I agree with a lot of this @EdithWeston I also however recall when Sarah originally did the WW deal there was a lot of press coverage about how poor it was she was "working" yet the year prior they had gone on and on about her having huge debths.. We didn't get anything positive over her ensuring she got out of this. As a rule over the years, there has been a lot of negative press about Sarah Duchess of York. Yet this is never considered bullying yet the moment there is one negative comment about Meghan it's " bullying and racism" in truth, not everyone will like everything we do so we will get some negative comments. For someone who marries into a royal family, this will go on the press in that country. I personally would actually call what Sarah went through bullying but i know others won't agree there.
Between Sarah and Meghan I think Sarah has managed this with style and yeas you said she has been loyal to the Royal family. I don't think Meghan has managed this well..
(Im aware that was likely not what you were commenting on)
I do agree re Sophie I can also recall when they married she was really not that well-liked by the public. I can recall articles claiming both Diana and Sarah complained Sophie was getting better treatment to get eased into the royal family than they had. Yet both Sarah and Diana were out of the Royal Family by this point. The press around the fake sheikh was bad I agree.