“Earl Spencer turned down a request from his sister, Diana, Princess of Wales, for a home on the family's Althorp estate just six months after her separation from the Prince of Wales, according to private letters read to a jury yesterday.
Three letters found at the home of the Princess's former butler, Paul Burrell, show she was rebuffed by her brother who feared her presence would cause too much disruption to his family.”
He did initially offer her to rent the farmhouse on the Althorp estate, but then rescinded the offer.
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Letter 1
Dated in June 1993, and read aloud to the Old Bailey by Lord Carlile, QC, defence counsel for Burrell, the first letter begins "Dearest Duch", the earl's pet name for his sister, and is signed "Carlos", her nickname for him.
In it he writes:
"I thought I should update you on the Garden House and keep you informed of developments. I am keen to have everything sorted out clearly in advance of any decision, so there are no problems if the whole thing goes ahead.
"I see your clear need for a country retreat and I am happy to help provide it as long as there is not too much disruption to us or to the estate.
"The Garden House seems to suit your needs perfectly. It has been previously let for £20,000 a year, although I don't ask for as high rent from you, but for £12,000 to include cleaning inside and lawnmowing and tidying up outside, on the basis of one day a week cleaning and half-a-day gardening.
"All in all there is a lot of room for conflict if everything is not sorted out in advance. I am sorry to be so businesslike about it, but it is vital that it is all sorted out now.
"I have to look after Victoria and the girls first and therefore it is my responsibility that their privacy and quality of life is not undermined by your moving in. I thought it best to bring it all up before the police got involved, in case you decide to pull out."
letter 2
Two weeks later, however, Lord Spencer had a change of heart.
"Dearest Duch," he wrote, "I am sorry but I have decided that the Garden House is not a possible move. There are many reasons, most of which centre on the inevitable police and press interference that will follow."
He adds that he is now employing a senior agent and the property is needed for him to live in. "I know you will be disappointed but I know I am doing the right thing for my wife and children. I am just sorry I cannot help my sister!
"Seriously though, there are farmhouses around here that may well not interfere with us, but I cannot afford to give them rent free although I wish I could. In theory it would be lovely to help you out and I am sorry I can't do that.
"Victoria and I really value our privacy and the combined pressure of the Northants police, neighbours and friends have definitely compromised that.
"If you are really interested in renting a farmhouse, either here or in Warwickshire or Norfolk, that would be wonderful."
Letter 3
The third letter, on June 28, shows the rift had developed, when Lord Spencer replied to a letter from the Princess with the words: “
”Dearest Duch, Knowing the state you were in the other night when you hung up on me, I doubt whether reading this will help our relationship.
"Therefore I am returning it unopened because it is the quickest way to rebuild our friendship."
He signs off with: "Have a very happy birthday on Thursday, Love Charles.