I think they are both realising their massive mistake in undermining their own brand, which was, we're royal, we're exclusive, we're a cut above the muck.
They deliberately got themselves mucky, literally rolled around in the nasty businesss of selling all their family dirty laundry for cash, and in doing so, completely denigrated their image as anything special. They instead appeared even to ordinary people with dysfunctional families (who I think they assumed could actually sympathise with them) to be grifters willing to make money through means usually only the vey desperate or impoverished of people sink to employing.
Unfortunately the knock on effect is that many people have been turned off the Royals and Monarchy, and that in turn has undermined his father's position as King.
So I don't see how he now says it's about his father. Your father is the monarchy.
But I do wonder if deep down this entire debacle this isn't King Charles/the late Queen's fault as when Harry speaks, I do question how well he was taught about the constitution and the history of the Monarchy. It really seems his education was neglected. This reminds me of him previously saying he had no idea he had to ask permission from the Queen to marry Meghan, something basic he should have known, something many ordinary citizens knew. And also his confusion about his children not receiving titles when his father wasn't King yet.