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Royal row between King Charles and Earl Spencer 3

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Viviennemary · 20/09/2026 17:27

A new thread and book not even published till Tuesday. I checked on Amazon and its only 12th on the non fiction bestseller list. Doesn't show Earl Spencer in a very good light imho.

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smilesy · 21/09/2026 11:16

Constantrunner · 21/09/2026 11:06

We do have the context.

We have the context that it was an argument. We don’t know exactly what Charles R was referring to though if and when he said those words. Charles S may well have misconstrued them. Do you accept that this is possible given the heightened emotions?

DelectableMe · 21/09/2026 11:16

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:14

He didn’t do it then? If it exists you should be able to link it through an AI search?

He did do it. It struck me because I do wonder why these people sell gossip like this.

smilesy · 21/09/2026 11:18

Ukisgaslit · 21/09/2026 11:15

What is wrong with the word ‘sinecure’

I’d say it’s pretty good description of the royals and their many employees.

I didn’t say there was anything wrong with it, did I?

BemusedAmerican · 21/09/2026 11:20

I'm an American. I don't get paid to post on MN. I do wonder about some other posters.

Serenster · 21/09/2026 11:20

Constantrunner · 21/09/2026 11:07

Charles Spencer told them what the king had said at the time. That is corroboration.

One of the journalists you are talking about, Richard Kay, wrote in the newspaper on Sunday that in the week between her death and funeral, Charles Spencer said he and Prince Charles had had a ‘furious row’. It was ‘about the boys’, but Spencer was reluctant to go further. Spencer added: ‘He has been utterly pathetic'".

That’s not corroboration of the words allegedly used by Charles, and Richard Kay actually suggests he wasn’t told any specifics.

Thedom · 21/09/2026 11:23

Second, there was a lot of misinformation that has been put out there about Diana in the meantime that he wanted to correct.

Hopefully the book will go some way to address any misinformation he believes is out there about Diana, but so far the two serialisations have done nothing of the sort.

DelectableMe · 21/09/2026 11:26

Thedom · 21/09/2026 11:23

Second, there was a lot of misinformation that has been put out there about Diana in the meantime that he wanted to correct.

Hopefully the book will go some way to address any misinformation he believes is out there about Diana, but so far the two serialisations have done nothing of the sort.

Edited

In the interview he said nothing about "misinformation"

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:27

DelectableMe · 21/09/2026 10:59

Also, how can two journalists "corroborate" the conversation? Where were they?

They are Richard Kay and A N Wilson who say what CS says now about his conversation with the then Prince of Wales aligns with what he told them around the time of Diana’s funeral.

A publisher such as Penguin would make sure that anyone accusing the King of such an awful statement would have solid corroboration before publishing.

DelectableMe · 21/09/2026 11:28

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:27

They are Richard Kay and A N Wilson who say what CS says now about his conversation with the then Prince of Wales aligns with what he told them around the time of Diana’s funeral.

A publisher such as Penguin would make sure that anyone accusing the King of such an awful statement would have solid corroboration before publishing.

So...the journalists are repeating Spencer's claims.... from Spencer himself?
Ok.

LetsNotForgetQueenMary · 21/09/2026 11:30

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 07:59

Do you have a source for that latter claim please?

I thought that the rumours about such a lawsuit over Diana's possessions originated entirely from fictionalised, clickbait videos and rumours on social media.

Charles Spencer had Diana’s wedding dress for his exhibition of her life and then it was passed on to William and Harry when they turned thirty I believe, but that was always the arrangement from the outset according to Diana’s wishes.

I didn't mention a lawsuit over Diana's possessions?
Just that CS lost an income stream when he could no longer charge visitors to have a look at her stuff, nor take it on tour to America, as he had done previously. He reportedly made several million that way. Presumably this is somehow all in line with his vow never to profit from his sister.

Ukisgaslit · 21/09/2026 11:31

smilesy · 21/09/2026 11:18

I didn’t say there was anything wrong with it, did I?

You singled out the word .
Why?

JustAnotherWhinger · 21/09/2026 11:32

Constantrunner · 21/09/2026 11:16

Yes ultimately. But there are rules for who is buried there. But the monarch can make an exception. She offered to make an exception for Diana. But Charles Spencer did not want that exception made. He wanted the rules to be followed.

Then that is what he should have written in his factual book. He didn’t. That’s the point people are making that you keep arguing against.

His statement that not having HRH meant she couldn’t be buried there, at the point that the Queen had suggested it, is incorrect.

Diana wouldn’t have been the first non-royal to be buried there (nor the last).

Details are important in books that claim to be historically accurate references.

Indigovelvet · 21/09/2026 11:33

Charles Spencer says he wasn't upset by the palace's "condescending" respose. That's the word - condescending. Yes the palace are good at condescension. That's their job I suppose.

Constantrunner · 21/09/2026 11:34

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:27

They are Richard Kay and A N Wilson who say what CS says now about his conversation with the then Prince of Wales aligns with what he told them around the time of Diana’s funeral.

A publisher such as Penguin would make sure that anyone accusing the King of such an awful statement would have solid corroboration before publishing.

Yes nothing going against the king gets published without a lot of fact checking.
And yes I know the story Spencers father told him about being an equery doesn't match up with timeline. But it's a family story, not something Charles Spencer was a witness to.
And people summarise in interviews, rather than use exact words. He will have notes he used for the book.

smilesy · 21/09/2026 11:35

Ukisgaslit · 21/09/2026 11:31

You singled out the word .
Why?

Because I thought it was unusual and not one that most people would have to hand. Is that ok with you? Or are you trying to say that I am inferring something (I am not!) Funny that you can’t do that with regard to what Charles S has said 🤷‍♀️

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:36

DelectableMe · 21/09/2026 11:26

In the interview he said nothing about "misinformation"

He didn’t use that word but he referred many times to historical accuracy and verification of the claims in his book regarding Princess Diana's life and the events surrounding her death and he felt it was his duty to act as an eyewitness to history. He and LK also touched on how Diana’s true character comes through in the book and what a great sense of humour she had and how much fun she was; the inference being that other accounts didn’t communicate this accurately.

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:43

Constantrunner · 21/09/2026 11:34

Yes nothing going against the king gets published without a lot of fact checking.
And yes I know the story Spencers father told him about being an equery doesn't match up with timeline. But it's a family story, not something Charles Spencer was a witness to.
And people summarise in interviews, rather than use exact words. He will have notes he used for the book.

YY and the timeline does match up about Johnnie Spencer’s time as an equerry as the then Princess Elizabeth wrote letters to Johnnie when he was away serving in the Second World War before he was made an equerry to her after her marriage. QE2 and Johnnie had been friends since way back when and there was talk of him being considered as a suitor for Elizabeth at one point.

Serenster · 21/09/2026 11:43

A publisher such as Penguin would make sure that anyone accusing the King of such an awful statement would have solid corroboration before publishing.

A publisher like Penguin would also have been advised by their legal team that the chances of the King suing Charles Spencer for defamation based on an account of a “he said/she said’ nearly 30 years ago was a very low risk indeed. Publishers deal in the risk of liability, they are not omniscient.

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:49

DelectableMe · 21/09/2026 11:28

So...the journalists are repeating Spencer's claims.... from Spencer himself?
Ok.

Are you suggesting that CS made these claims up thirty years ago, told two respected journalists, and then sat on them until now? Why would he do that?

What this proves is that CS did not just make them up for the purposes of this book, which is what people are accusing him of doing.

Ukisgaslit · 21/09/2026 11:49

upinaballoon · 21/09/2026 10:49

But you will not accept that what he actually said was, "They'll forget her soon enough", referring to the swayable crowds.

The words were
‘WE will forget her soon enough ‘

WE

Huge difference .
Have you watched the whole interview ?

I noticed there was an attempt the other day to spin it as ‘they’
Watch the interview .

DelectableMe · 21/09/2026 11:51

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:49

Are you suggesting that CS made these claims up thirty years ago, told two respected journalists, and then sat on them until now? Why would he do that?

What this proves is that CS did not just make them up for the purposes of this book, which is what people are accusing him of doing.

I'm suggesting that it only proves Spencer claimed it previously, not that it happened in the way it did? We just don't know.

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:52

Serenster · 21/09/2026 11:43

A publisher such as Penguin would make sure that anyone accusing the King of such an awful statement would have solid corroboration before publishing.

A publisher like Penguin would also have been advised by their legal team that the chances of the King suing Charles Spencer for defamation based on an account of a “he said/she said’ nearly 30 years ago was a very low risk indeed. Publishers deal in the risk of liability, they are not omniscient.

I doubt it. It’s likely everything that King Charles and CS communicated about on the subject of the plans for Diana’s funeral would have been recorded at the Palace end. Penguin wouldn’t risk publishing of there was any chance that palace records contradicted CS.

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:57

Ukisgaslit · 21/09/2026 11:49

The words were
‘WE will forget her soon enough ‘

WE

Huge difference .
Have you watched the whole interview ?

I noticed there was an attempt the other day to spin it as ‘they’
Watch the interview .

Yep! The lengths people will go to try and make out that this wasn’t what was said are getting laughable now tbh! Perhaps Prince Charles meant this or that or whatever?

Everything was done to erase Diana’s memory from the palace after her death. I believe what he said was a threat which was then carried out.

smilesy · 21/09/2026 11:58

Ukisgaslit · 21/09/2026 11:49

The words were
‘WE will forget her soon enough ‘

WE

Huge difference .
Have you watched the whole interview ?

I noticed there was an attempt the other day to spin it as ‘they’
Watch the interview .

Well, again, it’s the old context and interpretation thing isn’t it? He could have been talking about the way people in this Country were behaving at the time and including himself in that. I know you don’t seem to accept that people move on from the passing good a loved one and you have to be sombre all the time, but life isn’t like that. He could have meant that his too was passing phase of grief and hysteria for the whole country. I don’t know. But it is entirely possible that is what he meant. Or that Charles S misheard. Any number of possibilities. Given that Charles R objectively looked shell shocked by what had happened, it may be that Charles S is mistaken. Don’t you agree?

CrowOfTheAutumn · 21/09/2026 11:59

Minestronemusings · 21/09/2026 11:57

Yep! The lengths people will go to try and make out that this wasn’t what was said are getting laughable now tbh! Perhaps Prince Charles meant this or that or whatever?

Everything was done to erase Diana’s memory from the palace after her death. I believe what he said was a threat which was then carried out.

A ceremonial funeral was erasing her?? Okaaay.

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