@loopyluloopy You asked about marriage, and the card I pulled for you is the 6 of Wands. A figure rides on a horse through a crowd, with a laurel wreath on their head and the staff they are carrying.
This is a card that shows a very public success. It can talk about the outward facing side of something -the front we put on for the world, our family, friends, community. If this is an existing partnership, we may be projecting something quite different from reality in order to save face. We may have hidden aspects of ourselves or others that we are ashamed to admit publicly. It can speak of the need for recognition of our achievements - if we have gone through a hard time and suffered or even martyred ourselves, this can be the card that represents an inward pat on the back that we need to give ourselves in order to continue.
It can also imply that the outward trappings of the situation may have become a little too important -this is the card of keeping up with the Joneses. We need to ask why the recognition is important to our sense of self.
If the marriage is yet to happen, then this card talks about the need to publicly recognise that. It can mean that aspects of the wedding have become very (too?) important. This is the card of the potential Bridezilla, and the warning is to reign it in a bit - the people on the card are not actually looking at the figure on the horse, they are gazing elsewhere.
I pulled another card to see if it would add context, and it was the 8 of Pentacles. Whatever your situation, this is the card that tells us to not give up, to keep working towards our goals. It can speak of boredom in a situation, and finding a way through that. It asks us if we are dedicated to the task in hand in and of itself. If all the trappings were taken away tomorrow, would you still want to continue with this particular person by your side?