A genuinely nice and friendly thread about Meghan

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Hi everyone! As suggested on another thread, I’m starting this to provide some balance to the MM / MS threads which have been perceived as bullying and not joyful.

So please feel free to join in and share something pleasant and joyful about your day or any comments about MM / MS as an antidote if the other threads have caused you upset. Please be nice!

I’ll begin by saying that writing notes by hand is a lovely thing to do, and conveys sincerity beyond any effusive email or text message. And nice handwriting is a bonus! Hand cramp is a problem of the digital age.

Also, I’ve watched two episodes of the series now, and I love the garden plants in California. Waiting for the spring to bloom here!

Dramadog, I'm fine, thank you for your concern. It's not strange behavior to be appalled to see people supporting an abuser. It's quite understandable that I would be feeling concerned. Having lived with a Narcissist for over a decade (and being able to relate to Harrys personality transformation from happy go lucky to a shell of his former self) I know the signs of abuse and Personality Disorder and am passionate about pointing this out where I see it. Such people destroy lives. People need to understand. Thankfully I got out and went on to marry a lovely man and have two wonderful daughter. Did you not see the Oprah interview? She made dozens of provable lies. She admitted to lying on court for goodness sake. On the contrary ARE YOU OK? Patronizing AF

being able to relate to Harrys personality transformation from happy go lucky to a shell of his former self

@EvieBB Remember that all you or I or anyone knows about Harry's previous personality is what the Palace PR system allowed us to know. This is not the same as seeing a change in one of your friends or relations.

While it's possible to point out certain behaviours, it's not reasonable to make online diagnoses.

Yes I am a trained psychologist. Please don't assume that things aren't looking up. It is presumptuous and can be deemed as patronizing. It's important to highlight NPD and call it out and educate as this condition destroys lives (or large chunks) of people lives. You don't need to know someone personally to be able to analyze them in interviews or observe their behaviour.

Bravo EvieB 👏

Meghan is a proven liar. Proven in a court of law. She made dozen of provable lies in the Oprah interview. Her behaviour then and since is clearly disordered and it's sad not only for her, but for all the destruction that it causes to those around her.

Of course you are, that's why you're diagnosing someone you've never met.💐

Please don't assume that things aren't looking up.

I'm not clear what this sentence means.

Yes I am a trained psychologist.

In which case you will be aware of codes of professional conduct, and how they relate to diagnoses and social media.

Quite. A psychologist would never do this. Utter bollocks. How embarrassing.

I wonder what the psychology behind someone posting like this poster has and then pretending they’re a psychologist. 🤪😂

On a positive note, yes, Meghan does look good in a shirt and jeans. She should wear that all the time, make it “her look” and not try outfits that fail to flatter.

One thing I notice about Meghan is how different facially she can look from day to day. I’m not criticising - she is an attractive woman - but if you compare her Disneyland face to, say, the As Ever face and numerous others, she always looks slightly different.

I think we should judge her only by her actions and she will show everyone who she is be that positive, negative. The

The problem she/they have is that their ambition is not in line with their income and they live in a place where status is ONLY really about power and money. Everyone wants to be king of the hill. I think she's felt second rate, for whatever reason, in the past and is on a mission to 'prove it' despite what she may say. This is problematic.

I don’t think she looks different, but if she does, I suppose it’s just different makeup styles or no make up sometimes and different hair styles. She also looks very relaxed in the Disney photos so I suppose that can make a difference as well.

The Disney photos were lovely, reminds me of taking our kids there when they were little.

It so reminds me of our trip there too with our DCs, long time ago. DD has never quite got over she wouldn't do one of the scary rides. We would get in the queue , then she'd chicken out when we got to the front, we'd leave the queue then she'd decide yes she would do it, she REALLY would, so we queued again. Rinse and repeat 3 times!!!

She still talks about it now decades later 😂

I don't need educating on narcissistic behaviour, I had a relationship a long time ago with someone who had that disorder

And I certainly would not be listening to a poster who claims to be able to diagnose disorders from what they read in the media and elsewhere

Ha ha. Maybe she’ll go back as an adult and conquer her fear! I imagine you look back and laugh at it now but it probably didn’t feel so funny at the time.

It was a long time ago for us now too. Youngest is currently doing GCSEs and she was only 4 when we went. Lovely memories of Disney though and glad we did it.

@EvieBB you should like a very bitter person. I hope you find peace within yourself soon

We tease her about it even now! And she still insists she REALLY REALLY wanted to do it! 🤣

Thank you for your concern but please don't presume you know me. I'm not bitter, just passionate about raising awareness of Narcissistic Personality Disorder when I see it, having been a victim for over a decade (I can well relate to Harry's reduction into a shell of his former self). Thankfully I'm now happily married with 2 wonderful children. Meanwhile my ex abuser has went on to abuse his new wife (now his ex wife) who came to me for emotional support following their split last year.

Please don't come on here slagging off someone you don't know with the excuse you are 'raising awareness'.

No one on here needs your armchair diagnoses. You say you are a professional psychologist, people can be anything they want online.

I am sorry you went through what you did, it must've been horrible for you and I'm sure it's still very raw. But that doesn't give you the right to make a diagnosis and do what you're doing on this thread. I certainly don't need 'awareness' from you.
And FWIW I think Harry seems happy with his little family over in the US.

So happy he whines constantly

@EvieBB I agree that I don’t know you and neither do you know Megan. If you are truly a professional Psychologist you will know you cannot diagnose someone by what is written about them on SM. You don’t know them personally, Harry looks very happy to me

Would you like to respond to my point @EvieBB?

I can come on here and point our poor behaviour if I seem it appropriate and necessary. That is my right . You don't get to tell me what I can and cannot do. That was this forum is for. To share opinions. You're clearly sharing yours!
You don't need to know someone personally to be able to observe their behaviour over 5 - 6 years. Behaviour and comments that have come out of their own mouth. No media spin. Not to mention countless bullying claims from ex employees and ex friends. The evidence is unsurmountable . You would do well to read Tom Bower's book. If it was all lies he would be sued. Telling, there has be no response from Montecito regarding his book.
Harry looks like a lost soul to me....he has a haunted look in his eyes. I hope he manages to get out. Read up on Stockholm Syndrome. Anyone who's been in such a relationship (whether themselves personally or their children/siblings) will relate.

I wonder about the happiness of many posters on the RF board then. 🤔

Where is it?

Yes I wonder about that to