Just because constant accusations of batshittery ,bullying,demands for details of whatever surgery has taken place etc are made does not mean that they are all over these MN threads .
Maybe you haven't read many threads. On MN on just a couple of threads I have seen people speculating that she is getting divorced, is a victim of DV, has a stoma, has an eating disorder, has physical problems brought about by mental health problems, has discovered that her husband is having an affair, hasn't had an op at all, is lazy, has been moved to a place of safety by the security services, is disfigured, has gained weight through lack of activity, is on steroids, has had a pregnancy loss or medical menopause, should just tell people what's wrong, should be working on zoom like Charles, has had a hysterectomy, plastic surgery, a breakdown. It goes on and on.
Maybe it's confusion over what is being said elsewhere .I don't know ,but it feels like the accusers are the ones showing the bullying behaviour .
I'm not confused by content elsewhere, I'm only on MN. I don't think it's bullying to point out that wild speculation about some poor unwell woman is stupid and harmful.