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AIBU to think the King’s speech was completely irrelevant to most of us

219 replies

CoastalGrey · 25/12/2025 16:41

I know he’s head of the church but he’s also head of the country in general and religion is not a top priority for the vast majority of the people he supposedly represents. If the RF want to stay relevant it’s about time they used their positions for something more useful than spouting a bunch of fairy stories that cause many of the world’s biggest problems.

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Theroadt · 25/12/2025 23:18

everywhereeverything1 · 25/12/2025 16:47

Unifying, unless you’re not a Christian.

He did mention other faiths with respect. But it is Christmas - I think it’s logical to say something about Christianity on Christmas Day at least 🙄🥴

Fargo79 · 25/12/2025 23:37

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 25/12/2025 21:35

Except the King actually works very hard for his "benefits," doing endless paperwork and attending endless meetings behind the scenes, plus doing hundreds of engagements a year for his country, and he continued doing as much as possible throughout his cancer treatment. His Prince's Trust and his championing of climate issues has done much for the country, and he's been doing those things for decades. He has also always been a champion of diversity, saying that he wanted to be Defender of Faiths, not "the faith."

He has extensive professional support to carry out his role. The RF have huge numbers of staff. He is enormously privileged, lives in total luxury and wants for nothing. There are many hundreds of thousands or millions of people in the UK and across the Commonwealth who work harder than the king and a lot of them are living in abject poverty. The idea that someone should be born into obscene wealth and "rule" over people who are starving, homeless or otherwise suffering and that's OK because he "works very hard", belongs in the dark ages.

Olderbutt · 26/12/2025 00:06

BlooomUnleashed · 25/12/2025 17:08

I just went to watch it on youtube.

I’m looking at it from perspective as having had reason to consider my own mortality more closely than was comfortable, and what I was left with in the end in my bucket of “this matters”. The fundamental principles of living as well as you can, with the cards you were dealt from the start, and the wild cards you acquired as life sunshine and thunderstorms happened on top of you.

His bucket (based on his speech) appears to have much the same content as my own. Packed with values that are shared by most religions, and deemed valuable by most people, whether you believe that God created man, or man created God as an ideal to strive towards despite knowing you’ll never reach that standard of perfection.

Absolutely, well said

Olderbutt · 26/12/2025 00:08

LittlePotteryBird · 25/12/2025 17:56

What the fuck? This is a really offensive comment. Having mobility issues is not a moral failing or something to be criticised for.

Well said

PurpleLovecats · 26/12/2025 00:31

I have never ever watched a speech on Xmas day from the king or the former queen.
I am not religious, I did not vote for them, they are there by bloodline only, and I doubt they have anything to say that’s relevant to me given their privileged status.

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 26/12/2025 02:58

Fargo79 · 25/12/2025 23:37

He has extensive professional support to carry out his role. The RF have huge numbers of staff. He is enormously privileged, lives in total luxury and wants for nothing. There are many hundreds of thousands or millions of people in the UK and across the Commonwealth who work harder than the king and a lot of them are living in abject poverty. The idea that someone should be born into obscene wealth and "rule" over people who are starving, homeless or otherwise suffering and that's OK because he "works very hard", belongs in the dark ages.

He doesn't rule, and he's not free to do anything else. He's given his whole life in service to his country, when he might well have preferred to be an organic farmer or a historian or a climate scientist. How utterly boring cutting all those ribbons and making conversation with endless strangers - and there is no retirement. Yes, he's wealthy, but can that make up for him dedicating his life to public service instead to his own talents and happiness? I don't think so. Talk about a gilded cage. And he can't just go out and about, and people write awful things about him all the time but he can't answer back. I don't think being a royal is as amazing as you think. Money can't make up for his wasted potential and his complete lack of freedom and lack of control over his destiny. Not everything is about money or is fixed by having it.

Similar with Kate. I know it looks like she's the woman who has it all, but again, she can't make any choices of her own, the country watches what she does or doesn't do like a hawk, and she is frequently criticised and bitched about, and she can't tell everyone to fuck off, as I'm sure she'd dearly like to. She made it very clear that she would be out of the public eye for a few months after her surgery, but there was a social media firestorm about where she'd got to which was later revealed to have been partially stoked by Russian trolls. And she also has no freedom, not being able to do ANYTHING or go anywhere without being stared at and reported on. Not to mention the endless kidnapping/shooting risk.

IMO, no amount of fancy houses and clothes can make up for ALL. THAT. CRAP.

FancyNewt · 26/12/2025 04:36

Kate chose that life.

BemusedAmerican · 26/12/2025 05:08

No, I don't think she expected the Russian bots and trolls. Or getting so sick so young. No one did.

ClaudiaNaughton · 26/12/2025 08:08

We missed Queen Elizabeth’s speeches from her home. Loved a good look at the photos etc

NewNameforThisPost2025 · 26/12/2025 08:16

FancyNewt · 26/12/2025 04:36

Kate chose that life.

True. I wonder if she regrets it. You probably can't imagine what it's like to disappear behind those Palace walls until you do it.

She must really love William. With the fame she got from dating him, her background and connections, and the fact that she's absolutely gorgeous, she could have had her pick of well-to-do young men. And then she could have had her life to herself. I read that she once told a friend, when they were teens, that all she wanted to do was live in the country and have lots of children and dogs.

I think her sister got the better deal. Sure, she's not an HRH or a princess and doesn't have the public status, but she has everything else that Kate has AND she doesn't have to sing for her supper.

upinaballoon · 26/12/2025 08:18

PurpleLovecats · 26/12/2025 00:31

I have never ever watched a speech on Xmas day from the king or the former queen.
I am not religious, I did not vote for them, they are there by bloodline only, and I doubt they have anything to say that’s relevant to me given their privileged status.

If you never listen to something which is said you'll never know if there was anything relevant to you or not.

Are you going to feed the hungry today or visit the prisoner?

IstillloveKingThistle · 26/12/2025 08:19

Miranda65 · 25/12/2025 17:00

Of course it wasn't irrelevant - it was appropriate for everyone.
And Christmas is a Christian festival (lest we forget), so if the Head of the Church of England can't make some reference to the true meaning of it all, it would be pretty poor.

Also, several of the images showed support for the Jews, and people of other faiths. After the year we've had, especially the vile antisemitism, that's exactly what I want to see from my Head of State.

What do you want him to talk about? Peeling sprouts and filling your house with over-priced tat? No, thanks!

Quite 👏

jasflowers · 26/12/2025 08:22

Cat1504 · 25/12/2025 17:47

His speech was fine…you just don’t like him….fair enough….but don’t lie about it

I see the bit about tolerance went down well!

LidlAmaretto · 26/12/2025 08:29

FancyNewt · 26/12/2025 04:36

Kate chose that life.

All of them choose to continue that life not only for them but for their children. Their purpose in life is to continue the Monarchy for as long as they can. They could indicate their intention to end it with William, or George. They could reduce it right down to the bare minimum and let their younger children live the lives of wealthy farmers or whatever and just have a couple of palaces but they choose not to. They have plenty of privacy- they are in public for the equivalent of 3 months a year. Charles may have wanted to be an organic farmer but he doesnt want the salary or the bills f an oranic farmer, does he? Same with William. He may want to be an air ambulance pilot but not to try and live on their salary.

AprilinPortugal · 26/12/2025 08:53

everywhereeverything1 · 25/12/2025 16:47

Unifying, unless you’re not a Christian.

Well then don't celebrate Christmas! It's completely appropriate for him to talk about religion on a religious day (yes I know it's originally not a Christian festival but it is celebrated now by Christians/Muslims (who both believe in Jesus) and every other faith that wants to! I think it's very unifying ☺️

Fixydodah · 26/12/2025 08:57

I miss the Queen. Didn’t even watch the speech this year.

Myoldbear · 26/12/2025 09:08

Some people seem to confuse what they think of the institution of the royal family with the content of the king's speech.

It is the king's speech which is being asked about here.

The speech was about all the positive human values that everyone knows, and I can't see why people would disagree with him on these.

These values will always be relevant so it follows that the speech about them was relevant.

PrimalLass · 26/12/2025 09:15

I don't think it's irrelevant to talk about Christianity on Christmas Day.

Pedallleur · 26/12/2025 09:32

Overtheatlantic · 25/12/2025 16:47

I quite liked it. It felt unifying in a time when the world is increasingly divided and focused on differences.

Thanks Camilla!

kistanbul · 26/12/2025 09:34

If hearing about generosity, community and togetherness at Christmas feels irrelevant to you, that’s something you may want to think about.

Staringintothevoid616 · 26/12/2025 09:43

I thought the Kings Speech was really good. I liked his inclusivity, seeing him walking with a Rabbi,talking about praying with the Pipe (a’masssive move of inclusivity given the history) talking about the terrorist attack on the Jewish community in Bonfi beach). I like Charles he is clearly a deeply spiritual person.

Lifestooshort71 · 26/12/2025 10:17

sprigatito · 25/12/2025 16:45

Hardly surprising, is it. His whole life has been insulated against reality in all its forms. If people choose to spend part of their Christmas Day listening to the random dribblings of an industrial-strength benefit scrounger, I’m not sure what outcome they expect.

This is easily the nastiest and most vile post I've seen on MN this Christmas and says so much more about you than KC3. Well done 👏

CathyorClaire · 26/12/2025 10:32

there is no retirement.

Months and months of free time each year though.

cockandbullstories · 26/12/2025 11:22

LidlAmaretto · 25/12/2025 19:47

I never watch the Kings speech but complaining about the Head of the C of E talking about religion on Christmas day! Its like moaning about The Pope giving a sermon on Easter Sunday from the Vatican.

Most sensible post!

Woollyguru · 26/12/2025 11:32

BlooomUnleashed · 25/12/2025 16:54

ohh ! I just posted the same thing on another thread.

Like a pendulum that’s recently started swinging back the other way ?

In the UK church attendance is up due to immigration from Africa where there is a wide Christian population due to British colonialism and Christian missionaries.

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