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Media vs. Reality: The Royal Meeting No One Cares About

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ThatAvidViewer · 29/08/2025 13:05

It makes little difference if he meets his father. His role won’t change, and the monarchy or public won’t be affected, yet the media keeps spinning it as if it matters — even though the public doesn’t care.

Prince Harry 'to meet with King Charles' when he returns to UK for anniversary of Queen Elizabeth II's death - as sources say 'reconciliation is within reach' | Daily Mail Online

Prince Harry 'to meet with King Charles' when he returns to UK

Reconciliation is 'within reach' between the Duke of Sussex and his father following an informal peace summit involving Buckingham Palace officials.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15045309/Prince-Harry-King-Charles-returns-UK-reconciliation-reach.html

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IcedPurple · 13/09/2025 10:33

Briantheguitargod · 13/09/2025 09:39

why? why would he need to apologise to the "whole country"??
he fell out with his family. its not his fault people are taking it like they were dumped by a partner.

He and his wife made very serious accusations against his family in front of 50 million viewers, so he has actively chosen to make the 'falling out' a matter for public discussion. And they're not just any family, are they?

If he wants any sort of 'rehabilitation' he will have to explicitly apologise for accusing his family, including the Head of State himself, of racism. Blaming it on his favourite bogeyman, the 'British media', isn't going to cut it.

CathyorClaire · 13/09/2025 10:41

Also worth remembering the sniggering up the sleeve about the £32m 'spectacle for the masses' paid for by said masses being a sham.

jamnpancakes · 13/09/2025 10:51

elessar · 13/09/2025 10:20

my main point is in the second part of that paragraph- expect they’ll immediately form close knit bonds with a group of old school toffs.

I'm well aware lots of rich people from overseas send their kids to boarding schools in the UK and elsewhere. The point is more that Harry can’t just copy and paste his own childhood experience just by sending his kids to school in England. A lot of these friendship groups are formed with people of old money with land and often titles, who have grown up living a certain lifestyle and socialising with the same set - indeed one similar to the RF, playing polo, hunting & shooting etc. And has often been noted that these families and friends are known for being discreet and looking out for each other - hence we don’t see them selling stories on William and Harry.

Harry can put his kids into that setting but that won’t necessarily grant them acceptance to the same set - yes they have the titles but if anything that could go against them - two Californian teenagers whose mother is an influencer selling pancake mix and twerking on Instagram and with two parents famous for their bitterness and indiscretion, who have stepped away from the RF. Many of those same families would also have connections to William, so may be wary of burning their bridges with the RF by associating too closely with Harry. It’s naive if he thinks his children would have the same experience that he did.

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The experience he hated? And he wants that for his children?

jamnpancakes · 13/09/2025 10:53

elessar · 13/09/2025 09:15

That is surely nonsense.

firstly I thought it was far too unsafe for Harry to bring his family to the U.K. ever again?

secondly I can’t ever see Meghan allowing it.

thirdly it’s wildly wishful thinking on his behalf. You can’t just take two children who have been raised in California with no family or peer network in the UK and a completely different lifestyle and plonk them in a British boarding school and expect they’ll immediately form close knit bonds with a group of old school toffs.

It would be completely setting them up for failure.

The only credibility I can see with this is that it would align with the increasing hints we’re hearing that Harry wants reconciliation with the RF and that he wants his kids to have the chance to choose to be working members of the RF in future - maybe he thinks if he has them educated in the UK they could slot into that role more easily. But still, it’s nonsense. At the point his children are living in the UK for school it would be ridiculous for their parents to remain in California - Harry might be longing to come back to England but this is pie in the sky thinking if it’s come from him.

edited to add, the only way I could see this happening would be if they’d totally run out of money and this was the only way for Meghan to cling onto any sort aspirational lifestyle - by crawling back to the RF and hoping to be funded by Charles again (which I think he would do, if they agreed to live quietly and stop giving interviews, faux royalling and trashing the RF)

Harry would also need to get over his security issues and stop parroting the narrative that the UK is way too dangerous for him and his family.

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I wonder what Meghan is thinking about all of this.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 13/09/2025 11:00

Harry can put his kids into that setting but that won’t necessarily grant them acceptance to the same set - yes they have the titles but if anything that could go against them - two Californian teenagers whose mother is an influencer selling pancake mix and twerking on Instagram and with two parents famous for their bitterness and indiscretion, who have stepped away from the RF. Many of those same families would also have connections to William, so may be wary of burning their bridges with the RF by associating too closely with Harry. It’s naive if he thinks his children would have the same experience that he did

Very well put, @elessar - especially about the more prominent families knowing which side their bread's buttered

I refuse to get excited about some clickbait the Mail may well have made up, but if Harry ever cconsidered this it could easily be a lot more complex than expected

I wonder what Meghan is thinking about all of this

Edited to add that if it's a media invention she may not be thinking anything, @jamnpancakes, but if it isn't then as I've said before a lot could depend on what her own plans are

NewAgeNewMe · 13/09/2025 11:48

Ill believe it when I see it!

chunkybear · 13/09/2025 12:31

@IcedPurple- he also needs to apologise to the country - he’s slagged us all off multiple times, most people don’t want him now he’s shown his true colours

bluegreygreen · 13/09/2025 12:34

@elessar yes, agree with that

chunkybear · 13/09/2025 12:34

Baital · 13/09/2025 09:28

It comes back, over and over again, to timescales.

Stop chasing the quick photo op or gimmick.

Get involved in a couple of causes you believe in, and give them quiet, consistent support over several years. Build some credibility and let that speak for you.

Neither of them
have the follow through for that! Lazy, entitled and like to use anything surrounding them as a PR tool and an open purse for the best travel and clothes for the occasions

Hummingbirdtree · 13/09/2025 12:58

I think it’s quite simple. They or their PR team have realised that they’re out of options. They want their kids to have a higher profile and all the advantages an education at top boarding schools would bring. Plus, it’ll mean childcare won’t be such a headache . They’ll be free to jet off round the world indulging themselves whilst playing at being philanthropists. Daddy will leave H or his kids lots in the will. Plus hopefully shell out for school fees they can’t afford in the US.

Not2identifying · 13/09/2025 13:17

Some of the European royals sent their kids to a Welsh boarding school for the equivalent of A level. I think that's the earliest they'd consider it and even that's a stretch. The article even says that Meghan doesn't like the idea of sending kids to boarding school. I'd put my money on it not happening.

PullTheBricksDown · 13/09/2025 13:21

Hummingbirdtree · 13/09/2025 12:58

I think it’s quite simple. They or their PR team have realised that they’re out of options. They want their kids to have a higher profile and all the advantages an education at top boarding schools would bring. Plus, it’ll mean childcare won’t be such a headache . They’ll be free to jet off round the world indulging themselves whilst playing at being philanthropists. Daddy will leave H or his kids lots in the will. Plus hopefully shell out for school fees they can’t afford in the US.

Yes, I reckon they're banking on Charles paying the school fees as that will seem 'fair' if they're at a British elite school like their Wales cousins.

As many posters have said now, the key to PR rehabilitation is giving it time. That's exactly what they never want to expend - they are very impatient. Plus the Sussex children are already of school age so they need to get a shift on if they want them to be able to integrate into the British school system at primary age.

I agree with the Meghan would never allow it points, BUT money talks. I can imagine a deal where she gets to flounce around being important in the US/other places during school term, then is able to have time with them in California in the holidays, which can be justified as a sacrifice she's making to give them the best education. Long way from all this being realised though.

BemusedAmerican · 13/09/2025 14:07

I feel sorry for any UK boarding school who takes those kids. One whack from a hockey stick or fall from a horse and the parents will be demanding actual body guards.

CathyorClaire · 13/09/2025 20:07

Daddy will leave H or his kids lots in the will.

I'm not conviced this will be the case.

Monarchs tend to leave the lot to the next in line to take advantage of the disgraceful deal that means monarch to monarch bequests are free of IHT.

C may well have set up some sort of trust but the bulk of the private wealth is likely to go to W.

ThePoshUns · 13/09/2025 23:14

No wonder Harry is like a shitting dog

TemuRoyal · 14/09/2025 00:33

BemusedAmerican · 13/09/2025 14:07

I feel sorry for any UK boarding school who takes those kids. One whack from a hockey stick or fall from a horse and the parents will be demanding actual body guards.

My DD was at uni where some students had bodyguards who stood outside their uni room in the halls of residence.

TooTooMuchEverything · 14/09/2025 06:27

CathyorClaire · 13/09/2025 10:41

Also worth remembering the sniggering up the sleeve about the £32m 'spectacle for the masses' paid for by said masses being a sham.

Didn’t the wedding do what it was supposed to do and bring huge money into UK in terms of tourism? That’s the argument I see most frequently applied to all the other royals (expenses, weddings, castles and palaces). The argument that they actually bring in more money than they cost. 🤷‍♂️

TooTooMuchEverything · 14/09/2025 06:36

NewAgeNewMe · 13/09/2025 06:39

Mind you they allowed Andrew with all his shady dealings to represent the monarch so who knows!

I think Andrew’s behaviour and the late Queen’s tolerance for it really is what is most likely to bring the royal family undone.

Hummingbirdtree · 14/09/2025 07:52

TemuRoyal · 14/09/2025 00:33

My DD was at uni where some students had bodyguards who stood outside their uni room in the halls of residence.

I think H and M would be absolutely nightmare helicopter parents.

CathyorClaire · 14/09/2025 10:58

TooTooMuchEverything · 14/09/2025 06:36

I think Andrew’s behaviour and the late Queen’s tolerance for it really is what is most likely to bring the royal family undone.

Interestingly there's set to be a further release of Epstein emails which are claimed to have the potential to 'destroy' A.

It will be fascinating to see the wider effects of any such allegedly explosive emails on The Firm.

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/09/2025 11:10

Thedom · 08/09/2025 15:10

So,Harry’s,first stop was his grandmothers grave, PR stunt ‘’as ever’’ on the PR tour.

How on earth can you possibly know that? You don’t think it’s plausible that the man just wanted to visit his grandmother’s grave?

What a nasty way of thinking.

CathyorClaire · 14/09/2025 11:11

TooTooMuchEverything · 14/09/2025 06:27

Didn’t the wedding do what it was supposed to do and bring huge money into UK in terms of tourism? That’s the argument I see most frequently applied to all the other royals (expenses, weddings, castles and palaces). The argument that they actually bring in more money than they cost. 🤷‍♂️

No figures available other than those estimated by the same branding firm with royal links that has issued several reports claiming the royals provide a net benefit to the country while providing no solid figures.

No-one seems to know who has commissioned these reports or why but they consistently make it into the press and become the basis for the tourism boost myth.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 14/09/2025 11:12

CathyorClaire · 14/09/2025 10:58

Interestingly there's set to be a further release of Epstein emails which are claimed to have the potential to 'destroy' A.

It will be fascinating to see the wider effects of any such allegedly explosive emails on The Firm.

It will indeed, Cathy, though I have to wonder how much more damage can be done to Andrew

There's hardly a normal person who doesn't think him a complete waster or worse, but I really can't see Charles cutting him out completely and risking another tell all book

bluegreygreen · 14/09/2025 12:35

MrsSkylerWhite · 14/09/2025 11:10

How on earth can you possibly know that? You don’t think it’s plausible that the man just wanted to visit his grandmother’s grave?

What a nasty way of thinking.

Probably the fact that the information was released.

It would be extremely easy for him to do it privately if he wished.

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