I think Meghan seems to be a woman who constantly needs to reinvent herself in new roles - even if that means rewriting or denying the facts of her past.
Just since she met Harry she adopted multiple new personas some of which contradicted past claims.
Nature loving Charity activist - She seemed to attract Harry by being the "boho" philanthropist and Diana 2.0. She convinced him that she loved camping trips to Africa and charity work. But that seemed forgotten as soon as the marriage certificate was signed and she never visited Harry's "beloved" Sentebale projects in 7 years or returned to magical Botswana.
The royal "modernizer" - she was going to whip the RF into 21st century shape through "American" workplace practices, feminist mantras involving washing-up liquid, not following dress codes, ignoring hierarchy and establishing the Sussex Royal website to merch her products. But after 72 appearances and ignoring any advice it all got too much that they took an extended break for a couple of months and never returned.
"Just an ordinary couple" - a very brief phase after they "found freedom" where they eschewed titles with "I'm Meghan", "just call me Harry" and we chose not to have titles for our kids. It seems to have gone out of the window with the circling back to wanting traditional royal status through the recent title merching and "don't call me Markle", faux royal overseas tours to Nigeria/Colombia and sending gifts from HRH Duchess Meghan Sussex"
Media mogul - Meghan would be the new Oprah by producing and appearing in a whole range of programming and podcasts and becoming a billionaire. The US companies threw $millions at them although there have been few successes. (I'm a bit disappointed that she didn't make the "Miss Havisham as a feminist icon" drama that was in pre-production a few years' ago as it sounded hilarious.)
Tradwife/lady of the manor - was the persona she adopted for WLM where she tries to convince us that she is digging her own veg and sending the kids to market while hosting gracious garden parties in floaty dresses and making crap, sorry crepe packet mixes with the kids which are smeared with liquid jam and pot-pourri sprinkles.
Female founder & Super Mom - she's a business woman who is selling stuff while being supermom. Although her podcast revealed little actual business knowledge beyond trite platitudes about running her business from her kitchen while packing lunches and doing school runs. She seems to have a very strange stock control system as she never orders enough so her online shop is only open for an hour every few months.
The constant reinvention must be exhausting .....