I honestly think the Royal Family — and “the men in grey suits” — have learned the hard way not to interfere with personal relationships. Edward VIII abdicated for love. The whole mess with Charles and Diana happened because Camilla was deemed an unsuitable choice of bride. Even now, people still vilify her as “the other woman,” despite the fact that she and Charles have shared a long, stable, and loving relationship for decades.
Even with Harry, many of his friends and family felt he was rushing into things. But despite the concerns, the Queen ultimately supported his decision to marry Meghan, likely understanding that trying to control someone’s choice in love rarely ends well.
If George were gay, I’d like to believe the institution would have evolved by then. Either they’d change the rules around heirs and surrogacy, or the line would continue through Charlotte or Louis. Love and authenticity matter far more to the public now than outdated traditions — and I think the monarchy knows it has to adapt if it’s going to survive.