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Why is the Queen commenting on the Roald Dahl controversy?

271 replies

OutofEverything · 24/02/2023 15:48

I thought the Royal Family were supposed to be uncontroversial and unpolitical, so why is the Queen getting involved in this? It is nothing to do with her, she did not have to say anything?

Or have the rules changed and they are now going to be more controversial and political?

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Maireas · 25/02/2023 11:56

Who on earth is going to be "disturbed" by her presence?!

ArcaneWireless · 25/02/2023 11:58

I guess her presence will be slightly less disturbing than if Diana were hauled out for the occasion.

My inner Nan has the exact phrase for the disturbing nonsense.

g’wan. Guess…

ItsShiela · 25/02/2023 12:00

DappledThings · 25/02/2023 11:36

It is so bizarre that anyone cares this much. Let alone that you think your opinion means anything. It's cute that you think she shouldn't be known as the Queen when that's literally what she is and that you think that changes anything.

But she is not The Queen. She is merely Queen Consort. She is just a female Philip. And most of us referred to Prince Phillip as just Phillip.

IcedPurple · 25/02/2023 12:00

Plitvice · 25/02/2023 11:48

Fundamentally, Charles is a lazy, old sod. He could have gone through a long, riskier process of finding a new wife who had not gained notoriety as his mistress and was condemned for deeply hurt his young wife.
However, he stuck with the devil he knew because it was a comfortable situation. A new relationship would have taken effort, risked not working out and potentially created new dramas.
I bet he sat down and mind mapped it all and cleared it with each of his plants individually.

So he should have chosen a wife for her 'suitability', and not for love?

Because that worked out so well the first time round?

DappledThings · 25/02/2023 12:00

Plitvice · 25/02/2023 11:55

Therefore, I can totally appreciate why he did it but there will not be much goodwill when she is seen at the coronation and many people will be disturbed by her presence.
She has been 'broken in' over several years to become a familiar sight at the grand events as a part of the brilliant PR intervention. Kate and William will inevitably put on a good show of welcoming her. I don't think the acceptance will come.

This is just rubbish. Only a small cohort of Diana obsessed weirdos will be unaccepting of her. Most people will be entirely unmoved by the Queen being crowned Queen. Thousands of intense Royalists will I guess be very overexcited as they are at all Royal events.

Anyone who is "disturbed" by it needs help.

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:01

I bloody love your inner Nan, @ArcaneWireless . She'd deal with this nonsense.

DappledThings · 25/02/2023 12:02

ItsShiela · 25/02/2023 12:00

But she is not The Queen. She is merely Queen Consort. She is just a female Philip. And most of us referred to Prince Phillip as just Phillip.

Nope. As has been explained countless times. The wife of a male monarch has a different status to the husband of a female monarch. So Prince Albert wasn't King Albert but Queen Alexandra was Queen Alexandra.

You can not like it all the day long. Doesn't make you factually correct.

IcedPurple · 25/02/2023 12:03

ItsShiela · 25/02/2023 12:00

But she is not The Queen. She is merely Queen Consort. She is just a female Philip. And most of us referred to Prince Phillip as just Phillip.

The 'consort' part is just acknowledging the fact that she is not the reigning monarch, just married to him.

In British constitutional law, the wife of the king is the queen. It's as simple as that. The difference with Philip has been explained many times above. The aristocratic system is decades behind the times and assumes that males automatically outrank females, so a King Philip would have been consider higher in rank than Queen Elizabeth, even though she was the sovereign and he a mere consort. The same does not apply when the genders are reversed. Camilla is HM The Queen.

ArcaneWireless · 25/02/2023 12:08

maireas

I’m sure she’d appreciate me and my inner Nan.

The utter pish spouted on some of these threads is coming close to having my inny nan being a permanent outy.

Only shoogly pegs and that… ☹️

I reckon MNHQ should allow me a nan amnesty week as a Coronation gift. 👑

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:10

I'm going to personally contact MNHQ and lobby for this.
Sanity and commonsense need to prevail.

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 25/02/2023 12:11

IcedPurple · 25/02/2023 12:03

The 'consort' part is just acknowledging the fact that she is not the reigning monarch, just married to him.

In British constitutional law, the wife of the king is the queen. It's as simple as that. The difference with Philip has been explained many times above. The aristocratic system is decades behind the times and assumes that males automatically outrank females, so a King Philip would have been consider higher in rank than Queen Elizabeth, even though she was the sovereign and he a mere consort. The same does not apply when the genders are reversed. Camilla is HM The Queen.

Yes - and it is the same with other aristocratic titles. Women can't confer them on men by marriage. Hence, e.g. Princess Eugenie's husband is still Mr Jack Brooksbank. Only men can confer a female version of their title on a spouse.

A female monarch can create her spouse as a Prince (or Duke etc.) but it doesn't happen automatically when they marry.

Saffronpotatoes67 · 25/02/2023 12:12

Maireas · 25/02/2023 11:46

No, @Saffronpotatoes67 , you can still love and admire Diana. Consider her an icon if you wish.
My point is that you can't change the present and it's maybe time to move on?
If not, your choice. Camilla is Queen.
Diana can be Queen of Hearts if you wish.

Oh ffs! No I don’t consider Diana an “icon”
or “Queen of hearts” or whatever mawkish sentimental phrase the press has made up
for her, so please stop patronising me thanks Maireas. I liked her because she was open, natural, warm, energetic and very good at her job.

It’s interesting (and I have noticed this before in other threads about the RF) how you choose to patronise while completely ignoring my points about hypocrisy!

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:12

You're on point, @IcedPurple and it's been said many times.
I think some are just unwilling to accept how things work on this issue.

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:13

@Saffronpotatoes67 . Fine
Admire her, many do. I've said that before, it's your choice.
My only point is that it won't stop Camilla being crowned.

Saffronpotatoes67 · 25/02/2023 12:16

DappledThings · 25/02/2023 12:00

This is just rubbish. Only a small cohort of Diana obsessed weirdos will be unaccepting of her. Most people will be entirely unmoved by the Queen being crowned Queen. Thousands of intense Royalists will I guess be very overexcited as they are at all Royal events.

Anyone who is "disturbed" by it needs help.

Here we go again, “Diana obsessed weirdos” .

Why is it not possible in your eyes Dappledthings to merely prefer one woman over another?

Quite a few people I know in my circle of friends are not particularly supportive of Camilla as it happens and we are all sane, well-read intelligent women thanks.

IcedPurple · 25/02/2023 12:17

PlaitBilledDuckyPuss · 25/02/2023 12:11

Yes - and it is the same with other aristocratic titles. Women can't confer them on men by marriage. Hence, e.g. Princess Eugenie's husband is still Mr Jack Brooksbank. Only men can confer a female version of their title on a spouse.

A female monarch can create her spouse as a Prince (or Duke etc.) but it doesn't happen automatically when they marry.

What's worse is that Eugenie is often officially referred to as "Mrs. Jack Brooksbank" on royal communications, a style which mostly vanished for the rest of the population decades ago. Even after giving birth, Zara Tindall wasn't allowed the dignity of her own name and was referred to as "Mrs. Mike Tindall".

And while I think the practice of conferring peerages on royals upon marriage should probably go by the wayside, if they are going to continue with it, then Charlotte as well as Louis should be offered a peerage in her own right, especially as she outranks him. The idea that a woman's status depends on her husband's is so outdated, even by royal standards.

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:19

@ArcaneWireless - I've sent you a pm.

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:21

Oh, I can't stand that kind of address form for married women, @IcedPurple it's so archaic.
Years ago I remember Princess Anne being referred to as "Mrs Mark Phillips". 40 years on and no progress.

Saffronpotatoes67 · 25/02/2023 12:21

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:13

@Saffronpotatoes67 . Fine
Admire her, many do. I've said that before, it's your choice.
My only point is that it won't stop Camilla being crowned.

Where did I say it would stop her being crowned Maireas?

We are not obliged to like Camilla, or Charles for that matter, or have any particular thoughts about them at all!

And some of us wish that the whole lot would retire and live out their lives in private on their various country estates without any financial support from the public purse.

Xol · 25/02/2023 12:22

Flossflower · 24/02/2023 17:26

Although I do agree with her, the royal family are not supposed to take sides. She is also not very bright. I understand one of the things that Camilla had in common with Diana was they both only achieved 2 ‘O’ levels at school.

Diana failed all her O levels.

IcedPurple · 25/02/2023 12:23

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:21

Oh, I can't stand that kind of address form for married women, @IcedPurple it's so archaic.
Years ago I remember Princess Anne being referred to as "Mrs Mark Phillips". 40 years on and no progress.

I wonder what would happen if a minor royal woman wanted to keep her own name on marriage? Could Zara ask to be referred to as Ms. Zara Phillips for example? If it were me, I'd insist on it!

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:26

Well, we may have found a point of agreement @Saffronpotatoes67 ! 😂😂
I know you didn't refer to the coronation, but I just meant that nothing will stop Camilla in her role, even if some people personally do not like her and still feel very positively about Diana.

Xol · 25/02/2023 12:27

Novella4 · 25/02/2023 09:09

Camilla is not loved .

People aren't stupid .

Charles did god knows what deal ( Andrew related probably) to get the queen to state she wanted Camilla crowned.
The fact that that had to be stated says it all

Camilla and Charles sitting on their gold thrones and being anointed etc is going to generate more bad feeling than good long term
Their timing is dreadful

So what timing would be better? Like it or not, she became Queen as soon as Queen Elizabeth died, how can they change the timing of that?

Maireas · 25/02/2023 12:27

IcedPurple · 25/02/2023 12:23

I wonder what would happen if a minor royal woman wanted to keep her own name on marriage? Could Zara ask to be referred to as Ms. Zara Phillips for example? If it were me, I'd insist on it!

I bloody would. And have done!
I don't hear that about Beatrice, maybe she objects?

Xol · 25/02/2023 12:30

Plitvice · 25/02/2023 10:08

I think that Harry and William were right on this point. Charles didn't have to marry her after the difficult backstory involving their mother. He could have simply lived with her as her partner (as some European monarchs probably do). They didn't even have to go official or do joint engagements. Nobody was expecting it or looking forward to seeing them together (apart from the tabloids).

What does what other people were expecting or looking forward to have to do with anything? Can't a man with no wife choose to marry anyone who is legally free to marry, just because he wants to?