Aside from the use of HRH generally, who sends friends gifts with such a formal message?
This is a bit personal but recent events have started to give me a very uneasy feeling. My own mother (insisted on "Momma" not Mom, we are Midlanders) had to be fed with a constant supply of unfettered adoration from us. We knew what was expected and the consequences if we fell short, not physical punishment but Arctic coldness. She was very keen on gushing letters telling her how marvellous she was. She also had quite serious MH issues and what I strongly suspect was NPD (I can't diagnose her of course) One of my siblings has a (proper, made by a psychiatrist) diagnosis of C/PTSD based on their childhood, which was spent entirely with our mother and with very few ameliorating influences (grandparents dead, Dad had finally gone, older siblings cut off for years at a time) There is a lot.
I don't know. Sorry for rambling, just a few elements of this are hitting some nerves. I very much hope I'm wrong and the expectations on Archie and Lili are normal, they are really happy and continue to be so.