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Ham pr disasters 53! …..how low will they go? …we all hope not that low!

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jeffgoldblum · 20/10/2026 15:38

Well we have had the attempted upstaging of the Welsh senate …..now the Oman state visit….we all hope that whatever advisors that they still have will not allow any thing to interfere with Aberfan! 🤞

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Dontevenlookatme · 21/10/2026 10:24

OrdinaryGingerBloke · 21/10/2026 08:59

I managed a minute before I decided I couldn’t listen to him anymore. You’re made of stern stuff!

I surprise myself sometimes…

Starryfifty · 21/10/2026 10:28

Mylovelygreendress · 21/10/2026 10:19

I know I keep saying it but the titles have to go .
Yorks too .

I agree with you. Yes, HAM will go ballistic. Threaten legal action, all sorts. Harry may finally implode but they basically doing all that now anyway. Yesterday's latest turd was absolutely shameful and a total embarrassment on a state visit. When is it going to end? My guess never and it won't be long before HAM have their kids trained to behave the same way.

JudgeJ · 21/10/2026 10:33

LookOutLookOutTomCruiseIsAbout · 21/10/2026 06:47

I really don’t agree with those who think Charles is weak and allowing Harry to push him around. He’s seen him what, three times in the last few years, all at Harry’s instigation, pointedly didn’t mention him on the US trip, didn’t get him invited to anything, hasn’t invited him to anything or even seen him since they came back, just issued the pointed “they’re nothing to do with me” statement, and now his response to Harry’s incessant “LOOK AT ME LOOK AT ME” is to tell everyone publicly how proud he is of William. He couldn’t be much clearer. I know the website thing annoys people but I think the ‘meh, they’re not important enough to make a fuss over, we’re too busy with actual royalling to bother with it’ is very effective. Plus their page is a very clear account of what happened, including their statements at the time, lest there be any suggestion that they were forced to leave.

Charles is right, these relationships are crucial to the UK, and it is important for all of us that William has friends and allies in countries like Jordan and Oman.

Charles is in a dificult position re Harry though, he has to react to the Markle shenanigans as both a father and as the King. As a father I'm sure that he would like a closer relationship with his son and grandchildren but he knows that he would find himself used as a PR pawn by them. As the King he can see that because of the Markles' history of viciousness towards the RF they cannot be trusted in any way. Once William becomes King I can imagine a situation in which they wouldn't even be invited to the Coronation, whatever form that takes, they've really burned their boats in that direction.

Chaostheory12 · 21/10/2026 10:33

The best thing would be to make a general change so no non working Royals have titles any longer. Remove them from the Yorks and the Sussexes at the same time . They really need to do this urgently.

Nono22972 · 21/10/2026 10:37

Mylovelygreendress · 21/10/2026 09:39

The Squad are not happy . Heavily criticising Harry for wanting to reconcile with people who made life so awful for their beloved Meghan.

They also criticized them for moving back to the UK

mysoddenbananabread · 21/10/2026 10:40

JudgeJ · 21/10/2026 10:12

Who wouldn't love to have been a fly on their wall when they saw the photos of the State dinner, the magnificence of the frocks, the table, everything. Did they send out for an Omani themed takeaway and wear their best pj's?

I imagine they had a VIP showing of Harry's interview at home with the kids on repeat celebrating his success.

AmandaHoldensLips · 21/10/2026 10:40

Words and actions have consequences. I am dumbfounded that H&M could be so stupid as to think that there was any way back from the scorched-earth nuclear campaign they waged against the RF.

Nobody in their right mind would trust either of them ever again.

I feel a bit sorry for Harry but he's made his bed and all that. It's also a real shame for their kids. But the damage is done, and there's no un-ringing that bell.

HarryTheRegent · 21/10/2026 10:41

Will no one think of the children?

G, C, L, A and L are all at school with older children who will think nothing of smirking at them in the corridors or accidentally shoving into them in the lunch queue. Yes, this happens, even in the vair posh schools.

The Wales kids will get sympathy today along the lines of Your Grandpop’s a ledge, your Dad’s a hero, your mum is spectacular but FML your unc is a chopped weirdo.

Harry’s kids will get the same but the Dad and Unc will get reversed.

ThatCyanCat · 21/10/2026 10:41

Chaostheory12 · 21/10/2026 10:33

The best thing would be to make a general change so no non working Royals have titles any longer. Remove them from the Yorks and the Sussexes at the same time . They really need to do this urgently.

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That's a lot of people who would lose long held prince and princess titles. Might be worth it for the tantrum from Princess Michael of Kent though.

SiegfriedSassoon · 21/10/2026 10:41

Nono22972 · 21/10/2026 09:06

This is why I can't with Harry.

The man went on national TV, basically said that his family was racist to his unborn child, almost pushed his wife suicide, low-key implied that the media, with the help of the RF briefing the press, caused Meghan's miscarriage.

And has now been talking about reconciliation for years.

I don't know, maybe we're the crazy one or Harry may be suffering from amnesia.

If everything he claimed is true, why would you want your children around these people?
How can he look Meghan in the eyes and tel’ her "too bad you suffered so much but I want my family back"

If he lied (which I believe he did several times), then how do you even fix this mess?

I don't know if many here are on social media but as a royal watchers on pretty much all platforms, we talk a lot about the abuse Meghan goes through on social media, but I don't think people realise the amount of abuse William, Kate and their kids get on social media

William gets accused of being a cheater and an abuser everyday of the week.

Kate gets attacked on her appearance, her weight, her marriage, her family.
Racism accusations everyday. She gets nicknames like KKKate (for those who know what the KKK is). They even had that nickname trend the day of the Queen's funeral.

The Where is Kate saga

The kids get attacked a lot as well

Honestly, I think too much has happened for reconciliation but who knows?

This is why there will never be a reconciliation. Harry and Meghan have increased the risk to Williams children over the last 7 years with their claims. We live in such volatile times and race is the most volatile topic. They knowingly used and weaponised this. Knowing it's a massive tinder box. Then Harry had the gall to say in his book that he is worried about William's children. What parent is going to forgive that.

HarryTheRegent · 21/10/2026 10:41

And aunt instead of MOM.

SiegfriedSassoon · 21/10/2026 10:44

JudgeJ · 21/10/2026 10:33

Charles is in a dificult position re Harry though, he has to react to the Markle shenanigans as both a father and as the King. As a father I'm sure that he would like a closer relationship with his son and grandchildren but he knows that he would find himself used as a PR pawn by them. As the King he can see that because of the Markles' history of viciousness towards the RF they cannot be trusted in any way. Once William becomes King I can imagine a situation in which they wouldn't even be invited to the Coronation, whatever form that takes, they've really burned their boats in that direction.

I definitely don't think Meghan will be invited to the coronation. And once harry wouldn't have gone without her but I think now he would (scowling).

Nono22972 · 21/10/2026 10:44

Badvocthebad · 21/10/2026 09:47

I think the marriage is on shaky ground.
I think they'll go to the US for Christmas and M won't come back.
She is probably realising her best money making opportunity is post divorce tv and books.

This is where I disagree. I think even if they have issues, they'll never divorce.

High profile marriages are pretty much brands at this point. They have this "us against the world" image. Harry is being lauded by many as the man who put his wife first above everything and everyone.

They'll never divorce. The humiliation would be too great

hacnocteequitamus · 21/10/2026 10:44

ImaPrinceImaPrincebutmyBrotherWontAdmitIt · 21/10/2026 10:16

In the absence of M there might be a small thaw to the extent of accommodating a non working Harry next door to Andrew and inviting him to Christmas or something. But so long as he is with Meghan not a chance.
People talk of water tight NDA's but what could be done if she breached it? Which she would. She's such a scheming minx, even if she didn't make direct reveals via another Oprah style interview, she accidentally on purpose drops hints or lets her "friends" know, or leaves a photo on her mood board in the background. She's completely untrustworthy.

Harry has shown time and time again that he is a scheming, deceptive, untrustworthy, leaky, sorry excuse for a person.

He hurt his family. She hurt them too but his treachery will hurt more.

She does not deserve to be the scapegoat for this. They have both acted terribly but Harry is the real villain here. Not her.

ImaPrinceImaPrincebutmyBrotherWontAdmitIt · 21/10/2026 10:45

I was listening to a YouTube which had Annunciata Rees Mogg on.
She said that it would be possible to remove the Prince title and the HRH by straightforward letters patent , rather than the more complex parliamentary involvement that would be needed to remove the Duke title.
I think she's right. Removing the Duke, even if it were easy to do, would simply give Meghan a promotion to Princess Harry/Henry, except she would style herself Princess Meghan and love every minute of it. Whereas the Dukedom? As she said, we have lots of Dukes around the country, some fairly low key, some take their responsibilities and position seriously, some are total druggy criminal wasters (Duke of Marlborough being number one example).

I do think it would be worth removing the HRH (rather than it being in "abeyance", with the Sussex's clearly not signing up to that, and still using the HRH when the opportunity arises, even if it is in an empty room), and removing the Prince - would send a clear message to all.

hacnocteequitamus · 21/10/2026 10:46

smilesy · 21/10/2026 10:17

I’m inclined to think that the use of the swan emoji was also Meghan trying to identify herself with Diana. Again.

💯

Puzzledandpissedoff · 21/10/2026 10:47

BigWillyLittleTodger · 20/10/2026 22:54

After today I think we can safely say that “Project Thaw” is a busted flush.

You're probably right, @BigWillyLittleTodger - at least I hope you are

For myself, and remembering we don't know what happens behind the scenes, I'll finally believe it if they're not at the (purely family event) Sandringham Christmas, but as ever time will tell

SiegfriedSassoon · 21/10/2026 10:47

Nono22972 · 21/10/2026 10:44

This is where I disagree. I think even if they have issues, they'll never divorce.

High profile marriages are pretty much brands at this point. They have this "us against the world" image. Harry is being lauded by many as the man who put his wife first above everything and everyone.

They'll never divorce. The humiliation would be too great

I think your probably right. But they may end up spending much of their time apart.

AutumnCrowSeesDensePeople · 21/10/2026 10:47

Mylovelygreendress · 21/10/2026 10:19

I know I keep saying it but the titles have to go .
Yorks too .

I suppose it's the timing of the thing. I can't be the only one who wouldn't like to see the faithful, reliable Gloucesters and Kents lose their titles at this time of their lives, and I imagine that issue complicates things. The Duke and Duchess of Gloucester and the Duke of Kent have served the monarchy and thereby their country for decades with dignity and grace. Why should they be 'punished' because Harry is out of control?

The Duke of Kent appears frail but the Gloucesters have probably got a good few years of attending functions and charity involvement left in them judging by their energy levels at appearances.

(I've got a bit of a soft spot for Richard Gloucester. He was at the state banquet last night with Birgitte his wife, walking with Anne and Tim Lawrence. I'd love to talk to him about architecture.)

Mondommountain · 21/10/2026 10:50

Badvocthebad · 21/10/2026 09:33

That odd dash back to the uk when KC3s cancer dx was revealed...they didn't ask him and I suspect it was the last thing HMK wanted !
But..as ever (sorry!) What H wants is more important.

It was nothing more than a PR exercise, he was about to embark on a pre- invictus thing and do interviews in the US, the optics of the King announcing he had been diagnosed with cancer and Harry still sitting on all his criticism of his fathers, his family and the UK, and not having met his dad since before the freedom flight, would have looked pretty bad for him in the market he was trying to win over.

Mylovelygreendress · 21/10/2026 10:56

ThatCyanCat · 21/10/2026 10:41

That's a lot of people who would lose long held prince and princess titles. Might be worth it for the tantrum from Princess Michael of Kent though.

I understand she is very ill so not sure she would bother . Princess Alexandra too .

TheTwerkingDuchessOfMonteshitshow · 21/10/2026 10:57

Williaminagingerwig · 21/10/2026 09:19

Oh he won't understand! He won't even know where Oman is.

Im pretty sure I saw him outside the British Embassy in Muscat years ago. I recently
posted about it on another one of these threads.

Williaminagingerwig · 21/10/2026 10:59

TheTwerkingDuchessOfMonteshitshow · 21/10/2026 10:57

Im pretty sure I saw him outside the British Embassy in Muscat years ago. I recently
posted about it on another one of these threads.

That means nothing. He used to go to Scotland. He still claims he's a "Prince of England" (sic).

Williaminagingerwig · 21/10/2026 11:00

Mylovelygreendress · 21/10/2026 10:56

I understand she is very ill so not sure she would bother . Princess Alexandra too .

Yes, Princess Michael is bed bound after a stroke.

HarryTheRegent · 21/10/2026 11:04

The thing is, even if the titles are removed it won’t make a difference. We know that Andrew is still a prince really because he was born a prince. And Harry will always be a prince because he was born a prince. The only way forward is to change the letters patent today only the direct heirs are Prince/Princess and let the old titled die off. I’m sure in the age of high mortality it was useful to have a third cousin twice removed who was a Prince but it’s not so necessary these days.

Let’s look at deposed European royalty who still use their titles (thanks Google because I couldn’t think of any in a nano second) - Princess Maria-Olympia of Greece and Denmark, Princess Alexia of Greece and Denmark, and Princess Margareta of Romania. That’s the future for the Hams.

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