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Earl Spencer not invited to coronation.

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GrazingSheep · 04/05/2023 23:01

Have Diana’s sisters been invited?

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Soontobe60 · 04/05/2023 23:05

Would you invite your ex husbands brother to your wedding with your second husband? that would just be weird. I’m sure he’ll get an invite to Will’s coronation though as he’s his actual relative.

GrazingSheep · 04/05/2023 23:07

I would have thought as an Earl he may have been deemed worthy of an invite.

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GrazingSheep · 04/05/2023 23:08

And surely a coronation is a different kettle of fish to a wedding.

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IWantRebeccasConfidence · 04/05/2023 23:09

GrazingSheep · 04/05/2023 23:07

I would have thought as an Earl he may have been deemed worthy of an invite.

There’s loads of earls, nobility, lords or whatever. They do not deserve an invite by way of their birth.

TomatoSandwiches · 04/05/2023 23:10

He will be invited to Williams instead.

LauraNicolaides · 04/05/2023 23:12

GrazingSheep · 04/05/2023 23:07

I would have thought as an Earl he may have been deemed worthy of an invite.

Apparently there are 189 of them. Double that for their spouses. That's not counting dukes, marquises and viscounts. (Clearly barons are not worth a mention!)

Stuffing the Abbey with hereditary peers in ermine and coronets and their lady wives would not really set the right tone of attempted inclusivity.

YellowAndGreenToBeSeen · 04/05/2023 23:16

Is he really NFI?

If so then, indeed OP, quite the statement. To leave out a significant Earl (the Uncle of the Heir to the Throne) is quite the comment. Especially when said Earl is arguably more aristocratic than the Monarch.

And I’m a Republican.

AuroraCake · 04/05/2023 23:28

He’s left out loads of them. The families relationship with Earl Spencer is fine. He is invited when he should be invited. He was invited to the Queens funeral as she was his godmother. He was at both nephews weddings.

GrazingSheep · 04/05/2023 23:36

He was at both nephews weddings.

Presumably his nephews invited him.
I couldn’t give a fiddlers really; it’s just the headline news this evening in the Independent website.

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Womencanlift · 04/05/2023 23:37

There are extended members of the family are not invited like Lord Mountbatten’s family and he was like a grandfather to Charles so to not invite your ex-wife’s brother (regardless of his title) is not surprising

The whole congregation is a quarter of what it was at the Queen’s. Very stripped down.

But at least Ant and Dec got an invite 🙄

Pineapplejuicer · 04/05/2023 23:37

Not a surprise really!

Luredbyapomegranate · 04/05/2023 23:38

Why would he be??

QueenSmartypants · 04/05/2023 23:38

Seriously, why would he be?

I'm just old enough to remember Di's funeral- he can't honestly have expected an invitation to her ex husbands and the OW's coronation after the speech he gave.

GrazingSheep · 04/05/2023 23:40

But at least Ant and Dec got an invite 🙄

😂

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Luredbyapomegranate · 04/05/2023 23:41

YellowAndGreenToBeSeen · 04/05/2023 23:16

Is he really NFI?

If so then, indeed OP, quite the statement. To leave out a significant Earl (the Uncle of the Heir to the Throne) is quite the comment. Especially when said Earl is arguably more aristocratic than the Monarch.

And I’m a Republican.

No it isn’t, there are hundreds of Earls, not to mention higher ranking marquesses and dukes, most of them aren’t invited.

It’s not a family event, it’s a stare event with less than a quarter of the seats of the old Queens, he doesn’t have any formal role to warrant an invite.

SmartHome · 04/05/2023 23:45

I'm no particular fan of Charles, Camilla or the Rf but why would you expect he would be? I wouldn't invite my ex's brother to a birthday, wedding, funeral.

CatherineCawoodsScarf · 04/05/2023 23:45

I don’t think he was at his daughter’s wedding (though it wasn’t clear whether he was invited or not). Hopefully not going to the coronation would be less of a snub.

KnickerlessParsons · 04/05/2023 23:49

The Earl of Caernarfon (Highclere) hasn't been invited either.

GrazingSheep · 05/05/2023 00:13

Camilla’s ex is going .

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CrotchetyQuaver · 05/05/2023 00:18

Not quite sure who gets to go on the guest list for a coronation, but compared to QE2's they are short on space in the abbey - modern health and safety won't allow for scaffolding stands of seating like they had in 1952.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 05/05/2023 00:23

Camilla's ex-husband is invited, apparently, which might seem even odder in a way - considering that neither Charles nor Earl Spencer betrayed/cheated on each other directly.

I'm no fan of the monarchy, and this coronation (the first in my lifetime) just brings it home that, for a 'democratic' country, we can behave breathtakingly and wantonly undemocratically; but I do think that Charles is facing an uphill battle here, which will probably be the mark of his whole reign. If he invites popular celebrities who will be familiar to hoi polloi, in an attempt (however successful) to make it seem a bit more relevant and meaningful to us all, he is criticised; if he only invites a load of dusty old aristocrats that most of us don't have a clue about, he will be criticised again for being elitist and out of touch with the common people.

The Queen was in the very unusual position of coming to the throne very young and thus spending most of her life as the monarch. It seemed quite natural as she grew with the role and had seven decades to make it uniquely her own, as well as only having a few adult years beforehand in which to make bad decisions that people would forever resent her for.

Charles has spent the great majority of his life filling time whilst waiting for the job - during which he has made numerous very unpopular decisions (as would many of us in that timeframe, but the Daily Mail don't care about us). Now he's finally there, he may only have one decade in the role; highly unlikely to be more than two. I can't see him carving out a grand reputation as monarch for himself; I think more likely he will come to be seen in history as just a bit of a caretaker between QE2 and King William V.

EconomyClassRockstar · 05/05/2023 00:24

IWantRebeccasConfidence · 04/05/2023 23:09

There’s loads of earls, nobility, lords or whatever. They do not deserve an invite by way of their birth.

One could say the same thing about Charles!

LuluBlakey1 · 05/05/2023 00:28

GrazingSheep · 05/05/2023 00:13

Camilla’s ex is going .

Camilla's ex has many links to the Royal family that are not Camilla related. His father was a close friend of HM The Queen and the Queen Mother, he played polo with Charles, was a boyfriend/lover of Princess Anne for several years and is still a very close friend, is godfather to Zara Tindall, is grandparent to three of the pages, Commander of the Household Cavalry and the Royal Army Veterinary Corps, Silver Stick in Waiting to the late Queen. He remains a close friend of both Camilla and Charles. Seems worthy in an invite.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 05/05/2023 00:29

One could say the same thing about Charles!

Oi, listen, you: the first rule of democracy club is that nobody is allowed to challenge any lack of democracy!

GrazingSheep · 05/05/2023 00:30

Camilla's ex has many links to the Royal family that are not Camilla related. His father was a close friend of HM The Queen and the Queen Mother, he played polo with Charles, was a boyfriend/lover of Princess Anne for several years and is still a very close friend, is godfather to Zara Tindall, is grandparent to three of the pages, Commander of the Household Cavalry and the Royal Army Veterinary Corps, Silver Stick in Waiting to the late Queen. He remains a close friend of both Camilla and Charles. Seems worthy in an invite.

Are Ant and Dec worthy?

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