The evidence is his own book. Harry admitted that his staff members "slumped across their desks and wept", more than once. People can like Harry and Meghan and still admit that clearly there was something wrong there.
I see both sides on the racism. Anyone denying that Meghan went through racism is just in denial. There are clearly proofs on the Internet.
I understand people feel like the RF should've spoke up more for Meghan, sure. I also felt that way. They did statements to deny some ridiculous stories about her, though as we've seen with KateGate, the palace cannot control social media, which is where Meghan gets most of the hate, in my opinion
Yet, I understand why they didn't in a way. Before 2018-2019, Harry was the most popular member of the RF (or maybe 2nd after the Queen), people forget that William and Kate were the ones constantly getting bad press (though they kept quiet hence why people think like it wasn't that bad). The press were brutal: they constantly talked about her weight, she got criticised for breaking tradition and not getting pregnant in her first year of marriage, the backlash for their expensive home renovations, paparazzis stalking baby George, accusations of feud with other royal ladies, revelations that her phone had been hacked 155 times, the sex shaming after her topless scandal, the nurse committing suicide after a prank and some people blaming her, she was even accused of funding terrorism once.
Yet, Harry didn't once speak up to defend Kate. He can't go on national TV, saying that silence is betrayal when he's never spoke up for anyone in the past.
I actually was mostly Team Harry and Meghan until his interview with Tom Bradby.
To hear him blame the media and accuse them of calling the RF family with that weird smirk afterwards was exactly when I realised that this man is, excuse my French, full of sh*t.
I'm French and British but the child of an African dad and a Caribbean mother and I defended them so much after the Oprah interview. I felt so bad for them (I still do) but to throw an accusation like that and take it back 2 years later is disgusting. Meghan clearly said the word "concerns".
Harry also told Oprah off camera that he wanted to make sure that the public knew that neither Queen Elizabeth nor Prince Philip made the comment so he knew exactly what would happen and what people would think.
At this point, sadly, I think they will never reconcile. I can just wish peace and happiness to all of them (except Andrew). I don't hate H&M nor do I hate the RF (except Andrew) but the media needs to let it go. I honestly think both sides have moved on but the media needs this feud to continue for clicks and money which is why they continue to write about Meghan constantly. Unfortunately, the supporters are not helping