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HRH The Princess of Wales Is Being Treated For Cancer

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TheSquareMile · 22/03/2024 18:02

Radio 4 announcing it now.

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woahboy · 22/03/2024 21:24

Wow. It is announced at 6pm and within 2 mins rubbish to MN. Do you always act so desperate to be the first?
Just stop being so over invested. It's unseemly

ilovesooty · 22/03/2024 21:24

CaterhamReconstituted · 22/03/2024 21:11

The Palace may have decided to make the statement because they recognise it is a serious development that the public have a right to know about. Which we do, given that this is the future Queen. The statement has had the effect of killing the speculation but the speculation may not have been the reason why they made the statement.

Oh get the smelling salts out with your puritanical moral standards! You are the same kind of person who would have bullied our late Queen into making a public appearance after Diana died.

I think I'd stop digging if I were you.

Newsenmum · 22/03/2024 21:27

Helpisso · 22/03/2024 21:16

Totally agree. Fighting ,battling etc is complete bollocks ! As a nurse and a friend of a dear person who died recently at the age of 43 recently I feel so strongly about this . My friend died not because she had lost a battle,she died because there was no other alternative!!

I feel the same. I lost a loved one to cancer. A wonderful, strong and kind person.
They weren’t weak, there was no battle or enemy.

CaterhamReconstituted · 22/03/2024 21:28

DiscoBeat · 22/03/2024 21:18

Of course the RF are entitled to privacy when not on public engagements and especially at a time like this. Do you want to watch them 24/7, including in hospital? What a moronic comment.

Obviously not 24/7 but the welfare of the wife of the heir to the throne is not just a private family matter, it is a state matter.

NeverHadHaveHas · 22/03/2024 21:31

CaterhamReconstituted · 22/03/2024 21:28

Obviously not 24/7 but the welfare of the wife of the heir to the throne is not just a private family matter, it is a state matter.

Were you bothered about her welfare when you were betting a tenner on her marriage?

Nanalisa60 · 22/03/2024 21:31

Well hopefully the press will now leave her and her family alone.

CaterhamReconstituted · 22/03/2024 21:33

NeverHadHaveHas · 22/03/2024 21:31

Were you bothered about her welfare when you were betting a tenner on her marriage?

Absolutely. A divorce would have been a serious constitutional issue, as William eventually becomes the head of the Church of England. I’m very pleased it was not an affair!

anonymous98 · 22/03/2024 21:34

Dartwarbler · 22/03/2024 20:16

I’m sorry to hear about HRH.
ive Had 2 different cancers which were rather “mild” being curable surgically at early stages- and they were both dealt with within 2 week timeline then. But, shit it was awful and particularly the earlier one when my kids were pre teen. So, this is extremely difficult for anyone to deal with.

but I do wish the press would stop using the term “stricken with cancers” as they have done with the king. It makes it sound like he is bed bound and near death and is alarmist head line grabbing shite. I hope to god they don’t start saying HRH is also “stricken”.

same with the old “fighting cancer” milarky. It’s not a bloody fight, it’s stressful, painful, demanding, all consuming… but to say people die becuase they “loose” the fight, or they don’t die becuase they “battled” or “won an fight “ marks out those that died from cancer as being less determined, strong willed, etc. and that’s complete bollocks. The type of cancer, the stage it was identified, the genetics factors, pre existing conditions, age, sex, and individual responses to treatment determine whether you survive. Yes, a resilient mind set is possibly a factor to help reduce stress which is known to hinder recovery form any illness, but whether you survive or not is NOT down to whether you were good at “fighting” it. Or how brave you were. It’s ok to be not brave, firgging scared and impatient, and not very nice at times due to stress. We’re not hero’s all the time.

both the king and HRH cancers were found during surgery for either something else (king) , or some form of tumour (in HRH case) they believed to be benign (I assume). So early stage. They are both physically fit for their ages, have best medical care available, so the prognosis will be good.

They’re not stricken ,they’re not batttling…they are having difficult treatments that will make them feel shit at times, and hopefully are finding time to rest, sleep and heal so they stand the best chance of recovery. Why doesn’t the press just stick to that.

I agree. The warlike language around cancer is really unhelpful in many cases. If it helps some people, then great, but a lot of people aren't "fighting a battle"- they're dealing with an illness, likely involving some unpleasant treatments. We would never say that someone lost their battle with heart disease or COPD. I also find cancer charity adverts to sometimes be in poor taste - "Stand Up To Cancer", really?

Some of my family have had cancers that thankfully were curable with minimal treatment, and they've gone on to have healthy lives. Others were sadly terminal at diagnosis. I would never say that anyone "lost their battle".

Sorry you've had to deal with cancer. I hope King Charles and HRH will get well soon and I imagine they are receiving excellent care.

Northernsouloldies · 22/03/2024 21:34

Glad it wasn't an affair...???.so how does cancer sit with the constitution.

hot2trotter · 22/03/2024 21:35

She has been forced into announcing something so private due to the disgusting behaviour of some individuals. They ought to be ashamed of themselves - same goes for those obsessing over a bloody photoshopped picture. Go crawl under a rock until you find some decency - and a life!!

EarringsandLipstick · 22/03/2024 21:37

@CaterhamReconstituted is being goady for effect. It's quite stomach-churning. They are best ignored.

Hayliebells · 22/03/2024 21:38

CaterhamReconstituted · 22/03/2024 21:33

Absolutely. A divorce would have been a serious constitutional issue, as William eventually becomes the head of the Church of England. I’m very pleased it was not an affair!

Unbelievable. It could be really serious. She could die. Three children could lose their mother. But you're glad it's not an affair?! Just stop with the all the faux concern for the "constitution". It's in very poor taste.

Papyrophile · 22/03/2024 21:39

Sincere best wishes to HRH The Princess of Wales for a full and quick recovery.

IvanaTinkles · 22/03/2024 21:40

CaterhamReconstituted · 22/03/2024 21:33

Absolutely. A divorce would have been a serious constitutional issue, as William eventually becomes the head of the Church of England. I’m very pleased it was not an affair!

You’re “very pleased” that a mother of young children has cancer, rather than her husband had an affair? God that’s sick!

SabreIsMyFave · 22/03/2024 21:43

hot2trotter · 22/03/2024 21:35

She has been forced into announcing something so private due to the disgusting behaviour of some individuals. They ought to be ashamed of themselves - same goes for those obsessing over a bloody photoshopped picture. Go crawl under a rock until you find some decency - and a life!!

This. ^

@CaterhamReconstituted I can't even find words to explain the horror your post actually really is.

Teado · 22/03/2024 21:44

Thank goodness it was spotted due to the planned surgery. A bit like Charles’ case. Hopefully this means that both cancers were caught early and will prove helpful to them both.

bridgetreilly · 22/03/2024 21:45

I think she was very impressive in what she said and incredibly restrained in the way she said it. But all the conspiracy theorists should be utterly ashamed of themselves for putting her in that position at all. She is a mother of three young children, recovering from surgery and facing chemotherapy and she should be allowed to do that as privately as she chooses.

MagentaRocks · 22/03/2024 21:45

I hope all those speculating and being nasty are ashamed of themselves.

Living with cancer is tough enough without the world watching and making up ridiculous stories.

Rosscameasdoody · 22/03/2024 21:47

Helpisso · 22/03/2024 18:14

Exactly what Iwas going to write!! Am not good at remembering posters names generally but there are certain ones who I do remember. Am not going to name them but they know who they are !!! Hope they are crawling under their rock and stay away from MN for a long time !

One in particular has started several threads, the latest one of which was frenzied. To me, it felt as though HRH had put out the statement more to end the media feeding frenzy than anything else and I hope the lunacy on SM and in the media generally hasn’t led to her feeling pressured into releasing information she would rather not have shared, or was not ready to share. She may be a member of the royal family but she’s a human being first and foremost and as entitled as the rest of us to keep her health/medical information private.

dandeliondandy · 22/03/2024 21:48

MissMelanieH · 22/03/2024 19:09

Actually I feel incredibly sad for her that she was pushed into doing this by all the gossip, rumours and speculation.
I wish her well and hope that people will leave the family alone to deal with their personal medical difficulties.

It has been said that she made the announcement because of the children not because she was bullied into it. I think that when one is a high profile person like Kate, the curiosity and speculation goes with the territory and of course, the world has moved on since the days when royalty called the shots and everyone behaved reverentially. It is terribly sad to see a young mum having to have preventive chemotherapy but she is being well cared for, has enormous support and has the very best treatment that money can buy. She reassured everyone that she was doing OK and mentioned that the children had been told that 'Mummy was OK'. She seemed positive and it was nice that she mentioned others on their cancer journey too. I do think the whole thing has been handled poorly by KP though I do understand why she would have wanted to ensure the children were OK and perhaps having to endure the awful wait to see if it had indeed spread to other places before getting the all clear for the mopping up chemo. She looked much thinner which is understandable and actually, this time around, I felt like we were getting a bit of the 'real' Kate and not the perma-smile mannequin we usually see and from that perspective it was 'good' to see her and not her public persona though obviously wish it was under different circumstances. Naturally, wishing her all the best and a full recovery and successful treatment. I think every mother's worst nightmare is to imagine not being around whilst their children are small

MeTooOverHere · 22/03/2024 21:50

woahboy · 22/03/2024 21:24

Wow. It is announced at 6pm and within 2 mins rubbish to MN. Do you always act so desperate to be the first?
Just stop being so over invested. It's unseemly

What 'rubbish' are you talking about?

I do hope this calms the farm so all the rumour mongers can sleep easy at night. 🙄

Gee the poor woman.

dandeliondandy · 22/03/2024 21:52

Today I got the news that an old schoolfriend, having beaten cancer five years ago now has hepatic cancer and was going into surgery today. I did not say anything as I know how bad hepatic cancer is but I could not help but think of her two boys just starting on their journeys as adults and having to deal with this and for my friend who will be worrying about her boys. A cruel, cruel disease and I wish everyone affected by it the very best.

MeTooOverHere · 22/03/2024 21:54

Northernsouloldies · 22/03/2024 21:34

Glad it wasn't an affair...???.so how does cancer sit with the constitution.

and how does public opinion sit with the Constitution.
ps I'm supporting the quoted the person, not arguing against them.

momager1 · 22/03/2024 21:55

I hope that SHE (not princess Kate, not the future queen) JUST the mum of three children and wife to a husband that obvs must be scrambling now to take care of his beloved wife.. and his kids.. and take care of business.. plus a father that is also battling cancer .. Can be left alone!!! let her do her treatments, stop calling her husband workshy, stop looking for pictures. It has been announced. Let all hope it was caught early enough and someday she will be queen. If not..well that is their PRIVATE family business. Leave her the FUCK ALONE.

CaterhamReconstituted · 22/03/2024 21:57

SabreIsMyFave · 22/03/2024 21:43

This. ^

@CaterhamReconstituted I can't even find words to explain the horror your post actually really is.

Not sure I understand, I don’t get the phoney outrage of some of these posts. I have expressed sympathy for the Princess of Wales. Cancer is very serious. It would have been a constitutional issue if she and the heir to the throne were to get divorced though. So I am glad it was not a marital issue, although of course that does not diminish the seriousness of cancer.