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Why is Sarah Ferguson at the Easter service?

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Lazycatsitsonthemat · 20/04/2025 22:29

I am really perplexed about why SF attends all Royal events since the death of the Queen when Andrew
is present. She behaves like his wife but she isn’t his wife. What on earth is going on? I cannot think of another situation like this where an ex wife lives with her ex husband and attends all public events with him as though they are still married. It’s bizarre.

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wordler · 22/04/2025 14:31

ThisFluentBiscuit · 22/04/2025 14:24

Insiders have leaked that William is not religious. His lack of attendance at regular Sunday services would seem to confirm this.

It does nothing of the sort because you have no idea if he attends a service regularly or not. He has access to all sorts of private chapels and could worship very privately within the Windsor estate without anyone knowing.

The main ‘insider’ is an author who writes about the royals. He was speculating based on very little to try to sell a book.

I’m fairly sure a 40 year old man who lost his mother in his teens, who has faced a year of watching his father and wife deal with cancer has done some pretty deep soul searching on matters of faith.

At this point he’s keeping it to himself. At the point he becomes by default the head of the CoE then he’ll probably be more open about his feelings on faith and the church.

MrsLeonFarrell · 22/04/2025 14:33

HufflebuffsAreOn · 22/04/2025 14:30

No problem with him going to church. I have a problem with the royal family visibly supporting him.

I don't think they support beyond allowing him to be part of the family and attend private family events. It was notable that the Royal Family Instagram post about the Easter service was careful not to show him.

cumbriaisbest · 22/04/2025 14:35

PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 22/04/2025 14:30

The Windsors is brilliant!

Camilla is a classic pantomime villain, fag in one hand, g&t in the other

Charles is out of touch and hugely privileged but doesn’t seem aware of it

William is out of touch and hugely privileged but does some to be somewhat aware of it - I love it when he gets the citizens of Poundbury to revolt against Charles 🤣

Catherine is so boringly perfect they get her mixed up with a stepford wife robot

Harry is just dumb

Meghan is a master class in woke word salad nonsense

My favourites are Pippa, Beatrice and Eugenie! Honestly I recommend everyone watches it.

Its hilarious. I like their take on vocal fry, which must be the most irritating thing ever.

Samcro · 22/04/2025 14:35

Needspaceforlego · 22/04/2025 14:29

Well maybe he needs to pray for forgiveness.

He did something 20 plus years ago. He's paid a heavy price financially and his names mud. People do less time for murder.

Easter is time for forgiveness.

the Chinese spy stuff was not 20 years ago,

HufflebuffsAreOn · 22/04/2025 14:35

MrsLeonFarrell · 22/04/2025 14:33

I don't think they support beyond allowing him to be part of the family and attend private family events. It was notable that the Royal Family Instagram post about the Easter service was careful not to show him.

Allowing him to attend publicly visible events with them is a big mistake in my view. They are condoning his behaviour publicly.

NewAgeNewMe · 22/04/2025 14:35

The Windsors is brilliant. Pippah 😁 married to Johnny he’s a billionaire! Fantastic character.

myrtleWilson · 22/04/2025 14:37

philosophical rather than personal chat about religion and royalty available here
Royals and Religion - A relationship through time | Mumsnet

MrsLeonFarrell · 22/04/2025 14:37

HufflebuffsAreOn · 22/04/2025 14:35

Allowing him to attend publicly visible events with them is a big mistake in my view. They are condoning his behaviour publicly.

I don't think they are condoning anything. But happy to agree to disagree.

I believe they are trying to navigate a very difficult and public situation with a very difficult family member the best way they can. It would be far easier if he actually been convicted of something but Charles is stuck in this grey area.

PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 22/04/2025 14:42

NewAgeNewMe · 22/04/2025 14:35

The Windsors is brilliant. Pippah 😁 married to Johnny he’s a billionaire! Fantastic character.

“Not a millionaire, A BILLIONAIRE!” 🤣

I love it when she leaves Johnny when she thinks he lost all his money, telling him via a note and putting the key through the letter box, only for him to call her telling her that he’s managed to get all his money back. She had to burn the house down to save face and stop him finding the letter 🫣🤭

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 14:55

Sunshineandpool · 22/04/2025 01:21

Oh for goodness sake. People are allowed to chat about things on here. Stop trying to be the thread police!

I don't want him to do anything. Why would I? I'm just interested in the idea that a future monarch may not have Christian faith and what that would mean for the head of the CofE role.

Attending church/getting married in church doesn't mean you have faith. Many people do it with no belief in the Christian faith.

Oh FFS! Can you explain how my post makes me "the thread police", because I am really not getting that?

I was "chatting about things on here"???!

How is he meant to 'prove' his Christian faith to you? He is at the very least paying lip service if nothing more. Do the titular head of the church have to have a deep faith anyway? I mean Edward VII for example was also head of the church but adultery clearly wasn't an issue for him because he shagged everything with a pulse?

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 14:59

ThisFluentBiscuit · 22/04/2025 05:31

What else do people want him to do? Um, go to church! All the things you've mentioned are special occasions, so very infrequent occurrences. He does not attend church. He's not a churchgoer. How many times have you seen photos of him attending a regular Sunday service? It's ridiculous for someone who's going to be head of the church.

It's widely believed that he has no faith.

https://premierchristian.news/us/news/article/prince-william-struggles-with-the-church-of-england-says-royal-insider

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13074943/Christian-faith-King-Monarchy-William-believe.html

How do you know that? They nearly got away with attending church privately on Easter Sunday?

ThisFluentBiscuit · 22/04/2025 15:03

PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 22/04/2025 14:42

“Not a millionaire, A BILLIONAIRE!” 🤣

I love it when she leaves Johnny when she thinks he lost all his money, telling him via a note and putting the key through the letter box, only for him to call her telling her that he’s managed to get all his money back. She had to burn the house down to save face and stop him finding the letter 🫣🤭

I loved that show!

ThisFluentBiscuit · 22/04/2025 15:05

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 14:59

How do you know that? They nearly got away with attending church privately on Easter Sunday?

If W was a regular church-goer, we would know about it. And why would he attend in secrecy anyway? Plus, insiders say that he's not religious, and this has leaked out.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 22/04/2025 15:06

I wish I could get out of work meetings as easily! 😂 Church attendance for him is the equivalent of boring work meetings.

My2cents1975 · 22/04/2025 15:09

Robert Hardman was trying to sell a book and speculated on W's faith as @wordler rightly points out.

W watched both parents spill everything to their pet reporters and saw that while newspapers gained revenue, his family was torn apart. As a consequence, W plays his cards very close to the vest, with reporters openly complaining of the lack of access to W relative to his father KC3.

So, for posters to make claims about W's faith or church attendance with no evidence or backup but claiming nebulous "insiders" or citing salacious headlines where the body of the article admits the source is speculating...seems more deliberate character assassination versus sharing of an opinion.

As ever, H's fanboys remind me of Sisyphus...that rock will never make it up that hill!

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 15:09

NewAgeNewMe · 22/04/2025 07:19

I don’t know. Destabilising the U.K., is there a pattern? After Brexit I’m more wary I suppose. (And the comments I got when going to get my EU citizenship and passport which I was fully entitled to & that was definitely anti uk).

And the changing of narrative about this particular one of William not attending church, he did and then the narrative changed to well he should have met well wishers. Don’t know just seemed a bit off to me. Or I’m seeing stuff that isn’t there <shrug>.

It really grew legs!! It went from being, "William should have been at church at Windsor" (and he should have travelled by helicopter!!), then when it emerged that he did go, only at Sandringham, he was at fault for that too, and now he doesn't go to church often enough!!!

There's a dogged effort on the part of some to criticise everything he does, and everything he doesn't do, while in the eyes of a lot of people, the errant Harry can do no wrong!! Crazy!

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 15:11

Tbrh · 22/04/2025 07:17

Oh I see. I have often seen comments about William being workshy, but am always shocked at the hate towards H&M as it can only be described as hate, and seems to be at least a new thread weekly. I don't frequent this board, only see what pops up on active.

It's not "hate". It's criticism and usually well-deserved.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 22/04/2025 15:13

wordler · 22/04/2025 14:31

It does nothing of the sort because you have no idea if he attends a service regularly or not. He has access to all sorts of private chapels and could worship very privately within the Windsor estate without anyone knowing.

The main ‘insider’ is an author who writes about the royals. He was speculating based on very little to try to sell a book.

I’m fairly sure a 40 year old man who lost his mother in his teens, who has faced a year of watching his father and wife deal with cancer has done some pretty deep soul searching on matters of faith.

At this point he’s keeping it to himself. At the point he becomes by default the head of the CoE then he’ll probably be more open about his feelings on faith and the church.

I have no faith that W has faith, but I believe that he should believe because he'll be Defender of the Faith, not Defender of the Disbelief! 😂 Many Christians would feel insulted if he doesn't at least pretend.

Anyway, these insiders and sources are often spot-on when it comes to info. about the RF. It's now pretty much common knowledge that W doesn't believe while C has found comfort in the church lately.

ThisFluentBiscuit · 22/04/2025 15:17

Plus, imo, as future Defender of the Faith, he should have been at the Abbey service. It was the most important day of the liturgical calendar. Wants to have his cake and eat it. Accepts all the cakes and balloons of his position but can't even go to the biggest service of the year.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 15:18

Extiainoiapeial · 22/04/2025 07:27

I have no idea! I can only speak for myself. I originally said it was wrong for William not to attend the Easter church service and it would have been good if he could have been there to support his 76 year old father who is suffering from cancer. United front and all that. Good optics etc.

Then I hear he went local, and I said good I am glad to hear that, he really should go to church on Easter Sunday given his position as heir. That's it, quite simple!
However there are certain posters on here who were screeching eat humble pie! You've got egg on your face, I bet you feel stupid now! Like some sort of weird gotcha.

No destabilising from me, I comment as I see it. I'm a simple creature 😂

Well you can rest assured the anti-Wales brigade would have continuing braying and crowing that the Wales family hadn't gone to church, had it not emerged that they actually did.

I didn't see one poster row back on the criticisms they voiced prior to the facts emerging. The only "screeching" I saw was the lambasting of the Wales family in the earlier part of the thread. You can give over with your "certain posters"!!

The King had plenty of support from his family anyway. He doesn't seem to be frail and he is just getting on with life while living with cancer.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 15:21

HufflebuffsAreOn · 22/04/2025 08:55

It’s not a bias. It’s an opinion. Are you biased or opinionated? Your bias shows calling others biased.

Oh it's bias all right - abundantly clear to see!

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 15:25

LaMarschallin · 22/04/2025 09:58

I count myself as a Christian and am a regular church goer; I don't mind too much whether the monarch is head of the Church of England or not.
I appreciate that Charles' faith seems important to him and that he's also interested in other faiths (so am I).
While he's on course for becoming the head of the C of E, I think William should continue to attend church, at least on important dates, which he does/has.
He's also had his children Christened and I guess he'll have them confirmed.
If he decides he doesn't believe in the Christian faith, it's better if he says so and steps away from his religious role.
You don't have to be a Christian to do good.

I doubt many people in the UK would be that bothered. I'm surprised that so many people on MN suddenly appear so concerned about the church but I accept the small group on the RF threads (myself included) are hardly representative.

I wonder how many of the comments are coming from churchgoers...

Extiainoiapeial · 22/04/2025 15:26

@mainecooncatonahottinroof
You do make me laugh! There is no point in replying to the points you make, honest there isn't. It just opens up more cross posts from you!

I am quite at ease with my posts on here, and my face is clear of egg and I'm not choking on humble pie 🤣

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 15:27

Extiainoiapeial · 22/04/2025 10:50

Exactly! I am not the slightest bit 'outraged', I haven't been so on this thread at all. Yet having a different opinion and saying that I thought William should've been at the Easter sunday service is apparently 'outrage'. And I should stick my head in a huge plateful of humble pie and choke on it!

I could be outraged at all sorts of stuff... William not attending with his Dad at Windsor ain't one of them! And when I heard he went to another service, I just said that is good to hear. No 'outrage' there.

Those that bang on about 'outrage', to me, are the ones outraged that anyone dare not agree with them!
It is very peculiar!

Do you have to insert the words, "humble pie" into every single post? It's getting somewhat tedious.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 22/04/2025 15:29

PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 22/04/2025 11:00

I think that’s a bit of a stretch 🤣

I think it's a lot of a stretch.

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