I do get it.
But Harry never wanted or asked to leave the RF or stop doing royal duties. He said repeatedly he always wanted to carry on doing that. It’s the only thing he has ever known. And he was good at it.
This point has been deliberately misconstrued by the press and others ever since who turned it in to a dramatic tabloidy “Harry turns his back on UK and never wants to do royal duties ever again”.
When he left, he was asking QE2 for a way to combine royal duties alongside doing some commercial work which is exactly what Charles and William do with the Duchies!
And what all of the family do to a lesser or minor extent with the royal warrant system.
And as we know now, what Andrew had been doing for two decades. And this was allegedly known about and covered up by BP.
So Harry had a point and a reason to be upset I think.
Harry was asking to be more official and above board about it, that’s the only difference.
In addition, fitting in to a rigid archaic system is not so easy if your wife is older, raised in another country, and had an established career. I think that should have been given some more consideration. Especially once dc were on the scene.
Also we know now from several commentators who have gone on record, that the so-called Sandringham Summit was much more of a fait accompli than a discussion. Apparently the courtiers only printed out in advance the nuclear option for Harry to sign which was “leave”.
Actually all of the above is why I am more on Harry’s side than not, even if I am more towards the Republican pov at heart, I am not bothered about Harry per se, and don’t approve of the way he left, but I don’t like the way the RF and the establishment, stonewall people who dare to speak up publically in protest,
The same thing happened to Diana. And frankly the RF need to encounter some opposition in order to change bc they live in a protected bubble that’s far too deferential. For example, Charles only acted decisively about Andrew after he was heckled in public.
That is my position anyway but republicans don’t all hold one solid viewpoint just like monarchists.