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Harry - Just shut up.

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lookluv · 14/01/2023 12:20

Dear Harry

Please shut up and stop forcing your alleged reality on to everyone else.

Every second born child knows they are the spare - try being the second girl after a first daughter. You know they wanted a boy - you are no different, yours is just on a bigger scale.

Your wife was probably suffering from "baby blues" post natal depression - not because your family were allegedly crucifying her. Hell I am the hard nosed bitch from hell, who sat on the bathroom floor and bawled my eyes out because DS1 nappy would not stay on and I had a poonami. I also cried just sitting on the sofa in the middle of the day.

You wanted to make money from the monarchy on your terms and the Queen said no. You either work for the monarchy but you dont get to pick and choose the bits you want - you get to be patron of the runny poo society aswell as the glory ones that get the glamour.

You are an out and out relentless bully. Attacking your brother and family, knowing they will not rise to your lies and insults. There may be an element of truth to the odd thing you claim but you know what families do not air their dirty laundry in public - like you are trying to do.

Diana was also William's mother -you do not own her and her memory. He has feelings emotions and was hurt just like you. Respect your mothers memory and your brothers feelings .

The world gets you and your wife think you will be a better King and Queen, your jealousy knows no bounds. Do you not get the Queen, you are insulting the Queen every time you open your mouth - yet you claim to love her. I am just grateful she passed away before you unleashed this vindictive hell on her - this would surely have killed her.

Please go and do what you said you wanted - have some privacy, raise your beautiful children without the hatred you so obviously harbour, from both your privileged upbringings.

Do you want Lilibet, to do this to Archie and you in 30 years time?

Just shut up now and I hope the RF ( of whom I am not a fan) never apologise to you because what you are doing is far nastier, calculated and vindictive. I now want William to be King ( which I never did) - just to stick it in your face.

Please shut up

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caringcarer · 14/01/2023 15:24

@Lividity latest polls showed Harry less popular with UK public than Prince Andrew. It was a public poll. Not a subjective opinion.

bakalava · 14/01/2023 15:27

vera99 · 14/01/2023 14:06

There are plenty that still are even here ! I keep on wanting to get back to the book but I feel an urge to leap back in. There is a thread running on the Book Club which has a reasoned discussion by those that have actually read the damn thing. I commend it to the house....

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A lot of the unpaid ones have disappeared.

Firstbornunicorn · 14/01/2023 15:28

You’re probably the type of person who gets all het up about people being “cancelled”.

Calm down and have a biscuit, dear.

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lookluv · 14/01/2023 15:37

yukoandhiro - you may have been happy with a second girl but I would lay odds that your partner, like most people would prefer one of each.
Second children face different issues to the first and the last- Harry is not unique

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vera99 · 14/01/2023 15:38

bakalava · 14/01/2023 15:27

A lot of the unpaid ones have disappeared.

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It's tragic I ain't getting paid for typing this shit.....I'm open to offers Haz and will work for a bag of weed and a small credit in Book 3 and a chance to meet your talking bin which strangely enough like Eric Morecambe likes to talk rubbish...

bakalava · 14/01/2023 15:43

vera99 · 14/01/2023 15:38

It's tragic I ain't getting paid for typing this shit.....I'm open to offers Haz and will work for a bag of weed and a small credit in Book 3 and a chance to meet your talking bin which strangely enough like Eric Morecambe likes to talk rubbish...

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😀

JaneJeffer · 14/01/2023 15:44

lookluv · 14/01/2023 15:37

yukoandhiro - you may have been happy with a second girl but I would lay odds that your partner, like most people would prefer one of each.
Second children face different issues to the first and the last- Harry is not unique

Nonsense

TangledWebOfDeception · 14/01/2023 15:55

JaneJeffer · 14/01/2023 15:44

Nonsense

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Yeah I don't recognise that at all. Neither I nor my exH had any preference for one of each. We would genuinely have been happy either way.

Of course I can't be entirely sure about DH, but I certainly know my own mind perfectly well.

SoyMarina · 14/01/2023 15:57

Harry is showing the world that he is sick (mentally ill) with jealousy of William and Meghan is jealous of Kate.
And, yes it’s time he shut up now.
What a fool!

MangosteenSoda · 14/01/2023 16:04

It’s depressing that someone who had the world at his feet has chosen to simmer in bitterness and monetise his dislike of his family.

He’s coming up for 40, has a beautiful wife and kids and moved away over 2 years ago. He needs to do something else with his life.

The comments in the Telegraph today were bonkers. He’s just written a whole book about petty trivial shite and now he’s demanding an apology for Meghan for something that he’s apparently not disclosed?

PurpleLoons · 14/01/2023 16:18

lookluv · 14/01/2023 15:37

yukoandhiro - you may have been happy with a second girl but I would lay odds that your partner, like most people would prefer one of each.
Second children face different issues to the first and the last- Harry is not unique

Am intrigued by this. So you think that most people out there who have 2 children of the same sex are looking at the second one thinking “yeah, but I’d have preferred it if you were a boy/girl”? Not a few people but “most”? And partners who aren’t voicing this are just keeping quiet about it? If you walked past my family with my 2 DDs, you’d be thinking “I bet they wished the smaller one was a boy”?

MechanicaHound · 14/01/2023 16:31

Anthillmobontherun · 14/01/2023 14:01

vera99

You are literally the only person on the internet still defending him! 🤣

No there are one or two on another thread I'm on about Spare. One says she's an author and literary critic and can't praise the book, its author and subject highly enough.

It's amusing to read.

MechanicaHound · 14/01/2023 16:37

He is blackmailing them, speak up or I will release the rest of it

Or perhaps - pay up or else.

onlylarkin · 14/01/2023 16:51

vera99 · 14/01/2023 15:38

It's tragic I ain't getting paid for typing this shit.....I'm open to offers Haz and will work for a bag of weed and a small credit in Book 3 and a chance to meet your talking bin which strangely enough like Eric Morecambe likes to talk rubbish...

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Same. 😅

Spectre8 · 14/01/2023 16:52

lookluv · 14/01/2023 15:37

yukoandhiro - you may have been happy with a second girl but I would lay odds that your partner, like most people would prefer one of each.
Second children face different issues to the first and the last- Harry is not unique

I'm a second child my parents treat each of us equally there is not favouritism no being left out or not enough attention.

Says more about you if that's what you think, feel sorry for your kids if you have any. What outdated archaic attitude to have

crosspusscrossstitcher · 14/01/2023 16:53

Well said OP.

Still not sure why the book isn't stocked in the "Fiction" section. 🤔

ThePalace · 14/01/2023 16:56

@lookluv, you sound a little bitter about being the second child. I'm the second daughter and I definitely wasn't a spare. In fact, I would say I was probably daddy's little girl growing up.

SoyMarina · 14/01/2023 17:08

I am a second girl of three .
My parents were genuinely delighted as they had many miscarriages before us.

MyRiverThee · 14/01/2023 17:11

Dear Harry...😂 Are you the same poster that ‘wrote’ to Kate the other day?

mrswibblywobbly · 14/01/2023 17:18

lookluv · 14/01/2023 12:20

Dear Harry

Please shut up and stop forcing your alleged reality on to everyone else.

Every second born child knows they are the spare - try being the second girl after a first daughter. You know they wanted a boy - you are no different, yours is just on a bigger scale.

Your wife was probably suffering from "baby blues" post natal depression - not because your family were allegedly crucifying her. Hell I am the hard nosed bitch from hell, who sat on the bathroom floor and bawled my eyes out because DS1 nappy would not stay on and I had a poonami. I also cried just sitting on the sofa in the middle of the day.

You wanted to make money from the monarchy on your terms and the Queen said no. You either work for the monarchy but you dont get to pick and choose the bits you want - you get to be patron of the runny poo society aswell as the glory ones that get the glamour.

You are an out and out relentless bully. Attacking your brother and family, knowing they will not rise to your lies and insults. There may be an element of truth to the odd thing you claim but you know what families do not air their dirty laundry in public - like you are trying to do.

Diana was also William's mother -you do not own her and her memory. He has feelings emotions and was hurt just like you. Respect your mothers memory and your brothers feelings .

The world gets you and your wife think you will be a better King and Queen, your jealousy knows no bounds. Do you not get the Queen, you are insulting the Queen every time you open your mouth - yet you claim to love her. I am just grateful she passed away before you unleashed this vindictive hell on her - this would surely have killed her.

Please go and do what you said you wanted - have some privacy, raise your beautiful children without the hatred you so obviously harbour, from both your privileged upbringings.

Do you want Lilibet, to do this to Archie and you in 30 years time?

Just shut up now and I hope the RF ( of whom I am not a fan) never apologise to you because what you are doing is far nastier, calculated and vindictive. I now want William to be King ( which I never did) - just to stick it in your face.

Please shut up

Well that’s 5 minutes of your life you will never get back.

x2boys · 14/01/2023 17:25

Coffeetableposhbooks · 14/01/2023 13:12

I posted on the other thread, I genuinely believe he has narcissistic personality disorder.

I think he is lapping up the attentions he is getting. He feels he is incredibly important, the saying his book is of historical significance, that he is saving the monarchy, that he wanted to help raise Charlotte and Louis to stop them being treated the same. I would normally not diagnose someone, but this is text book.

see below.

Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence, they are not sure of their self-worth and are easily upset by the slightest criticism.

A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial matters. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration that they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships troubled and unfulfilling, and other people may not enjoy being around them.

Treatment for narcissistic personality disorder centers around talk therapy, also called psychotherapy.

Narcissistic personality disorder affects more males than females, and it often begins in the teens or early adulthood. Some children may show traits of narcissism, but this is often typical for their age and doesn't mean they'll go on to develop narcissistic personality disorder.

Symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder and how severe they are can vary. People with the disorder can:

Have an unreasonably high sense of self-importance and require constant, excessive admiration.
Feel that they deserve privileges and special treatment.
Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements.
Make achievements and talents seem bigger than they are.
Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, beauty or the perfect mate.
Believe they are superior to others and can only spend time with or be understood by equally special people.
Be critical of and look down on people they feel are not important.
Expect special favors and expect other people to do what they want without questioning them.
Take advantage of others to get what they want.
Have an inability or unwillingness to recognize the needs and feelings of others.
Be envious of others and believe others envy them.
Behave in an arrogant way, brag a lot and come across as conceited.
Insist on having the best of everything — for instance, the best car or office.
At the same time, people with narcissistic personality disorder have trouble handling anything they view as criticism. They can:

Become impatient or angry when they don't receive special recognition or treatment.
Have major problems interacting with others and easily feel slighted.
React with rage or contempt and try to belittle other people to make themselves appear superior.
Have difficulty managing their emotions and behavior.
Experience major problems dealing with stress and adapting to change.
Withdraw from or avoid situations in which they might fail.
Feel depressed and moody because they fall short of perfection.
Have secret feelings of insecurity, shame, humiliation and fear of being exposed as a failure.

Well done ,you,why do we need psychiatrists,psychologists etc when we have Google 🙄
love how people on the internet just casually diagnose people with serious mental.health disorders .

x2boys · 14/01/2023 17:29

lookluv · 14/01/2023 15:37

yukoandhiro - you may have been happy with a second girl but I would lay odds that your partner, like most people would prefer one of each.
Second children face different issues to the first and the last- Harry is not unique

What utter bollocks🙄

purpledalmation · 14/01/2023 17:31

His latest truth is that his saying in his book he killed 25 Taliban and just saw them as chess pieces, which went down like a lead balloon with the military, the media and the Taliban, was not a big deal re his security (not to mention plain humanity) until the media made it so.

So he is gaslighting us about his Taliban paragraph and blaming the media, as well as saying the royal family are not racists and that was the media changing the narrative. He wants his birth family to 'take responsibility' and 'be accountable' and apologise. So where's your contribution Harry?

Saw the Oprah clip today again and MM says 'conversations'...so multiple conversations around archie's (who hadn't been conceived at the time) skin colour. MM also intimated (until pressed) that they were said to her, but had to admit it was to Harry. He has to admit it was before they were even married. Spin?

x2boys · 14/01/2023 17:31

BeverlyHa · 14/01/2023 14:05

I like and agree with your post. This world operates on jealousy and hatred, this is why this book sells because people drag themselves to hell sucking someone's toxic hatred against ones family. So the many mumsnet witches who actually support Megan and Harry. Lol. The same toxic brood who comes here just to enjoy other peoples problems.

The irony ...

mrswibblywobbly · 14/01/2023 17:33

SoyMarina · 14/01/2023 15:57

Harry is showing the world that he is sick (mentally ill) with jealousy of William and Meghan is jealous of Kate.
And, yes it’s time he shut up now.
What a fool!

Is that you Camilla?