People have different perspectives on morality so I absolutely respect an individual’s right not to want to discuss people’s marriages and objecting to others doing so!
This is a public forum however and I believe this is about far more than idle gossip.
Also I find it hard to believe that misogyny and women not supporting other women can be the real issue for the objections because Meghan is regularly laid in to from all directions about everything from her pregnancy bump, previous marriage, possible relationships, her voice, her lack of business prowess, her apparent lack of mothering skills and her feet!
Ditto respect for the dead, as Diana is regularly castigated and disparaged on these boards for her affairs, being mad (apparently) and manipulative.
What could be misogynistic is royal wives being forced to pretend to play happy families in public while their husbands “play the field” in private, if the royal wives do not enjoy the same freedoms that is. I have put that as respectfully as I can.
Anyway, I’m afraid that if we have a royal family who are supported by the public purse, and the general public are invited via their PR departments and the press to participate in their births, engagements, weddings and funerals, in order to maintain their privileged position, and the public’s engagement with the institution, then they do invite us in to their private lives.
And harsh though it may be, and although they try, they cannot expect the same public and press not to be interested in other aspects of their lives eg the not so happy parts! In other words, they can’t have it both ways!
Also, if you you and your family hold high office, take public funds, become head of many of our institutions eg Church of England, the forces, and you generally assume an exalted position above others, you and your family give speeches on aspects of British life, asking us to reflect on our own behaviour at Christmas for example, and on our environmental consumption, how we raise our children, how we treat others, and you head up youth organisations such as the King’s Foundation and DoE, and represent us as a nation, it is disappointing in a general sense to discover that the behaviour of some members of the RF are much worse than that of the general population.
And that they have presented a very different image in public.
Sorry if that offends but that’s my personal view on it.