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Meghan’s new insta feed

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Crispynoodle · 05/10/2025 12:57

Meghan has just popped a video clip of herself in the back of a limo with her feet up travelling through the streets of Paris. Is this rather insensitive given the way her MIL died or is it perfectly normal to post such stuff?

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Lifestooshort71 · 29/10/2025 10:54

ConverseAddict · 29/10/2025 09:16

People will always talk about red hair. I have friends who both have red hair, so do their children. People still comment and talk about the tone of their hair and how it’s a different red to them.

M&H were booed at the baseball last night.

What are they meant to have done/said recently to warrant being booed at?

BigWillyLittleTodger · 29/10/2025 10:54

I’m sorry you had to witness that @BemusedAmerican it must have been really shocking and distressing.

Letmeoutodhere · 29/10/2025 11:02

Lifestooshort71 · 29/10/2025 10:54

What are they meant to have done/said recently to warrant being booed at?

Front row seats whilst someone much more important was seated in the rows behind.

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 11:12

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 10:31

Who gets to define what a 'normal' post is? You?

And to repeat, do you think it's appropriate for parents who worry about the effects of social media on children to frequently expose their children to social media?

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Just think about how that comment would go down in the real world. It is clearly not a normal thing to say when commenting on a family resemblance.
About the children appearing on SM- I don’t know what H&M have said about posting images of their children. If they have said that they’re not going to do it, or that other people shouldn’t do it then they are obviously being hypocritical by doing it themselves and should be called out on it. Does that make it OK for posters on a parenting website to tear those images of small children to shreds?

Mylovelygreendress · 29/10/2025 11:12

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 09:45

Fair enough. The supporters and the detractors are equally insane. What a strange world we live in! I do wish posters would “leave the kids alone” though.

I agree and hopefully the squad will leave the Wales DC alone .

BemusedAmerican · 29/10/2025 11:22

BigWillyLittleTodger · 29/10/2025 10:54

I’m sorry you had to witness that @BemusedAmerican it must have been really shocking and distressing.

What was upsetting was everyone was calling the police and trying to get the station workers to come down and there was no response. I really don't know what is going on with the MTA. No one could separate the fighters since we didn't want to get stabbed or slashed.

OrangeAxolotyl · 29/10/2025 11:25

BemusedAmerican · 29/10/2025 10:49

I take mass transit for 2 .5 hours each day and I read and comment while commuting since I'm limited with what I can do while standing packed in an overcrowded train with signal problems.

Yesterday, while I was waiting for a train a fight broke out on the platform, someone got stabbed and covered in blood and I ran up to get the token booth attendant. The cops still hadn't come when my train pulled out. So don't give me any speeches about what I should be doing with my time. I deal with plenty of real life.

That's absolutely horrific, how distressing. I hope you're ok, because shock has an impact 💐

OrangeAxolotyl · 29/10/2025 11:28

BemusedAmerican · 29/10/2025 11:22

What was upsetting was everyone was calling the police and trying to get the station workers to come down and there was no response. I really don't know what is going on with the MTA. No one could separate the fighters since we didn't want to get stabbed or slashed.

No, stay well clear. It can be fatal.
Like the current story in the UK of a dog walker trying to help out in an incident and he got stabbed to death.
Too risky.

ConverseAddict · 29/10/2025 11:32

Lifestooshort71 · 29/10/2025 10:54

What are they meant to have done/said recently to warrant being booed at?

I don’t know. There was plenty of celebs there it was a World Series game? It might just be that they are not ‘real fans’

Mylovelygreendress · 29/10/2025 11:35

ThePoshUns · 29/10/2025 10:03

Please show us then, we have seen H&Ms

Sorry , should have said CAN’T see .

BigWillyLittleTodger · 29/10/2025 11:54

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 11:12

Just think about how that comment would go down in the real world. It is clearly not a normal thing to say when commenting on a family resemblance.
About the children appearing on SM- I don’t know what H&M have said about posting images of their children. If they have said that they’re not going to do it, or that other people shouldn’t do it then they are obviously being hypocritical by doing it themselves and should be called out on it. Does that make it OK for posters on a parenting website to tear those images of small children to shreds?

It’s a perfectly normal thing to say that a nephew looks like their great uncle in the real world, but in this mumsnet world, posters have to caveat their comments because posters like you will twist whatever they say to suit their narrative as you have so clearly demonstrated on this thread. You are being completely disingenuous about not knowing about Harry and Meghan’s stance on children on social media, you know full well. As for small children being torn to shreds, maybe your ire should be directed at the parents who continually release these images for millions all over the world to comment on for either good or bad, to line their own pockets, to create headlines and clickbait and to promote their brand using images of their children who cannot consent, just a thought.

OrangeAxolotyl · 29/10/2025 11:55

BigWillyLittleTodger · 29/10/2025 11:54

It’s a perfectly normal thing to say that a nephew looks like their great uncle in the real world, but in this mumsnet world, posters have to caveat their comments because posters like you will twist whatever they say to suit their narrative as you have so clearly demonstrated on this thread. You are being completely disingenuous about not knowing about Harry and Meghan’s stance on children on social media, you know full well. As for small children being torn to shreds, maybe your ire should be directed at the parents who continually release these images for millions all over the world to comment on for either good or bad, to line their own pockets, to create headlines and clickbait and to promote their brand using images of their children who cannot consent, just a thought.

This, x 💯

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 12:11

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 11:12

Just think about how that comment would go down in the real world. It is clearly not a normal thing to say when commenting on a family resemblance.
About the children appearing on SM- I don’t know what H&M have said about posting images of their children. If they have said that they’re not going to do it, or that other people shouldn’t do it then they are obviously being hypocritical by doing it themselves and should be called out on it. Does that make it OK for posters on a parenting website to tear those images of small children to shreds?

Using melodramatic language doesn't help your case. Nobody here is tearing "those images of small children to shreds", as evidenced by your inability to find examples. A post you personally do not consider 'normal' does not equal 'tearing to shreds'.

About the children appearing on SM- I don’t know what H&M have said about posting images of their children.

Shifting goalposts now? That's not what I asked.

I asked if you believed it appropriate that parents who have won an 'award' for highlighting the risks of social media should choose to frequently feature their children on social media, when there is no reason for them ever to be seen in public.

Do you?

Spectre8 · 29/10/2025 12:13

smilesy · 29/10/2025 10:20

You are right that people should be able to share images without them being judged. However, it is naive to think this will ever happen and the only way to make sure that no one “pours over” images of the children is not to post any photos of them. At all. That is not rocket science. It is human nature to make judgments and gossip. It has always been the same and will never change. You are correct that no one should be harassed or judged for what they wear, but it will happen nonetheless. And as an adult, you personally have taken the decision to wear that item. Given that, in the case of Archie and Lili it is the parents who are responsible for the content that has been posted, this is entirely on them if people are commenting, so the best thing would be not to post photos of them if thue want to
avoid that

Well it doesnt have to be...its a choice adults make to say what they say. You actively make a choice noone is forcing you to. So 💁‍♀️ maybe is people stopped we would have a better world.

Spectre8 · 29/10/2025 12:15

EmpressSisi · 29/10/2025 10:35

You ARE lambasting posters though? Your last post is purely lambasting the poster and others for “spending every day on here” like that’s some great crime. It’s a message board. People are allowed to express their opinion. If you think a poster is being inappropriate then you need to report it and let Mumsnet deal with it. Otherwise engage in the discussion without the personal attacks.

Because thay poster made a comment about me spending time on here so I replied back to that. I didnt start lambasting people. Theres a difference

Spectre8 · 29/10/2025 12:18

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 12:11

Using melodramatic language doesn't help your case. Nobody here is tearing "those images of small children to shreds", as evidenced by your inability to find examples. A post you personally do not consider 'normal' does not equal 'tearing to shreds'.

About the children appearing on SM- I don’t know what H&M have said about posting images of their children.

Shifting goalposts now? That's not what I asked.

I asked if you believed it appropriate that parents who have won an 'award' for highlighting the risks of social media should choose to frequently feature their children on social media, when there is no reason for them ever to be seen in public.

Do you?

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There children need to be safe online if you ever bothered to read about is about children using social media, those people whose children who have lost their lives because their children were using social media platforms and being exposed ro content they shouldn't have been. Those parents affected arent talkinf about we posted pics of our kids on our sm account and it caused this to happen ...they are raising awareness about how their child using a sm platform are being exposed to inappropriate content and platforms should be doing more.

EmpressSisi · 29/10/2025 12:26

Spectre8 · 29/10/2025 12:15

Because thay poster made a comment about me spending time on here so I replied back to that. I didnt start lambasting people. Theres a difference

No, they didn’t. They said, “You are too — but what you constantly spend your time doing is quoting others just to disagree and argue.”

They weren’t criticising you for being on here a lot, they were pointing out that when you are, most of what you do is quote other people and pick apart what they’re saying, rather than posting an opinion on the subject or saying something positive. Which is true. You’ve explained your reasons for that, fair enough, but you’ve completely misread what this poster was actually saying and were pretty rude to them and others in the process.

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 12:28

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 12:11

Using melodramatic language doesn't help your case. Nobody here is tearing "those images of small children to shreds", as evidenced by your inability to find examples. A post you personally do not consider 'normal' does not equal 'tearing to shreds'.

About the children appearing on SM- I don’t know what H&M have said about posting images of their children.

Shifting goalposts now? That's not what I asked.

I asked if you believed it appropriate that parents who have won an 'award' for highlighting the risks of social media should choose to frequently feature their children on social media, when there is no reason for them ever to be seen in public.

Do you?

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No, I don’t.

Do you think saying a small child looks neglected and feral is OK, regardless of what their parents have said?

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 12:30

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 12:28

No, I don’t.

Do you think saying a small child looks neglected and feral is OK, regardless of what their parents have said?

Right. It only took me asking the question three times, but now I see we agree about the Sussexes' hypocrisy.

I told you in my very first reply yesterday evening that I don't think those sort of comments are OK, so I'm not at all sure why you're asking again.

smilesy · 29/10/2025 12:34

Spectre8 · 29/10/2025 12:13

Well it doesnt have to be...its a choice adults make to say what they say. You actively make a choice noone is forcing you to. So 💁‍♀️ maybe is people stopped we would have a better world.

I haven’t said anything about the children if you look through my posts. I was politely explaining that human nature is what it is. And I’m not on SM anywhere else. And I was pointing out that the adults have posted the images here. They have chosen to do so whilst claiming that the online world is harmful to children and have not used common sense which says that there will be always be some people who will comment, regardless of your Utopian wish that they don’t. So in reality, as opposed to in some fantasy world where everyone behaves responsibly, the only way to protect those children is to post nothing at all about them and no photos. Which is doable as pp have said

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 12:43

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 12:30

Right. It only took me asking the question three times, but now I see we agree about the Sussexes' hypocrisy.

I told you in my very first reply yesterday evening that I don't think those sort of comments are OK, so I'm not at all sure why you're asking again.

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Apologies. I did say earlier that I didn’t know what the Sussexes had said about children and Social Media. All I knew was that they, like many people chose not to reveal their children’s faces. Frankly, for me this thread was about people’s comments on the images, not the images themselves. I’ll happily take your word for it that they were being hypocritical. As I said, and I’m glad you agree, that does not excuse the many unpleasant comments on this thread about small children.

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 12:44

Justdancevance · 29/10/2025 09:52

Af the moment, the kids are half in half out, this means they’re not taking full days to shoot videos etc like other influencers. But that makes the videos look a bit shit, compared to the slick multi take ‘candid’ videos, where kids are effectively full time employees

I applaud them for not turning the kids into full time props, but they’re effectively being used as click bait as many people are just trying to watch to screen shot a face to see who they resemble most.

I don’t know if this is a sustainable long term approach to building a multiimillionaire lifestyle. If they dropped the drama, they could dispense with a lot of the billionaire costs and friends (security, private planes) and live a lovely life.

Imagine if Meghan had been the one opening the bookstore, they could probably have had amazing launches, she could have enjoyed running those as those types of events she seems to love

I saw too in the Sunday times that women only book club retreats are a new thing. A retreat space with some casual royal bling would get a nice premium. Harry could take the men clay pigeon shooting. A few royal anecdotes over dinner, would go down a treat.

As I said I love airy Californian style and British/Irish style (very different light) so they could have managed both an American and Californian base.

if Harry and Meghan wanted to run Highgrove as a book retreat / clay pigeon shooting space then as it’s Charles no/one would object if they paid a semi commercial rent.

if Harry and Meghan wanted to run Highgrove as a book retreat / clay pigeon shooting space then as it’s Charles no/one would object if they paid a semi commercial rent.

Actually, Highgrove is part of the Duchy of Cornwall so belongs to William.

And no way could the favoured residence of the King be used for commercial purposes open to the public!

I applaud them for not turning the kids into full time props, but they’re effectively being used as click bait as many people are just trying to watch to screen shot a face to see who they resemble most.

I don't think anyone deserves 'applause' for not overtly merching their children.

But if we want to look at it in strictly business terms, the problem is that Meghan's 'brand' is supposedly about friends and family. If that is to have any hope of success, she needs to essentially invite the public into her family life. Back of head shots with a crap soundtrack are boring, soulless and won't maintain much interest. So quite aside from the fact that lifestyle brands are veyr last decade, I don't see 'As Ever' going on to have much success. The branding is incoherent, the products are bland and she's not offering anything that can't be got from the supermarket for a fraction of the price.

IcedPurple · 29/10/2025 12:51

CurlewKate · 29/10/2025 12:43

Apologies. I did say earlier that I didn’t know what the Sussexes had said about children and Social Media. All I knew was that they, like many people chose not to reveal their children’s faces. Frankly, for me this thread was about people’s comments on the images, not the images themselves. I’ll happily take your word for it that they were being hypocritical. As I said, and I’m glad you agree, that does not excuse the many unpleasant comments on this thread about small children.

All I knew was that they, like many people chose not to reveal their children’s faces.

Many, probably most, celebrities choose not to reveal their children at all.

The Sussexes frequently feature theirs on social media, which is odd given their public stance on the dangers it poses to children. A creepy heart emoji plonked over the face does not cancel that out.

AtIusvue · 29/10/2025 12:57

How deranged are people to think posters are criticising the children?!

At no point has someone said- at 4 years old, Lili really should be able to dress better and do her own hair.

Comments on the kids have been regarding how they are being cared for by their Nannie’s/parents.

Children aren’t responsible for their clothing and personal care- their guardians are. Thats what we are commenting on ffs

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