And he would naturally want to show her that he was a valued part of both. This did not happen and his pride was hurt.
I'm quite sure this was true.
Not that it didn't happen, but that his pride was hurt.
They had enormous privilege and respect just not as much as William and (more importantly, imo) Kate.
Harry seemed so amazed and enchanted that such a wonderful woman, who also happened to be very easy on the eye, had fallen for "ginger" him and actually stuck around for marriage (unlike some girlfriends) that he would have hated anything that lessened him in her eyes:
"Why do we always have to walk behind William and Kate? Why doesn't Kate immediately want to become an intimate friend of mine, share lip gloss and take me shopping? Does she think she's better than me? You said 'Whatever Meghan wants, Meghan gets' but I'm not getting everything I want! Are you not important enough to arrange that?"
I'm sure Harry's pride was hurt. Maybe, subconsciously, he felt it was his status, as well as the man he is, that had attracted Meghan.
But it's the hurt pride that needs changing, not the law.
Yes, this is all supposition on my part.
No, I do not have links.
Please don't ask as a refusal often offends.
Edited for style: "amazed" and "amazing" close together.
Tsk!