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The royal family

Sentebale #4

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glitterturd · 01/04/2025 15:41

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Thedom · 02/04/2025 10:05

The racial slurs which are being hurled at Trevor Phillips by Sussex fans, are some of the worst I have seen, some of them I had never even heard of before.

Harry and Meghan have an awful lot to answer for..

RandyRedHumpback · 02/04/2025 10:06

Ohpleeeease · 02/04/2025 09:55

I for one am pleased you can’t post under different names on the same thread.
I don't want to post everything under the same name as sometimes it’s necessary to share personal information and there are people here who love the advance search function.

I’ve accidentally posted under my wrong name then had to sit on my hands for the rest of the thread. Much better this way.

Oh I completely agree. It used to be a right pain before they fixed it. But accidentally forgetting to change your name back to the one you had started posting with on a thread, and deliberately changing your name to confuse/ support yourself and admitting you did this are two entirely different things. And to suffer no consequences for doing so when MN issues bans and deletions on this board left, right and centre for minor matters is pretty galling for the rest of us who make an effort to mind how we go and observe the posting guidelines. As a previously banned poster, I am not sure why the mods treated this poster with such leniency for such a flagrant and serious infraction of the guidelines. Perhaps they thought she was just a bit mischievous?

vera99 · 02/04/2025 10:07

RandyRedHumpback · 02/04/2025 09:50

She was also not banned for the sock puppetry, which is frankly outrageous when she admitted she did it deliberately.

It was a brief suspension for suggesting ulterior motives—such as a professional engagement in supporting the RF—something I now regret. I’ve already apologized to MHNQ and, belatedly (now), to Serenester.

Forgiveness is a Christian virtue. Hopefully, both the current and future heads of the Church of England will bear that in mind.

Uricon2 · 02/04/2025 10:08

Puzzledandpissedoff · 02/04/2025 08:36

I couldn't agree more, Lunde; apart from anything else it was hardly a kindness to Harry to expect him to function among peers so much more intellectually able

Who knows if the struggle might have fed in to his issues and deepened the obvious feelings of inadequacy he must constantly struggle against?

Ironically, H/Haz/Harold/Harry might have been better off at Gordonstoun. It didn't suit Charles (although I don't think Prince Philip sent him there out of cruelty)

At a previous school the founder, Kurt Hahn, included this in the statement about the ethos he wanted to create.

"Free the sons of the wealthy and powerful from the enervating sense of privilege."

Might have helped.

vera99 · 02/04/2025 10:09

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Sentebale #4
RandyRedHumpback · 02/04/2025 10:11

Thedom · 02/04/2025 10:05

The racial slurs which are being hurled at Trevor Phillips by Sussex fans, are some of the worst I have seen, some of them I had never even heard of before.

Harry and Meghan have an awful lot to answer for..

That's awful. Hasn't he always stuck up for MM? They have very short memories, these squaddies. He's certainly not the first to be on the receiving end, and a number of journalists are finally speaking openly about the SS and their activities (eg doxxing, threatening with violence). I hope Sir Trevor does so too.

jeffgoldblum · 02/04/2025 10:13

Thedom · 02/04/2025 10:05

The racial slurs which are being hurled at Trevor Phillips by Sussex fans, are some of the worst I have seen, some of them I had never even heard of before.

Harry and Meghan have an awful lot to answer for..

At Trevor! But not long ago he publicly supported Meghan ! ( which dropped him in my opinion slightly!)
why is he getting abuse?

RandyRedHumpback · 02/04/2025 10:14

vera99 · 02/04/2025 10:09

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Right, so having been told that by MN and banned, you went on to break the guidelines again with sock puppeting. What are you trying to prove here?

Goldusttwin · 02/04/2025 10:19

SatinBall · 02/04/2025 06:56

Has harry never been taught diplomacy and conflict management as part of his royal upbringing? And why does he feel the need to pressure people into making positive comments about his wife to help polish her image and reputation? It's all very awkward and rather cult like. I mean Meghan was a very minor actress and now is a very minor royal. With Harry's alleged drug use and increasingly erratic and inappropriate behaviour, he should be removed for the succession.

This is why the monarchy should really only stay in their lane & not be given enough of a platform or any other real involvement in political/global/corporate affairs because despite presenting a veneer of being humble, noble public servants - they patently are not. They don’t have the intelligence (well Harrry & others most certainly don’t - Andrew for eg) nor the experience, restraint or diplomacy required to operate in any way other than figureheads who support & represent charitable causes etc but who are given no real scope to interfere/run things. Hence why the less they do or say anything publicly that’s not been scripted for them the better (as with the Queen). Harry was the spare & so has probably had less training & grooming of this kind than William but even he I doubt would have the skills required to either, with both appearing pretty hot headed & lacking in much restraint (Harry more so than William). Which is why their demands for autonomy & refusal to play by any established rules & accept their station in life (& their own shortcomings) is being so excruciatingly drawn out at every turn & causing the car crashes that we are all so unable to disinvest from!

jeffgoldblum · 02/04/2025 10:27

@AtIusvue?? Can you bump the Sophie news article where she’s been hounded off twitter?
I need to post it on another thread as apparently they need proof!

vera99 · 02/04/2025 10:27

RandyRedHumpback · 02/04/2025 10:14

Right, so having been told that by MN and banned, you went on to break the guidelines again with sock puppeting. What are you trying to prove here?

As I’ve said before, I got carried away and resorted to less-than-salubrious methods to make my arguments. On the thread that led to my suspension (not a ban—that seems reserved for truly heinous offenders), I was criticizing Andrew—something we can probably all agree on.

Lunde · 02/04/2025 10:35

Uricon2 · 02/04/2025 10:08

Ironically, H/Haz/Harold/Harry might have been better off at Gordonstoun. It didn't suit Charles (although I don't think Prince Philip sent him there out of cruelty)

At a previous school the founder, Kurt Hahn, included this in the statement about the ethos he wanted to create.

"Free the sons of the wealthy and powerful from the enervating sense of privilege."

Might have helped.

Yes - I think that Harry would have done better at a school that was less of an academic hothouse and where he felt compared to William/other more academic kids. Gordonstoun might have been an option or that posh school in Wales (Atlantic College) where the European Royals send their kids that has lots of outdoor activities and charity work on the curriculum.

As Harry was one of the oldest in his school year (he turned 13 just a couple of weeks after Diana's death in that September. They could have taken that year to decide where to send him if he wasn't coping rather than throw him into Eton and expect William (with his own grief) to be a parental figure and look after him.

Harry must have been aware that he was not University material compared to the other boys - Eton even had to resort to cheating to get him through a 2nd A-level (Art) so that he could meet the minimum entrance requirements for Sandhurst.

Scampisocks · 02/04/2025 10:38

PrettyFlyforaMaiTai · 02/04/2025 08:07

In case anyone missed it, @vera99 basically excused Harry’s past (and current) racist behaviour as him being “mischievous” and because he has a “big heart” so I recommend that everyone ignore her racist enabler comments from now on.

This has echos of the racists who stabbed to death Stephen Lawrence being described as 'lovable rogues' by thier apologists.

bluegreygreen · 02/04/2025 10:40

vera99 · 02/04/2025 10:07

It was a brief suspension for suggesting ulterior motives—such as a professional engagement in supporting the RF—something I now regret. I’ve already apologized to MHNQ and, belatedly (now), to Serenester.

Forgiveness is a Christian virtue. Hopefully, both the current and future heads of the Church of England will bear that in mind.

Edited

Forgiveness is a Christian virtue. Hopefully, both the current and future heads of the Church of England will bear that in mind.

If you read the Bible, forgiveness comes after repentance.

Scampisocks · 02/04/2025 10:41

vera99 · 02/04/2025 07:25

Some fresh entrails to sift through from the Mail+ (archived for your convenience: https://archive.ph/3jTaI).

Alas, without the stalwart contributions of Rousette and MrsMaxdeWinter from days gone by, it's a lonely furrow to plough in trying to add a dash of dissent to the prevailing "Hang Harry Even Higher" sentiment. If this circus ends up focusing more on Ms. Chanuka’s conduct than on Harry and the trustees, I strongly suspect the outrage machine will simply churn on to its next manufactured scandal—probably something jam-related rather than anything remotely salient.

I'm off to Bakewell today for a family reunion, so my ability to weigh in further will be sadly limited. Wishing you all a good day!

Rousette is still here under a new name. MrsMax - gone but I always believed they were Omid Scobie ejoying the bantz whilst writing his book.

MagdaLenor · 02/04/2025 10:42

Lunde · 02/04/2025 10:35

Yes - I think that Harry would have done better at a school that was less of an academic hothouse and where he felt compared to William/other more academic kids. Gordonstoun might have been an option or that posh school in Wales (Atlantic College) where the European Royals send their kids that has lots of outdoor activities and charity work on the curriculum.

As Harry was one of the oldest in his school year (he turned 13 just a couple of weeks after Diana's death in that September. They could have taken that year to decide where to send him if he wasn't coping rather than throw him into Eton and expect William (with his own grief) to be a parental figure and look after him.

Harry must have been aware that he was not University material compared to the other boys - Eton even had to resort to cheating to get him through a 2nd A-level (Art) so that he could meet the minimum entrance requirements for Sandhurst.

They didn't "throw" him into Eton. They thought it best to go to school with William, and it's near to Windsor Castle.

Ohpleeeease · 02/04/2025 10:46

RandyRedHumpback · 02/04/2025 10:06

Oh I completely agree. It used to be a right pain before they fixed it. But accidentally forgetting to change your name back to the one you had started posting with on a thread, and deliberately changing your name to confuse/ support yourself and admitting you did this are two entirely different things. And to suffer no consequences for doing so when MN issues bans and deletions on this board left, right and centre for minor matters is pretty galling for the rest of us who make an effort to mind how we go and observe the posting guidelines. As a previously banned poster, I am not sure why the mods treated this poster with such leniency for such a flagrant and serious infraction of the guidelines. Perhaps they thought she was just a bit mischievous?

I remember those days with a shudder. There was some bizarre moderating going on.

vera99 · 02/04/2025 10:47

Scampisocks · 02/04/2025 10:38

This has echos of the racists who stabbed to death Stephen Lawrence being described as 'lovable rogues' by thier apologists.

I did nothing of the sort these are your aspersions based on nothing that I have posted.

ViolasandViolets · 02/04/2025 10:48

SC is indeed a highly experience high level executive and corporate lawyer. She has also responded to the accusations in a professional manner and has been hounded for her role. However, none of this automatically means she did a good job chairing board, the direction she steered the charity was the best one, or that she is expert in charity law. She should not have commissioned expensive consultants without the approval of the rest of the board. If she did convince the board then that level of spend, whilst it may seem cheap to a multinational conglomerate, is disproportionate for a smallish charity.

We come back round to the fact that we do not know enough of what happened to make judgements on Sentebale’s management and the role SC, H and others played. If the CC investigate they would have a narrow focus on this that would be interesting to read. H, however, does seem to be busy handing out shovels to as many people as he can to dig himself into an ever growing hole. This has now gone well beyond actual an management and trustee issue and if nothing else has been a PR disaster for him.

vera99 · 02/04/2025 10:49

Scampisocks · 02/04/2025 10:41

Rousette is still here under a new name. MrsMax - gone but I always believed they were Omid Scobie ejoying the bantz whilst writing his book.

Mrs Max was always going to leave I seem to remember - both were class acts !

Rhaidimiddim · 02/04/2025 10:51

tattychicken · 02/04/2025 08:55

The phrase "difficult woman" makes me think of this...

"bloody difficult woman" was also said of Theresa May by her colleagues.

Mylovelygreendress · 02/04/2025 10:55

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Lunde · 02/04/2025 10:56

MagdaLenor · 02/04/2025 10:42

They didn't "throw" him into Eton. They thought it best to go to school with William, and it's near to Windsor Castle.

When I say "throw" they sent him to a school that they knew he was academically unqualified for and where he would never have got a place if he wasn't the son of the Prince of Wales.

Despite such a prestigious education he only scraped a second A level because Eton cheated and forced the Art teacher to do his written work - but because he was a prince his way was smoothed into the army.

I'm not sure why the proximity to Windsor Castle is important for a boarding school. Harry's father did not live at Windsor but spent his time at Clarence House in London and Highgrove in Gloucestershire. At the time the Queen mostly lived at Buckingham Palace but spent weekends at Windsor. By all accounts it was only William who was invited to tea so that she could mentor him 1:1. Surely seeing William getting individual attention would have been worse for Harry than being at a school somewhere else playing rugby at the weekend?

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