetdayneeded · 14/07/2026 21:31

if there is a rule and you break it, deal with the consequences. Dont be so entitled that you deserve special treatment.

RVectensian · 14/07/2026 22:03

But how do we know they didn't? There is nothing to say that they didn't treat her with 'dignity' etc.

marcopront · 14/07/2026 23:46

Shitshowpolitics · 14/07/2026 19:18

I'm surprised by the lack of compassion on this thread.

Imagine being at Manchester Airport with an 8-month-old and three other young children, watching hours of expressed milk being thrown away and suddenly wondering how you're going to feed your baby for the journey and once you arrive. Even if security were following the rules, I can completely understand why she'd be distressed.

Some posters seem more interested in criticising her than acknowledging she was probably panicking in that moment.

She had milk for the journey.
The frozen milk was for later.

Hotthread · 15/07/2026 06:52

RVectensian · 14/07/2026 22:03

But how do we know they didn't? There is nothing to say that they didn't treat her with 'dignity' etc.

Exactly

They just didn’t give @Nadsthakur what she damn well WANTED

walrushurricane · 15/07/2026 10:40

Shitshowpolitics · 14/07/2026 19:29

That's a pretty harsh take.

Parents don't stop having lives because they have a baby. Whether it's a family holiday, visiting relatives or something else, people are entitled to travel with children.

The OP has already accepted she should have checked the airport's guidance more carefully. That doesn't mean she should be told she had no business flying in the first place. Those are two completely different arguments.

Life doesn't have to include a holiday abroad!

Hotthread · 15/07/2026 11:57

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MirrorVent · 16/07/2026 05:26

CallItLoneliness · 13/07/2026 03:30

Or it would be the courts deciding the rules are discriminatory in and of themselves, which they very well may be. Breastfed babies need breastmilk as food, and that breastmilk must be stored in certain conditions to be safe. It cannot be produced as a solid.

There is every likelihood that these rules make it impossible for some breastfed babies to fly. Being people, breastfed babies have as much right to public transport as other people. Given that many breastfed babies cannot be offered other foods due to allergies, it is possible that these rules discriminate on the basis of disability.

It is possible that the safety issues outweigh the right of those breastfed babies to fly, but it would be very interesting to see it tested in court.

But you can of course bring breast milk on a flight. Just not frozen.

PeonyBulb · 16/07/2026 05:35

just use formula like everyone else it’ll be fine

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