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Why is Prince George not going to secondary school until after he turns 13?

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MinnieMounjaro · 26/05/2026 10:16

Prince William reveals Prince George, 12, is already boarding at £10,669-a-term Lambrook School mol.im/a/15846933 via https://dailym.ai/android

I saw this article in the DM saying Prince George is currently boarding at Lambrook "ahead of moving to his secondary school in September". He turns 13 in July so the thought occurred to me - why is he still in primary school? Should he not have started secondary in 2024 when he was 11?

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gatorlizzie · 12/06/2026 20:16

Windsandstars · 12/06/2026 18:18

Spot on. Adult Harry has every right to reject that treatment, as does anyone else in his position. He knows what it's like to be treated as second best just for existing. This is textbook narcissistic family formatting - the golden child versus the scapegoat - and modern psychology heavily documents how toxic and lifelong this damage is. My mother lived through this exact dynamic: her brother was the golden child who did nothing just because he was a male heir (he could do no wrong but contributed to nothing and got everything best), while she was expected to handle everything and care for ungrateful parents. It’s an incredibly unfair and cruel thing to survive. This kind of dynamics exist and is real and the scapegoat is not whining nor being ungrateful.

Some people love to use the 'they were both just grieving children' excuse to smooth things over, but that completely ignores adulthood. Yes, William was a child then. But as adults, golden children almost always inherit the abusive system and continue to protect their own comfort and elevated status. Adult William didn't try to dismantle the unfair hierarchy; he leaned into it. Expecting the scapegoat to just quietly accept getting secondhand treatment forever so the golden child doesn't feel uncomfortable is a classic way sick families suppress accountability.

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Do you think we are seeing a repeat here with Harry and Meghan supposedly treating Lilibet as a golden child ? Should Harry know better based on what you say?

gatorlizzie · 12/06/2026 20:26

NameChangeMay2026 · 12/06/2026 07:52

Random thought: I really wonder about women who marry the heir to the throne. It means that their first-born is trapped and their entire life mapped out for them in one role the moment they're conceived. Hard luck if you have other talents and interests. You're doomed to live in a golden cage and perform endless boring duties and be harshly criticised by all and sundry for the rest of your life.

I couldn't do it to a potential first-born, I just couldn't. To bring a child into the world knowing that they were destined for all that, and to have no freedom to become a "something," a pilot or a teacher or a doctor or a fashion designer. Not to be able to properly develop any professional skills or mastery of an area of employment. Giving your life to public service, much of it boring, and everyone telling you how pointless your life's work is and how much they want the institution you represent to be gone.

The women who have married heirs to the throne must have wanted to be Queen very, very badly to knowingly saddle their first-born with that position. (I say knowingly because in the late Queen Mum's case, she had no idea her husband would become King.) Really, William is very lucky that Kate chose him, when she could easily have married some rich hooray Henry and had a private life of leisure.

Speaking of Queen Mums, it's really odd to think of Kate being the Queen Mother one day, if she outlives William. 🤣 To be the Queen Mother, you have to have been a Queen Consort yourself and be the mother of the current Sovereign. So the next one would be Kate - if she outlives William. Kate as the Queen Mum - lol! 🤣 I can just imagine her with a blue rinse and a pink gin! 😂

You seem to be of the opinion that it's just a bit of turning up and ribbon cutting. You obviously don't know much about many of the endeavours that Charles was and still is involved in. To suggest a person who carries out this role - and successfully - has no skills is naive at its best. Take for example Charles visit to Trump recently. He wowed them and it's not an easy task . I recall the education that the Queen asked for when it became apparent that she would be Queen. You have a low opinion of the " job" so it's unsurprising you don't see the challenges of it.

LipglossAndLies · 12/06/2026 21:07

gatorlizzie · 12/06/2026 20:26

You seem to be of the opinion that it's just a bit of turning up and ribbon cutting. You obviously don't know much about many of the endeavours that Charles was and still is involved in. To suggest a person who carries out this role - and successfully - has no skills is naive at its best. Take for example Charles visit to Trump recently. He wowed them and it's not an easy task . I recall the education that the Queen asked for when it became apparent that she would be Queen. You have a low opinion of the " job" so it's unsurprising you don't see the challenges of it.

So you know he wrote his speech himself.. or was it someone else who was talented and did it for him 🤔

bluegreygreen · 12/06/2026 21:32

There were many aspects to the State visit - hence I assume why the previous poster used the word 'visit' not 'speech'.

KC3 has built up a lot of diplomatic capital over the last 40-50 years.

HelenaWilson · 12/06/2026 21:40

KC3 has built up a lot of diplomatic capital over the last 40-50 years.

He is at a point where he has been in public life longer than many people who are in office today have been alive.

gatorlizzie · 12/06/2026 21:48

LipglossAndLies · 12/06/2026 21:07

So you know he wrote his speech himself.. or was it someone else who was talented and did it for him 🤔

You know he didn't ?

Southwestten · 12/06/2026 22:59

I don’t understand why it’s possible to understand what’s going on with those posters, but not to extend the same to the people who lived in the stately homes.

i don’t understand why it’s not possible to understand that there are happy and unhappy, functional and dysfunctional families from all backgrounds and incomes.
Of course some families from stately homes will be unhappy and some won’t.
Unless you think (or maybe hope) all upper class/rich families are unhappy.

Windsandstars · 13/06/2026 00:33

gatorlizzie · 12/06/2026 20:16

Do you think we are seeing a repeat here with Harry and Meghan supposedly treating Lilibet as a golden child ? Should Harry know better based on what you say?

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I don't see a shred of evidence to support that theory. From everything we’ve seen, Harry and Meghan appear to be highly present, loving parents running a rather normal, functional household. Having been a direct victim of that specific institutional cruelty, Harry is aware of the lifelong damage it causes... it’s highly unlikely he would replicate the very system he sacrificed everything to escape. If anything, the children remaining within the institution face a far greater risk, simply because the monarchy is fundamentally built on elevating the heir at the expense of the younger siblings and using the younger kids as scapegoats while cleaning the heir misgivings. That said, I genuinely hope Catherine is doing the work behind closed doors to break that toxic cycle for her own children.

CurlewKate · 13/06/2026 01:58

Araminta1003 · 12/06/2026 19:51

Care to comment about the damage to the 14 or 15 trillionaire’s children @CurlewKate ?

What did Philip Larkin say?
“They fuck you up, your mum and dad.”

With privilege, wealth etc comes even more duty and burden.

However, still better than a druggie mum and an absent father! I know what I would choose.

Well, I’d be happy to- if the trillionaire’s children were what this thread was about!

LipglossAndLies · 13/06/2026 06:14

gatorlizzie · 12/06/2026 21:48

You know he didn't ?

Well we do know they have lots of staff and a comms team so its more likley he didnt write it himself.

Arjan · 13/06/2026 07:03

Of course Charles didn’t write the speech solo.

He would have had to practice that for weeks, it was uber polished, he didn’t stumble once in speaking for a full 30 minutes, he had all the timings absolutely spot on with humour and making some incredibly pertinent as well as contentious points.

I’m not any fan of Charles in general, but he did a magnificent job and you can be sure he put in a huge amount of work for that single 30 minute speech which gained him worldwide acclaim.

King Charles III: The core sentiments, tone, and delicate phrasing were Charles’s own, reflecting his personal views on issues like NATO, Ukraine, and climate change.
Sir Clive Alderton: The King’s private secretary and a highly experienced diplomat, he was instrumental in helping Charles ensure the tone was appropriate and sensitive issues were addressed smoothly.
UK Government & Foreign Office: Because it was an official state visit, the speech had to undergo multiple approval stages with the British government to align with UK diplomatic objectives.
Aide Team: Buckingham Palace aides, including deputy private secretary Theo Rycroft and director of communications Tobyn Andreae, worked alongside the UK Embassy in Washington to refine the text

CurlewKate · 13/06/2026 07:35

To be fair, even I gave credit to KC for his speeches in the US. Of course he didn’t write them, but I’m sure he had a hand in it. And his delivery was impeccable. Not sure that one pretty spectacular instance justifies the whole panoply though!

Newname26 · 13/06/2026 07:38

NameChangeMay2026 · 12/06/2026 07:52

Random thought: I really wonder about women who marry the heir to the throne. It means that their first-born is trapped and their entire life mapped out for them in one role the moment they're conceived. Hard luck if you have other talents and interests. You're doomed to live in a golden cage and perform endless boring duties and be harshly criticised by all and sundry for the rest of your life.

I couldn't do it to a potential first-born, I just couldn't. To bring a child into the world knowing that they were destined for all that, and to have no freedom to become a "something," a pilot or a teacher or a doctor or a fashion designer. Not to be able to properly develop any professional skills or mastery of an area of employment. Giving your life to public service, much of it boring, and everyone telling you how pointless your life's work is and how much they want the institution you represent to be gone.

The women who have married heirs to the throne must have wanted to be Queen very, very badly to knowingly saddle their first-born with that position. (I say knowingly because in the late Queen Mum's case, she had no idea her husband would become King.) Really, William is very lucky that Kate chose him, when she could easily have married some rich hooray Henry and had a private life of leisure.

Speaking of Queen Mums, it's really odd to think of Kate being the Queen Mother one day, if she outlives William. 🤣 To be the Queen Mother, you have to have been a Queen Consort yourself and be the mother of the current Sovereign. So the next one would be Kate - if she outlives William. Kate as the Queen Mum - lol! 🤣 I can just imagine her with a blue rinse and a pink gin! 😂

She wouldn't be Queen Mother, she would still be Queen Catherine

Queen Mums proper title was
Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother.

Her daughter also being Queen Elizabeth they needed something to make a difference between them.
Queen Ann? (I think that was her name) King George the 5ths wife, was just that Queen Ann, not Queen Ann the King's Mother or Queen Ann the Queens Granny.

If George married a Catherine then they'd need to come up with something most likely King's Mother, but the odds of him marrying a Catherine and there being two Queen Catherine's is remote.

gatorlizzie · 13/06/2026 09:19

LipglossAndLies · 13/06/2026 06:14

Well we do know they have lots of staff and a comms team so its more likley he didnt write it himself.

Ah guessing ...

CurlewKate · 13/06/2026 09:24

gatorlizzie · 13/06/2026 09:19

Ah guessing ...

No. Just understanding how things work.

MrsFinkelstein · 13/06/2026 10:16

Charles didn't write his own speech, but he was heavily involved in it from the start.

This was widely reported at the time. I'm not sure why we're suddenly trying to rewrite recent history.

How King Charles’s speech was written – and how to read it | King Charles III | The Guardian https://share.google/FG7vMdxXTozb9sXO9

How King Charles’s speech was written – and how to read it

King’s carefully crafted address to US Congress was the result of close liaison with aides, No 10 and Foreign Office

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2026/apr/29/how-king-charles-speech-written-how-to-read

CurlewKate · 13/06/2026 13:59

MrsFinkelstein · 13/06/2026 10:16

Charles didn't write his own speech, but he was heavily involved in it from the start.

This was widely reported at the time. I'm not sure why we're suddenly trying to rewrite recent history.

How King Charles’s speech was written – and how to read it | King Charles III | The Guardian https://share.google/FG7vMdxXTozb9sXO9

The rewriting of history seems to be the suggestion that he wrote every word himself……

LipglossAndLies · 13/06/2026 14:47

gatorlizzie · 13/06/2026 09:19

Ah guessing ...

So were you....

gatorlizzie · 13/06/2026 18:41

LipglossAndLies · 13/06/2026 14:47

So were you....

But I didn't post on a thread claiming that he wrote it all himself. YOU claimed he didn't write it and I just queried your post . 🙄 like pulling teeth ...

upinaballoon · 13/06/2026 21:05

Newname26 · 13/06/2026 07:38

She wouldn't be Queen Mother, she would still be Queen Catherine

Queen Mums proper title was
Queen Elizabeth the Queen Mother.

Her daughter also being Queen Elizabeth they needed something to make a difference between them.
Queen Ann? (I think that was her name) King George the 5ths wife, was just that Queen Ann, not Queen Ann the King's Mother or Queen Ann the Queens Granny.

If George married a Catherine then they'd need to come up with something most likely King's Mother, but the odds of him marrying a Catherine and there being two Queen Catherine's is remote.

Queen Mary, George V's wife.

Mylovelygreendress · 13/06/2026 21:51

Windsandstars · 13/06/2026 00:33

I don't see a shred of evidence to support that theory. From everything we’ve seen, Harry and Meghan appear to be highly present, loving parents running a rather normal, functional household. Having been a direct victim of that specific institutional cruelty, Harry is aware of the lifelong damage it causes... it’s highly unlikely he would replicate the very system he sacrificed everything to escape. If anything, the children remaining within the institution face a far greater risk, simply because the monarchy is fundamentally built on elevating the heir at the expense of the younger siblings and using the younger kids as scapegoats while cleaning the heir misgivings. That said, I genuinely hope Catherine is doing the work behind closed doors to break that toxic cycle for her own children.

I am sure H and M love both their DC however it cannot have escaped your notice that the number of photos posted of L vastly exceeds the number of A .
I am also not sure I would call them “ highly present” given the number of times one or both of them are away in other countries leaving the DC at home.

Newname26 · 13/06/2026 21:56

upinaballoon · 13/06/2026 21:05

Queen Mary, George V's wife.

Thanks 😊

I was thinking Ann but really wasn't sure. I knew it was definitely a short name and definitely not Elizabeth.

LipglossAndLies · 13/06/2026 22:45

Mylovelygreendress · 13/06/2026 21:51

I am sure H and M love both their DC however it cannot have escaped your notice that the number of photos posted of L vastly exceeds the number of A .
I am also not sure I would call them “ highly present” given the number of times one or both of them are away in other countries leaving the DC at home.

So how many times in a year is she away from her children? Have you done the math?

I did a quick check she did 4 trips in 2025 that were public knowledge a total of 15 days with Canada being the longest

So thats roughly 4% of her year away from the children which means for 96% of a year she is with her children.I think that makes her highly present in their lives.

What's your threshold then % wise or number of days that would make her highly present for you....

OccasionalHope · 14/06/2026 07:56

Newname26 · 13/06/2026 21:56

Thanks 😊

I was thinking Ann but really wasn't sure. I knew it was definitely a short name and definitely not Elizabeth.

Now that would have been awkward, a queen consort and queen dowager with the same name. Queen Mother in Law wouldn’t work, we would have to use the Dowager but in the title then.

Windsandstars · 14/06/2026 14:42

Mylovelygreendress · 13/06/2026 21:51

I am sure H and M love both their DC however it cannot have escaped your notice that the number of photos posted of L vastly exceeds the number of A .
I am also not sure I would call them “ highly present” given the number of times one or both of them are away in other countries leaving the DC at home.

Counting internet photos of young children to guess a family's dynamic is wild. They have withheld photos of both kids to give them a normal childhood away from the tabloid press and post in their own length, maybe the other kid doesn't even like taking pictures, many other issues. Shifting the argument to criticize them for traveling for work just shows you're determined to find fault no matter what. Leaving l kids at home in normal routine while you go on a short business trip is standard parenting for millions of working professionals. It seems the original point was abandoned because it didn't hold up to basic logic, now wanting to attack normal stuff to try to find a fault and take out attention from the proper reigning royal family.

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