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Meghan and Harry spotted out and about - Naija Edition

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skullbabe · 10/05/2024 20:44

Part 5 of (mostly ๐Ÿ˜‚) drama-free and positive threads, delving into all things Meghan and Harry. Whether itโ€™s the causes they support, their business initiatives, or Meghanโ€™s fashion choices (Harryโ€™s too, on occasion ๐Ÿ˜‰), thereโ€™s plenty to discuss. Just a pro-tip - that there may be use of MLE terms and discussions of dupes - you might want to exit stage left if these things offend. Hat tip to @queentim for the original inspiration.

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TheFirmBiscuit · 14/05/2024 09:04

MrsLeonFarrell · 14/05/2024 08:56

Tom Bower, and Angela Levin and Omid Scobie for that matter, are gossips who interpret and distort everything in the worst possible way. They will say anything about any royal just to make themselves feel important and it is usually nasty and divisive. I feel sorry for both those they are currently being nasty about and those they claim to support because they can turn on a dime and attack anyone.

Angela Levin is notorious and often lets slips obtuse information that is then run with as truth. But the absolute worst is Lady "Colin" Campbell who pretends to know what the royals think and broadcasts the most odious scurillious nonsense about H&M to her considerable online following. In a plummy voice like fingernails running down a blackboard. But there's no denying the BRF are unparalleld global superstars whether you love them or loathe them and the world and its dog love to feed on them .

TheFirmBiscuit · 14/05/2024 09:07

Anyway back on topic - the Mail have done a full wardrobe breakdown.

https://archive.ph/xx2nF

MrsLeonFarrell · 14/05/2024 09:07

skullbabe · 13/05/2024 23:32

Given that many consider his work to be impeccably sourced we can only conclude that the King does not like to visit and indeed was forced to visit the black countries because he does not find them โ€œculturally interestingโ€ - is an accurate reflection of the Kingโ€™s views.

I don't think that interpretation stands up to the evidence provided by the way Charles has lived.

But then neither does a lot he has said about Meghan.

I don't consider his work impeccably sourced so much as it is focused on forming the worst conclusions and extrapolating to the max about everything and anyone, with just enough fact mixed in to make it hard to sue him.

DiTePerdantTeMaledico · 14/05/2024 09:10

@MrsLeonFarrell

Thank you. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ

MrsLeonFarrell · 14/05/2024 09:12

TheFirmBiscuit · 14/05/2024 09:04

Angela Levin is notorious and often lets slips obtuse information that is then run with as truth. But the absolute worst is Lady "Colin" Campbell who pretends to know what the royals think and broadcasts the most odious scurillious nonsense about H&M to her considerable online following. In a plummy voice like fingernails running down a blackboard. But there's no denying the BRF are unparalleld global superstars whether you love them or loathe them and the world and its dog love to feed on them .

I'd forgotten about Colin, mostly because I never see her in the papers. I understand she has a YouTube channel but I've never seen it.

I agree about the family being fed on, I think it's why never complain, never explain came about as the only way to damp down speculation. Every comment just inflames things, which is something I think Harry and Meghan have taken on board in the last year to a great extent. Trying to tackle rumour and lies, and the press and social media is like the famous wrestling with a pig analogy.

TheFirmBiscuit · 14/05/2024 09:18

The sphinx like nature of the Queen was one of her greatest strengths I don't think we ever knew what was her opinion on anything remotely controversial. Just a couple of obtuse statements come to mind - one about the Scottish Independence vote and another a EU coloured hat. Philip was another matter of course.....

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:00

Serenster · 14/05/2024 08:34

I donโ€™t think that the king would have said any such thing - or anything close to it. It is just as inane as the drivel he comes out with regarding Meghan and her family.

Thereโ€™s a very very long wikipedia entry listing all the official visits Charles has made in his lifetime. Itโ€™s a lot. And as the entry makes clear, these are travels he has made as a representative of the UK - so the trips were decided upon by the Foreign and Commonwealth office to further their official strategy. Because of that, he doesnโ€™t just travel to Commonwealth countries. Heโ€™s been to most of Europe and most of South America for example.

Given this, it seems unlikely that Charles has to be โ€œforcedโ€ to visit certain countries.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_official_overseas_trips_made_by_Charles_III

Given this, it seems unlikely that Charles has to be โ€œforcedโ€ to visit certain countries.

I disagree.

The fact is that Charles did the vast majority of these trips while QE2, who unquestionably had a far stronger sense of public duty than all the current lot, was queen. Of course as Prince Charles he didn't have a choice, he did what he was told to do was in the best interests of the monarchy.

This is immaterial to the question of whether he enjoyed visiting "dark" Commonwealth countries or not.

I don't think many people would think what Bower said is in any way inconsistent with what is becoming increasingly clear about the senior royals.

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:05

On a similar vein, do folks remember when Camilla visited a primary school to read children's stories, observed a nice bracelet on the wrist of a little black girl, then held up the girls arm by the cuff of her sleeve to avoid touching her skin?

The videos are all online. Here's one article of many written at the time (Nov 2022):

https://www.newsweek.com/queen-camilla-awkward-interaction-child-race-debate-1762340

Not to mention Kate and William waving at Jamaicans held back by a wire fence during their disastrous Jamaica tour, which I'll link next.

Queen Camilla Race Debate After Charity Visit

Queen Camilla's "awkward" interaction with small child sparks race debate

The Queen Consort's interaction with a child during an engagement on Thursday sparked a debate as the royals face scrutiny in relation to race.

https://www.newsweek.com/queen-camilla-awkward-interaction-child-race-debate-1762340

GrouchyKiwi · 14/05/2024 10:08

Not to mention Kate and William waving at Jamaicans held back by a wire fence during their disastrous Jamaica tour, which I'll link next.
Sports fields are often surrounded by wire fences. You'll find similar photos of Meghan and Harry interacting with fans through a wire fence in Nigeria.

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:08

And the creme de la creme, Kate and William greeting Jamaican "natives" cloistered behind a wire fence:

https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/kate-and-will-mocked-tone-deaf-fence-jamaica-photo/

Can anyone imagine any of the current senior royals (or any of them, for that matter) hugging and taking selfies with Nigerians?? (royal protocol or not)

These are the heirs of Prince Phillip, let's not forget.

Kate and Will mocked over 'tone deaf' photo as Jamaican PM suggests ditching monarchy

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge have been criticised for being "witless" and "tone deaf" after they were photographed shaking hands with children through a wire fence during their tour of Jamaica.

https://www.lbc.co.uk/news/kate-and-will-mocked-tone-deaf-fence-jamaica-photo

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:10

GrouchyKiwi · 14/05/2024 10:08

Not to mention Kate and William waving at Jamaicans held back by a wire fence during their disastrous Jamaica tour, which I'll link next.
Sports fields are often surrounded by wire fences. You'll find similar photos of Meghan and Harry interacting with fans through a wire fence in Nigeria.

Super! How about sharing a link of the pics of Kate and William hugging Jamaicans during their 2022 tour, as M&H did in Nigeria?

(royal protocol bla bla bla)

Excuses, schmexcuses.... we are not so easily fooled!

MummyJ12 · 14/05/2024 10:24

These are lovely photos of the Prince and Princess of Wales on their tour of Jamaica.

Meghan and Harry spotted out and about - Naija Edition
Meghan and Harry spotted out and about - Naija Edition
Meghan and Harry spotted out and about - Naija Edition
TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:32

MummyJ12 · 14/05/2024 10:24

These are lovely photos of the Prince and Princess of Wales on their tour of Jamaica.

Well done for finding handshakes.....

Now search for the hugs?????

Serenster · 14/05/2024 10:43

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:32

Well done for finding handshakes.....

Now search for the hugs?????

Kate and William definitely hug people - thereโ€™s plenty of evidence for it, as posted below. The difference is that they tend to do so with people they already know, not strangers (for example William has been spotted hugging some of the Lionesses) and in more informal engagements. Not so much those where they are overseas as official representatives of the UK government where, quite frankly, itโ€™s not remotely appropriate when meeting dignitaries. That doesnโ€™t mean that they donโ€™t also interact with people though, like this photo taken in Jamaica

Meghan and Harry spotted out and about - Naija Edition
Meghan and Harry spotted out and about - Naija Edition
Meghan and Harry spotted out and about - Naija Edition
smilesy · 14/05/2024 10:45

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:32

Well done for finding handshakes.....

Now search for the hugs?????

Why do they have to hug? What is so special about hugging? A hug can be insincere you know. Iโ€™ve said elsewhere, my neurodivergent son doesnโ€™t hug. Doesnโ€™t mean he isnโ€™t affectionate and sincere. Probably more so than those who hug performatively

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TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:46

Lovely summary of the Naija trip from CNN here:

Extract:
Meghan visited Nigeria as a duchess and left an African princess
The Duke and Duchess of Sussex embarked on what was officially dubbed a 3-day private visit to Nigeria, yet it unfolded with all the grandeur and attention typically reserved for royal tours.
Their first day saw them receive a red-carpet welcome complete with cultural dancers following their arrival in the Nigerian capital of Abuja, where they kicked off a multi-day mental health summit at Lightway Academy.
There, they also unveiled a partnership between their Archewell Foundation and the GEANCO Foundation to provide students with school supplies and menstrual products.

The pair had been invited to the West African nation by the countryโ€™s highest-ranking military official, Christopher Musa. After meeting him at the Nigerian Defence Headquarters, Meghan signed a guest book thanking officials for โ€œwelcoming me home.โ€
They were warmly received everywhere they went, with Nigerians showcasing their famed hospitality. The couple were showered with gifts, including a touching portrait of a young Harry with his mum.

For both Nigeria and the Sussexes, this visit held significant weight.
It was an opportunity for Nigeria to demonstrate its capability to host such high-profile guests and dispel any doubts raised by skeptics, especially considering the countryโ€™s standing in the eyes of the UKโ€™s Foreign Office as one of the most dangerous countries to visit in the world.
Nigeria has security issues with a terrorist insurgency in the northeast and northwest. However, it is a huge country โ€” larger than the US state of Texas โ€” and the other areas visited by the royal couple over the past several days are relatively safe.

Meanwhile, for Prince Harry and Meghan, this marked their first major trip to Africa since relinquishing their official royal duties.
It was a chance for them to engage in a hearts-and-minds charm offensive, which they executed with aplomb.
Meghan, in particular, embraced exploring her Nigerian ancestry after discovering several years ago that she is 43% Nigerian through a genealogy test.
On Saturday, she co-hosted a womenโ€™s leadership event with Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Director-General of the World Trade Organisation, for about 50 leading women from across Nigerian society and politics, business, media, and culture.
During a panel discussion, moderated by Nigerian media mogul Mo Abudu, the duchess spoke passionately about uncovering her Nigerian roots and its significance to her own identity.
It was here that Meghanโ€™s natural ability to connect really shone through. She chatted effortlessly with attendees, posed for selfies and engaged in heartfelt conversations.
At another event on Sunday at the prestigious Delborough Hotel in Lagos - where the great and good of Nigerian society had gathered to welcome the couple - she appeared visibly moved when three powerful traditional rulers honored her with royal titles.

https://edition.cnn.com/2024/05/13/africa/meghan-nigeria-tour-int-latam/index.html

Great stuff!

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:47

Serenster · 14/05/2024 10:43

Kate and William definitely hug people - thereโ€™s plenty of evidence for it, as posted below. The difference is that they tend to do so with people they already know, not strangers (for example William has been spotted hugging some of the Lionesses) and in more informal engagements. Not so much those where they are overseas as official representatives of the UK government where, quite frankly, itโ€™s not remotely appropriate when meeting dignitaries. That doesnโ€™t mean that they donโ€™t also interact with people though, like this photo taken in Jamaica

Kate and William definitely hug people

Hmmm.... sounds like a deliberate attempt to distort the point I am making.

Nice try.

DiTePerdantTeMaledico · 14/05/2024 10:49

Now you are just being far too sensible @MummyJ12 !!

Iโ€™m happy enough not trying to engineer examples of racism out of thin air and to try to allege things that have happened in a certain way when they have not.

Iโ€™ve experienced enough racism in my time. That was plenty.

Iโ€™ve no time to live my life in a bubble of perceived hatred. If folk are determined to see it in everything then folk will. It doesnโ€™t have to be real.

If I want that, Iโ€™ll go on another board here.

MaturingCheeseball · 14/05/2024 10:52

@TallerSally - I have to applaud your dedication to the cause, but hugging ? People are bad if they donโ€™t hug? What is this nonsense?

MummyJ12 · 14/05/2024 10:54

smilesy · 14/05/2024 10:45

Why do they have to hug? What is so special about hugging? A hug can be insincere you know. Iโ€™ve said elsewhere, my neurodivergent son doesnโ€™t hug. Doesnโ€™t mean he isnโ€™t affectionate and sincere. Probably more so than those who hug performatively

edited typo

Edited

This! Absolutely this.

I too have a neurodivergent son who is exactly the same. Hates being touched by people who he doesnโ€™t know, a hug would completely freak him out. Thereโ€™s nothing wrong with respecting peopleโ€™s boundaries and being approachable and friendly (as the Prince and Princess of Wales were) without the need for hugging everyone. Catherine and William do hug, when itโ€™s appropriate and welcomed. They just donโ€™t throw themselves on people!

I have to add that everyone that came into contact with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, were invited in to whichever event it was at that time. Everything had been arranged.

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:56

MummyJ12 · 14/05/2024 10:54

This! Absolutely this.

I too have a neurodivergent son who is exactly the same. Hates being touched by people who he doesnโ€™t know, a hug would completely freak him out. Thereโ€™s nothing wrong with respecting peopleโ€™s boundaries and being approachable and friendly (as the Prince and Princess of Wales were) without the need for hugging everyone. Catherine and William do hug, when itโ€™s appropriate and welcomed. They just donโ€™t throw themselves on people!

I have to add that everyone that came into contact with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, were invited in to whichever event it was at that time. Everything had been arranged.

I have to add that everyone that came into contact with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, were invited in to whichever event it was at that time. Everything had been arranged.

In sharp contrast to events involving the senior royals.

Folks, try as hard as you may, the point I and others are making is coming across loud and clear.

Bower's comment did not come from thin air.

Serenster · 14/05/2024 10:57

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:47

Kate and William definitely hug people

Hmmm.... sounds like a deliberate attempt to distort the point I am making.

Nice try.

Not distorting your point at all. Because we can see that:

Thereโ€™s plenty of evidence to show that William and Kate hug members of the public whom they know, and whom they meet in informal settings.

William and Kate donโ€™t however hug people they are meeting for the first time in a formal setting, because that is generally not appropriate behaviour when you are representing your country in a diplomatic setting.

(on the latter point, there was a state visit last week between Denmark and Sweden. The new Danish King and Queen are contemporaries of the Swedish Crown Princess and Prince, and they are good friends. When they met for the state visit however, the Swedes shook hands and curtsied/bowed to the Danish. Because thatโ€™s appropriate behaviour when youโ€™re representing your country. Meghan wasnโ€™t representing anyone but herself in Nigeria. Thereโ€™s a difference).

smilesy · 14/05/2024 10:59

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 10:56

I have to add that everyone that came into contact with the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, were invited in to whichever event it was at that time. Everything had been arranged.

In sharp contrast to events involving the senior royals.

Folks, try as hard as you may, the point I and others are making is coming across loud and clear.

Bower's comment did not come from thin air.

Donโ€™t forget, Bower said some choice things about Meghan too. Did those comments come from nothing?

MaturingCheeseball · 14/05/2024 11:00

On another thread last week, posters were claiming this was an Invictus business trip. Is that still the case, do they think?

TallerSally · 14/05/2024 11:03

Serenster · 14/05/2024 10:57

Not distorting your point at all. Because we can see that:

Thereโ€™s plenty of evidence to show that William and Kate hug members of the public whom they know, and whom they meet in informal settings.

William and Kate donโ€™t however hug people they are meeting for the first time in a formal setting, because that is generally not appropriate behaviour when you are representing your country in a diplomatic setting.

(on the latter point, there was a state visit last week between Denmark and Sweden. The new Danish King and Queen are contemporaries of the Swedish Crown Princess and Prince, and they are good friends. When they met for the state visit however, the Swedes shook hands and curtsied/bowed to the Danish. Because thatโ€™s appropriate behaviour when youโ€™re representing your country. Meghan wasnโ€™t representing anyone but herself in Nigeria. Thereโ€™s a difference).

....something about not seeing the wood for the trees going on here....

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