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PR disasters thread 26

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BigWillyLittleTodger · 26/07/2026 11:15

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Thedom · 02/08/2026 11:37

IcedPurple · 02/08/2026 11:04

I'm not sure.

I think for Harry, it's still 2017 and he is still the 'party prince' and everyone was wishing him well with his hot new actress girlfriend and looking forward to him starting a family. SO much has happened since then. But Harry still seems to think the British public has great affection for him. Hence all the 'leaks' about how 'he would love to bring his family over', as if anyone gives a toss about whether or not he or his family visit the country.

Knowing that most people are indifferent to him and that he's not significant enough to require high level security would not do his 'mental health' much good. Especially as most of his friends have moved on and his family are suspicious of him. What he needs to do is build a life in California, because like it or not, that's his home now.

Exactly, it was Harry’s fun loving irreverent persona which endeared him to so many people, but he has aged out of that schtick, it just doesn’t work for a 40+ year old, I think that is why people believe he is thick, he is relying on slapstick humour, pinch a nipple here, slap an arse there, to try to charm and win over people, he has not progressed beyond the clowning around that worked for him many years.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/08/2026 12:01

As my Granny would say, she is as common as muck

I've always preferred "vulgar", @AliasGracie, but really it just seems to come down to a basic inadequacy for the role she so willingly took on, and now a disintegration because it's become so obvious

Not knowing her personally it's unclear whether this is because of her background, personaility or something else, but while it's also true that many of us wouldn't have been able to hack it either, I suspect most would have had more sense than to try

Aprilfountain · 02/08/2026 12:04

Very good points, Harry truly seems to be stuck in the past when he was still Diana's lickle boy and people felt sorry for him, but decades have passed and things are very different now. The last ten years have done so much damage to his reputation, mostly caused by himself, that he can never be seen as the same person again!

LaMarschallin · 02/08/2026 12:05

BigWillyLittleTodger · 02/08/2026 10:58

I don’t believe it’s ever been about his mental health, if it was his so called fears wouldn’t just be confined to the UK, it’s about his huge ego and jealousy of William, no amount of trips will ever cure that I’m afraid.

I agree.
Character flaws aren't the same as psychopathology.

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 12:54

sunflowersintheday · 02/08/2026 09:58

George is a boy of 13. That's some projection! Or is it just wishful thinking?

Just two.mumsnetters talking.

Starryfifty · 02/08/2026 12:54

LaMarschallin · 02/08/2026 12:05

I agree.
Character flaws aren't the same as psychopathology.

I don't believe it's about his mental health at all. He's a very flawed individual and not a nice one. He has proven himself to be a liar. He lied about his family purely for financial gain. He tried to destroy the reputation of two female journalists, both of which were always supportive of him, again for financial gain.

H does not want to be working royal. What he wants is status. A royal house where he and his wife can get full bells and whistles security. He wants the pomp and ceremony

sunflowersintheday · 02/08/2026 12:55

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 12:54

Just two.mumsnetters talking.

At least ground it in some sort of reality. He's a 13 year old boy, leave him be.

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 13:00

sunflowersintheday · 02/08/2026 10:00

This is all wild speculation and projection. You have literally no idea.
You may as well claim that George wants to be physiotherapist and live in Acapulco.

It is indeed speculation (glad to see you picked up on the giveaway "I believe") but not so wild, surely?

Anyway, I assert my right, and the right of everyone here, to speculate to our hearts' content. Because, where the RF is concerned, if we had to stick with known and indisputable facts ( as much as there can ever be such a thing on a RF thread) we'd all be bored to.tears and have to decamp to AIBU.

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 13:06

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/08/2026 12:01

As my Granny would say, she is as common as muck

I've always preferred "vulgar", @AliasGracie, but really it just seems to come down to a basic inadequacy for the role she so willingly took on, and now a disintegration because it's become so obvious

Not knowing her personally it's unclear whether this is because of her background, personaility or something else, but while it's also true that many of us wouldn't have been able to hack it either, I suspect most would have had more sense than to try

Edited

I'm reading the Guardian article on Jason Arday at the moment, having read thecUnherd one by Dr Stock.

Both list this man's fantastical claims (and the Guardian dowses many of them with journalistic skepticism that just falls short of callig him.a liar). I'm am being reminded so much of MM in this respect.

corblimeymlud · 02/08/2026 13:38

IcedPurple · 02/08/2026 11:04

I'm not sure.

I think for Harry, it's still 2017 and he is still the 'party prince' and everyone was wishing him well with his hot new actress girlfriend and looking forward to him starting a family. SO much has happened since then. But Harry still seems to think the British public has great affection for him. Hence all the 'leaks' about how 'he would love to bring his family over', as if anyone gives a toss about whether or not he or his family visit the country.

Knowing that most people are indifferent to him and that he's not significant enough to require high level security would not do his 'mental health' much good. Especially as most of his friends have moved on and his family are suspicious of him. What he needs to do is build a life in California, because like it or not, that's his home now.

Yes and he's having poison dripped into his ear which he's lapping up.

MyDogClive · 02/08/2026 13:40

I don’t have any difficulty believing that Harry has mental health issues. It’s just that they aren’t the reason he’s an arse.

ShamedBySiri · 02/08/2026 13:44

Thedom · 02/08/2026 11:37

Exactly, it was Harry’s fun loving irreverent persona which endeared him to so many people, but he has aged out of that schtick, it just doesn’t work for a 40+ year old, I think that is why people believe he is thick, he is relying on slapstick humour, pinch a nipple here, slap an arse there, to try to charm and win over people, he has not progressed beyond the clowning around that worked for him many years.

Staying stuck at a particular age is very dangerous I think for some people especially if they are in the public eye. I think that was part of AMW’s problem that he thought he was still the Falkland’s hero living in a time when the monicker “Randy Andy” was practically an expression of admiration and he was still quite good looking with girls throwing themselves at him. Time and public mores moved on and he didn’t landing him in a lot of trouble.
Harry with his arse slapping jokes etc is at grave risk of going the same way. Not to mention the love of billionaires - he is bound to end up linked to someone dodgy (more so than the current list of friendly Russians and Tyler Perry lending houses and use of private jets).

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/08/2026 13:55

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 13:06

I'm reading the Guardian article on Jason Arday at the moment, having read thecUnherd one by Dr Stock.

Both list this man's fantastical claims (and the Guardian dowses many of them with journalistic skepticism that just falls short of callig him.a liar). I'm am being reminded so much of MM in this respect.

Off topic I know, but I've also been following the Arday situation, Rhaidimiddim, and am convinced that's another one which will blow up - and that when it does the usual tired howls of racism will be repeated

I guess the relevance to the thread is that here's someone else who appears to have used the zeitgeist to full advantage, supported by far too many who've been unwilling to acknowledge the glaring inconsistencies

sunflowersintheday · 02/08/2026 15:05

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 13:00

It is indeed speculation (glad to see you picked up on the giveaway "I believe") but not so wild, surely?

Anyway, I assert my right, and the right of everyone here, to speculate to our hearts' content. Because, where the RF is concerned, if we had to stick with known and indisputable facts ( as much as there can ever be such a thing on a RF thread) we'd all be bored to.tears and have to decamp to AIBU.

Maybe stick to the adults, eh?

AnAutumnCrow · 02/08/2026 15:05

HeddaGarbled · 02/08/2026 00:32

@Rhaidimiddim

And if George deciding he doesn’t want to do it coincides with popular and governmental appetite for change, it could all be done quite smoothly and without conflict as other modernisations have in the past.

I know this isn’t about H&M PR, but I do think it’s interesting.

It’s relevant in the sense that HaM don’t yet realise how much of an anachronism they are, more so each passing year.

Their PR needs to keep up. But it won’t.

Starryfifty · 02/08/2026 15:16

AnAutumnCrow · 02/08/2026 15:05

It’s relevant in the sense that HaM don’t yet realise how much of an anachronism they are, more so each passing year.

Their PR needs to keep up. But it won’t.

HAM don't see beyond week by week. In 5 years time, George will have a prominent role in the WRF. If he wants it of course. Then Charlotte and L. H genuinely believes he's adored by the British public. He has publicly said he's sure the British public want him safe 🙄 he's unbelievably entitled and arrogant. He's the absolute bar of AMW. Randy Andy and cheeky Chappy Harry.

Aprilfountain · 02/08/2026 15:24

I'm not sure that George will have a prominent role soon, don't most royal teens have a gap year and then go onto university for the next three years before they take on royal duties?

Mylovelygreendress · 02/08/2026 15:38

Aprilfountain · 02/08/2026 15:24

I'm not sure that George will have a prominent role soon, don't most royal teens have a gap year and then go onto university for the next three years before they take on royal duties?

I think you are right however I think we will start to see the Wales DC at more events . It was interesting that Louis was included at the Commonwealth Games ; H and M simply can’t compete with that no matter how many photos of the backs of A and L’s heads they post.

bluegreygreen · 02/08/2026 15:42

George is likely to have a prominent role within the next 10 years.

It may not be as a full-time working royal (he is likely to go to university, and may undergo military training), but he is the heir and has already begun carefully selected public engagements alongside his parents.

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 15:44

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IcedPurple · 02/08/2026 16:30

bluegreygreen · 02/08/2026 15:42

George is likely to have a prominent role within the next 10 years.

It may not be as a full-time working royal (he is likely to go to university, and may undergo military training), but he is the heir and has already begun carefully selected public engagements alongside his parents.

Yes. The Spanish princesses, aged 19 and 20, have an increasingly prominent role, attending engagements alongside their parents and occasionally independently too. They're both still in full time education so obviously they are not 'working royals' and Infanta Sofia probably never will be. But they are still taking on more of a public role. Same with Crown Prince Christian in Denmark. I could see the same happening with George, but not for a few years yet.

Andylion · 02/08/2026 16:33

Rhaidimiddim · 02/08/2026 00:22

But he also has James Middleton's eyes.

I always thought that James Middleton looked like George V. (Maybe not in these two pics I have quickly found.)

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KnickerlessParsons · 02/08/2026 17:09

Andylion · 02/08/2026 16:33

I always thought that James Middleton looked like George V. (Maybe not in these two pics I have quickly found.)

More so, his son Edward VIII.

Andylion · 02/08/2026 17:15

You may be right.
I did a search for “ Young, Edward vii” and I found this picture which I thought looked like Charles. I don’t know why I was surprised that there was such a family resemblance within a family.
Then I thought that was a rabbit hole I didn’t want to go down. It is very rainy where I am today and I could easily spend my whole afternoon online.

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HoldMyWine · 02/08/2026 18:00

Andylion · 02/08/2026 17:15

You may be right.
I did a search for “ Young, Edward vii” and I found this picture which I thought looked like Charles. I don’t know why I was surprised that there was such a family resemblance within a family.
Then I thought that was a rabbit hole I didn’t want to go down. It is very rainy where I am today and I could easily spend my whole afternoon online.

That is very like Charles

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