Mangogirl12, it's odd that a woman who's still friends with people she was at school with and obviously has incredibly strong familial relationships should be seen as a manipulator and 'holier than thou' rather than the person who's proved to play fast and loose with the truth on several occasions and seems to drop friends at the drop of a hat. You seem to believe everything that Harry and Meghan say, and accusing Kate of 'attacks' on Meghan seems a bit hyperbolic. As far as the bridesmaid incident goes, it was a minor incident not some major diplomatic issue - Kate apologised, sent flowers, yet Meghan blew it all out of proportion, dropping to her knees and sobbing in corners FFS. The best way of dealing with such spats is to apologise and move on, not hang on to every little perceived slight.
If the only things Meghan has to complain about is someone not lending her a lipstick and suggesting some clothing isn't fitted well, she's not got much to worry about. It smacks of petty jealousy and actually makes Meghan look rather spiteful.
I'd love to read Kate's take on the whole sorry mess.