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Happy Birthday, Spare!

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EncantoSpice · 10/01/2024 11:17

It’s the one year anniversary of the release of Spare, how are you all celebrating?!

In all seriousness, a year on what impact do you think the book has had on the Royal Family and the Sussexes?

In my opinion it clearly did very well commercially but in popular culture it became a bit of a joke. In terms of the RF I’m not sure it made much difference - to people who already didn’t like them it confirmed what they already believed, to people who did like them it was more evidence that Harry was no loss. I also think even a year later it has made reconciliation between William and Harry impossible.

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ArcaneWireless · 14/01/2024 00:13

Love a bit of Brody. And Quint.

farewell and adieu to you fair spanish ladies 💃🏽 💃🏽 🇪🇸

Now show me the way to go home…☺️

jeffgoldblum · 14/01/2024 00:17

Ahhh @ArcaneWireless , farewell adieu you ladies of Spain !

I will drink to your leg!!!

If they don't love you going out .... they love you coming home !!

To be fair nowadays quint seems a tad sexist but .... you have to love him somehow.

ArcaneWireless · 14/01/2024 00:26

Ah but Hooper was the one who ended up going a-ferreting Ellen…

I’m still grateful they didn’t put it in the film.

I’d be up to watch Jaws5. Might be a project for the Sussexes?

jeffgoldblum · 14/01/2024 00:29

🤣🤣🤣, I've never met another who has read the book!!!
Brody and his dreams of groping virgins!!😱

The film was better! And I love Roy !!

EncantoSpice · 14/01/2024 00:47
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Spare!

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JaneJeffer · 14/01/2024 01:12

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MrsLeonFarrell · 14/01/2024 08:33

EncantoSpice · 14/01/2024 00:47

Spare!

My apologies, I mentioned Andrew, didn't mean to derail.

Love all the GIFs though.

Someone asked upthread what would happen if they moved back to Windsor Great Park and just lived their lives.

I suspect there would be a couple of years articles about every little thing they did and then interest would decline. The process would be faster if they didn't react to any articles however ridiculous, I'm thinking headlines about how the colour of Meghan's wellies whilst walking her dogs indicates that she supports Burnley.

It never struck me before how Never complain, Never explain is basically grey rocking the narcissistic press.

Rockybooboo · 14/01/2024 08:52

MrsLeonFarrell · 14/01/2024 08:33

My apologies, I mentioned Andrew, didn't mean to derail.

Love all the GIFs though.

Someone asked upthread what would happen if they moved back to Windsor Great Park and just lived their lives.

I suspect there would be a couple of years articles about every little thing they did and then interest would decline. The process would be faster if they didn't react to any articles however ridiculous, I'm thinking headlines about how the colour of Meghan's wellies whilst walking her dogs indicates that she supports Burnley.

It never struck me before how Never complain, Never explain is basically grey rocking the narcissistic press.

The trouble is those headlines would be while the kids at school. Also the far right nutters would still have Meghan and the kids on their hit list.

Ridemeginger · 14/01/2024 08:53

I’d never thought of never complain, never explain in that way before, @MrsLeonFarrell Thank you. Grey rocking narcissistic actors is always the way to go. Dealing with the faux innocence, gaslighting and DARVO is a waste of energy. Let them get their feed from their own kind, don’t let them eat you up too. Red Riding Hood had the measure of granny, we all should be vigilant.

Angrycat2768 · 14/01/2024 09:30

Rockybooboo · 13/01/2024 16:47

Isn't drug taking quite prolific amongst the upper classes. Definitely prolific in the city.

Upper and Middle classes, and yes definitely in the City. It's replaced alcohol and I suspect is responsible for the increase in heart attacks amongst the young ( that anti vaxxers like to blame on the Covid vaccination). Its outrageous that this is a generation who should be the most aware of environmental damage but couldnt care less that their weekend line of Coke has destroyed more rainforest than beef production ( not to mention the human cost) but thats a whole other soapbox.

ArcaneWireless · 14/01/2024 09:31

Never complain, never explain has served the RF well.

Unfortunately complaining and over explaining has not served anyone well.

PH and M have been made figures of ridicule which was probably not their intention. What started off with a mostly sympathetic ear and a Bon Voyage has turned into raised eyebrows, whirling eyes and snorts of derision.

PA is also a figure of ridicule due to the over explaining although there is the element of disgust attached (rightly so) to the ridicule.

I do think that speculation would have swirled round him regardless.

I think PH and M were also the victims not only on their say so but of timing and circumstance.

Covid, the ill health and demise of the Elizabeth II and Prince Phillip. Maybe even their choice of location.

I wonder if any of them sit late at night thinking I wish I’d done things differently/kept my mouth shut/stayed put?

There is still time to turn things around but that Golden Globe comment must have nipped. She has been very much in the background, keeping relatively quiet and to be mocked on what should be your shiny place? Sore one.

I still can’t help but feel that PH was full of puff and promised her the moon and maybe more. She may not have known how it all worked but he did. He may have thought they would be the exciting, edgy glamour couple. And they so could have been.

But it would never have been to the detriment of W & K.

And watching them both? I think second fiddle would never have been acceptable. It is a pity that it wouldn’t have been enough because they initially seemed to have so much to contribute.

To then choose to cock a snook and bite the hand that fed them made no sense. I think the majority of his disenchantment is with the press (and maybe bring second born?) so to do that was madness.

Fine having a beautiful and glamorous actress on his arm. Maybe they both thought it was a golden ticket to untold riches. Who knows.

It of course has been lucrative.

Has the cost been worth it?

I believe not. I hope they think differently.

ArcaneWireless · 14/01/2024 09:34

Grey rocking narcissistic actors is always the way to go. Dealing with the faux innocence, gaslighting and DARVO is a waste of energy. Let them get their feed from their own kind, don’t let them eat you up too.

I’m all for grey rocks. It is infinitely sensible on oh so many levels…

Maireas · 14/01/2024 09:36

They had so much potential, so many incredible opportunities, and (in spite of what some claim) genuine support.
I hope they can carve out some sort of productive life going forward, not looking back.

Rockybooboo · 14/01/2024 10:02

Maireas · 14/01/2024 09:36

They had so much potential, so many incredible opportunities, and (in spite of what some claim) genuine support.
I hope they can carve out some sort of productive life going forward, not looking back.

Well they've busy with Invictus, WellChild, looking after their kids. They hadn't mentioned the Royal family. Harry did his duty at the Coronation and went home straight away. Meghan didn't come and I don't think she will unless she really has to. I think it's safe to say they've moved on.

Maireas · 14/01/2024 10:05

they hadn't mentioned the royal family
?
That's been their modus vivendi, but I do think it's stopped now. Thank heavens.

Rockybooboo · 14/01/2024 10:14

Maireas · 14/01/2024 10:05

they hadn't mentioned the royal family
?
That's been their modus vivendi, but I do think it's stopped now. Thank heavens.

This thread is about Spare being year old. It's been a year.

I imagine they will continuing living rent free in some people's heads. We will have threads ' Spare i s 2 years old'' 'Spare is 25 years old".

wildernesssw · 14/01/2024 10:17

I agree that only engaging with the media when you choose makes a lot of sense, which for the RF probably means ignoring 99% of what the tabloids publish.

Or anyone else using the media to launch vague accusations. 'While recollections may vary' was a very sensible response.

Ridemeginger · 14/01/2024 10:21

They have retained their titles and bestowed them on their children. They've moved on, but not that far. I think dropping the titles in 2024 would be a positive step for them, and gain them a lot of respect.

wildernesssw · 14/01/2024 10:23

But as things stand their titles are their only selling point.

Maybe that will change with the new projects they have in the pipeline...

Rockybooboo · 14/01/2024 10:25

Ridemeginger · 14/01/2024 10:21

They have retained their titles and bestowed them on their children. They've moved on, but not that far. I think dropping the titles in 2024 would be a positive step for them, and gain them a lot of respect.

I don't think it would. People would still slate them for something else.

Maireas · 14/01/2024 10:31

Rockybooboo · 14/01/2024 10:14

This thread is about Spare being year old. It's been a year.

I imagine they will continuing living rent free in some people's heads. We will have threads ' Spare i s 2 years old'' 'Spare is 25 years old".

So? People can discuss what they want to.

AliceOlive · 14/01/2024 10:36

Maireas · 14/01/2024 10:05

they hadn't mentioned the royal family
?
That's been their modus vivendi, but I do think it's stopped now. Thank heavens.

They still have their friends and biographer doing so, though.

Maireas · 14/01/2024 10:37

AliceOlive · 14/01/2024 10:36

They still have their friends and biographer doing so, though.

Omid Scobie?

AliceOlive · 14/01/2024 10:38

Rockybooboo · 14/01/2024 10:02

Well they've busy with Invictus, WellChild, looking after their kids. They hadn't mentioned the Royal family. Harry did his duty at the Coronation and went home straight away. Meghan didn't come and I don't think she will unless she really has to. I think it's safe to say they've moved on.

She didn’t but did arrange to be seen hiking in all her jewels and release details about her daughters birthday party.

AliceOlive · 14/01/2024 10:41

Maireas · 14/01/2024 10:37

Omid Scobie?

Yes and the recent comments released by friends.
-wishing to be invited to Sandringham
-not wishing to step foot in UK again
-having declined the wedding invitation that was never sent

i am sure there is more to follow. It’s a hard habit to break. Like reading this forum.