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Anyone else think Kate is coming across as a bit precious and over-sensitive? Baby brain, lip gloss etc.

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SallyWD · 09/01/2023 12:09

I'll start by saying I know there are 2 sides to every story. Also, I'm not a Megan fan. I have no idea what she's like. She might be awful. I neither like her, nor dislike her. I feel the same way about Kate.

But anyway, in light of the stories that Harry is telling, does anyone else feel that Kate (and William) comes across as rather precious and over sensitive?

First of all there's the baby brain incident. Apparently Kate forgot something or made a mistake and Megan responded by saying "Oh don't worry, it's probably the baby brain". Kate then feels insulted by this remark and says something along the lines of "You don't me well enough to comment on my hormones". William joins in by pointing his finger at Megan and saying "It's rude Megan, we don't do that here." I mean seriously?? I think the baby brain remark was completely benign. I'm sure Megan was trying to reassure Kate not to worry about her mistake. Just after having my baby I paid for my shopping and walked out leaving it in the shop. The cashier had to call me back and I apologised. She also said "Don't worry, it's the baby brain". I wasn't at all offended. I was relieved she understood! I certainly didn't think "How dare a stranger comment on my hormones". The irony of William telling Megan off for rudeness whilst pointing his finger at her. I find it far more rude to point in someone's face than to mention baby brain. If I was Megan and had received that reaction to my innocent remark I would have felt humiliated and very upset.

Then there's the lipgloss incident. Megan asked to borrow Kate's lipgloss. Kate lends it to her then gets upset that she dabs it with her finger. I understand some people don't want to share lip gloss but Kate could have said no. I don't understand what's so upsetting about Megan using her finger? If I lent someone my lip gloss I'd insist they used their finger and not their mouth. Apparently the mouth harbours more germs than your average toilet.

Then there's the report that William and Kate were uncomfortable being hugged by Megan. There are literally hundreds of photos of William and Kate hugging random strangers on the internet! Yet when Megan makes this faux pas it's offensive to them.

It seemed like William and Kate expected to be treated with great formality by Megan - as if she was one of their subjects. It also seems that Megan couldn't do anything right! Megan on the other hand perhaps expected a little more intimacy given that they were her partner's family. It doesn't sound like they did much to make her feel comfortable and welcome in to the family. Does anyone agree/disagree?

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Ohnonevermind · 10/01/2023 18:49

I saw a post where someone asked if Meghan had ordered the dresses on Wish.

what a shit show for Givenchy.

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 · 10/01/2023 20:08

DownNative · 10/01/2023 18:09

Since the Oprah interview with Meghan and Harry has cropped up again, here is several questionable claims they made to Oprah that clearly aren't true.

Claim: "I guess the highlight for me is sticking him on the back of a bicycle in his little baby seat and taking him on bike rides which is something I was never able to do when I was young. I can sit him on the back and he’s got his arms out and he’s like ‘whoah’.” - Prince Harry

Truth: Harry did go on bike rides with his father at various ages. Photos available online.

Claim: Meghan: “[But] you know, three days before our wedding, we got married. No-one knows that.

“We called the Archbishop and we just said, ‘Look, this thing, this spectacle is for the world but we want our union between us.’ So, the vows that we have framed in our room are just the two of us in our backyard with the Archbishop of Canterbury.”

Harry added: “Just the three of us.”

Truth: Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby: “The legal wedding was on the Saturday. I signed the wedding certificate, which is a legal document, and I would have committed a serious criminal offence if I signed it knowing it was false.”

Claim: Oprah: "After their move, Harry and Meghan say security normally provided by the royal family was cut off.”

Harry: “I never thought that I would have my security removed, because I was born into this position. I inherited the risk. So that was a shock to me. That was what completely changed the whole plan.”

Truth: Only a strict few members of the Royal Family were entitled to 24/7 protection at the time of the Oprah interview. These are:

the Queen and Prince Philip
Charles and wife Camilla Duchess of Cornwall
William and Kate and their kids

Working Royals are entitled to protection ONLY when undertaking official Royal duties. Princess Anne and Prince Edward are two examples.

Non-working members of the Royal Family are NOT entitled to official protection. Princesses Eugenie and Beatrice as well as the Queen's eldest grandchild, Zara Tindal are examples.

"Once Harry and Meghan step down as working royals, they become high net worth individuals/A-list celebrities but that doesn’t entitle them to taxpayer-funded security. Elton John has to pay for his own security and so do Harry and Meghan.” - Simon Morgan, a former royal protection officer.

Royal Protection officers are funded by the British Taxpayer.

Both Harry and Oprah clearly pointed the finger at the Royal Family regarding the loss of Royal Protection officers for Harry and Meghan.

In truth, London Metropolitan Police’s Royal and VIP Executive Committee make the decisions over who is entitled to Protection.

And who isn't.

Harry knew very well that ceasing to be a working Royal would absolutely mean losing the elite protection. After all, it was never a secret that various non-working Royals do NOT get armed protection.

So, why would he and his wife?

The truth was clearly distorted by Oprah, Meghan and Harry.

Claim: Meghan: "You couldn’t just go. You couldn’t. I mean, you have to understand, as well, when I joined that family, that was the last time, until we came here, that I saw my passport, my driver’s licence, my keys. All that gets turned over. I didn’t see any of that any more."

Truth: For security reasons, the passports of each member of the Royal Family is looked after until they require them for international travel. That's just commonsense.

To Oprah, Meghan claimed she never saw her passport again until "we came here" which would be California. However, this is clearly a lie as she required her passport for travelling to Canada upon leaving the UK.

And, in 2019, required her passport for travel to the USA for a rather extravagant baby shower which was attended by many of her friends.

All members of the Royal Family require a passport for ALL travel where its required.

Except for the Queen since it's issued in her name.

As proven here: www.royal.uk/passports

Meghan Markle also claimed:

"....the first member of color in this family isn't being titled in the same way as other grandchildren would be."

On the contrary, Archie is really treated no differently to the Queen's grandchildren who aren't entitled to the Prince and Princess style.

Zara Tindall and Peter Phillips, for example, don't have this style. Zara is the Queen's eldest grandchild, by the way.

Furthermore, Prince Edward's children are NOT styled as Prince and Princess despite the Letters Patent of 1917. They are styled as children of the Earl - not HRH Prince and Princess.

Edward's children are the first to have the double barrelled Mountbatten-Windsor name.

Harry and Meghan's son, Archie, is treated in the exact same way as Edward's children AND he carries the same double barrelled surname as they do.

Here again, Meghan's implied claim of racism doesn't stand up. And that does cast enough doubt on their other claim of racism regarding a senior Royal whose identity they say they have no intention of disclosing.

Of course, Meghan incorrectly referred to Archie as one of the Queen's grandchildren. He was a great-grandson of the late Queen since his father, Harry was her grandson. Archie was treated NO differently to any great-grandchildren who WEREN'T entitled to Prince and Princess titles during the late Queen's reign.

This is far too easy @DownNative , and thank you for giving me the opportunity to once again, expose the fact that these so-called 'lies', are well - LIES. And distortions.

Claim: Harry did go on bike rides with his father at various ages. Photos available online.

Truth: Harry clearly meant he didn't have the paps around with Archie, that he could do it PRIVATELY, the fact that there are photos of Harry in the tabloids, proves his point. Archie has the ability to cycle with his father, without the paps there.

Claim: Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby: “The legal wedding was on the Saturday. I signed the wedding certificate, which is a legal document, and I would have committed a serious criminal offence if I signed it knowing it was false.”

Truth: That has been addressed so many times on this site that it aught to be a thread stuck at the top. In many cultures it's common to say you were married even if you exchange vows but don't sign paperwork. It is something that the UK seems to really, really, really struggle with. The idea that you can exchange vows privately, no signed paperwork, and consider it a 'marriage'. The Archbishop did not deny that they exchanged vows privately. Just confirmed that it wasn't legal.

Claim: Harry knew very well that ceasing to be a working Royal would absolutely mean losing the elite protection. After all, it was never a secret that various non-working Royals do NOT get armed protection.

Truth: funding comes from Duchy of Cornwall. As the son of the future King, an exception could be made, ESPECIALLY as Meghan was receiving RAPE THREATS AND DEATH THREATS, and Archie had also been given KIDNAPPING THREATS AND DEATH THREATS. The rules are not so rigorous that an exception can't be made for the son of the King and his mixed-race wife and grandchildren.

Claim: For security reasons, the passports of each member of the Royal Family is looked after until they require them for international travel. That's just commonsense.

Truth: Meghan wasn't told this or had it explained.

Claim: Meghan claimed she never saw her passport again until "we came here" which would be California. However, this is clearly a lie as she required her passport for travelling to Canada upon leaving the UK.
And, in 2019, required her passport for travel to the USA for a rather extravagant baby shower which was attended by many of her friends.

Truth: The RF do not line up at customs like ordinary people. Like the Prime Minister, the American President etc, the RF have couriers and people who arrange for their passport to be waved through privately. Do you honestly believe Meghan, or even William lines up with passport IN HAND??? The fact that her passport is handled for her means Meghan herself doesn't cite it or hold it. So, that clearly does not disprove the FACT that she didn't see her passport again.

Claim: On the contrary, Archie is really treated no differently to the Queen's grandchildren who aren't entitled to the Prince and Princess style.

On the contrary, Letters Patent were change BY THE QUEEN so that WILLIAM AND KATE'S CHILDREN, George and Charlotte, would be known as Prince George and Princess Charlotte. They changed the LP for William's children. They could for Harry's children. BOTH William and Harry are the SON OF THE KING. So Harry's children rank higher than a Tindall, and certainly should rank higher than Edward's. If they can call George and Charlotte Prince and Princess, they sure damn as hell should be able to do the same for Archie and Lilibet.

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 · 10/01/2023 20:14

User8646382 · 10/01/2023 18:34

No, in both cases weak, vulnerable men with mummy issues and brains fried with acid were targeted by ambitious, narcissistic women, who isolated them from everyone who loved them and made sure there was no going back. In both cases, the men were made to look stupid, but at least John had an excuse, being shoved with drugs and hypnotised. Harry, God love him, seems to be merely stupid.

No, in both cases the women are misogynistically attacked by sexist chauvinist misogynists like yourself who think women are 'ambitious' and the man is 'weak' and 'vulnerable', when that sort of dangerously misogynistic prejudiced bullshit just shows the backward, distorted mindset that you have. This is 2023, not the 1940s. Your backward, sexist, toxic masculinity is not welcome in this century, decade, or millenium. In this era, we know men have their own minds and are responsible for their own actions, and women are not evil succubuses who control men. In both cases, the men picked women who bettered them and made them better men.

JonahCL9 · 10/01/2023 20:32

Ajay is quoted in press tonight as saying a team of 4 had to work 3 all nighters to get the bridesmaids dresses in a state to be worn. Meghan was definitely let down by Givenchy and whoever was supposed to be project managing the wedding.

MrsTag · 10/01/2023 20:36

JonahCL9 · 10/01/2023 20:32

Ajay is quoted in press tonight as saying a team of 4 had to work 3 all nighters to get the bridesmaids dresses in a state to be worn. Meghan was definitely let down by Givenchy and whoever was supposed to be project managing the wedding.

The style was plain but fussy around the sleeves. I can see a little girl thinking it was a bit shit. 😂

DuchessOfPort · 10/01/2023 20:51

BOTH William and Harry are the SON OF THE KING. So Harry's children rank higher than a Tindall, and certainly should rank higher than Edward's.

Edward was the son of the Queen, but he is and was not directly heir to the throne. His children are the perfect comparison to Harry’s children. Harry is and was the comparator to Edward or Andrew. Edward is a simpler example and close to Harry’s situation in terms of children .

Edward was the son of the then Monarch. (Not the grandson like Harry has been up until 4 months ago). He has a son and daughter like Harry and his son (born grandson of the monarch) is styled Viscount and his daughter (born granddaughter of the monarch) is Lady Louise.

The Wessexes accepted these titles for their children. They are officially allowed to call themselves Prince James and Princess Louise as they were born grandchildren of the monarch NOT great grandchildren, but do not. The idea was that they can choose for themselves at 18.

Lady Louise has not chosen to style herself as Princess even though at the time of her birth, she was the granddaughter of the monarch.

Harry was grandson of the monarch at birth. He was the equivalent of Viscount Severn (who is also technically a Prince). He declined aristocratic titles for his son at birth, (his son was born great grandson of the monarch) thus Master Archie is the correct title for now.

Harry is just a younger son, like Edward. But without the royal duties. Edward was the Harry equivalent to George VI (who died before he was born).

JemimaTiggywinkles · 10/01/2023 20:51

funding comes from Duchy of Cornwall.

Source please. The only funding debate I can find online is whether it should be taxpayers or if Harry be allowed it regardless of risk as has offered to pay the costs himself. I’m on the side of “tax payers or nobody” so if all the royal protection is via the private income of the Duchy I will have to rethink.

The rules are not so rigorous that an exception can't be made for the son of the King and his mixed-race wife and grandchildren.

Well we shall see what the judicial review says. The security services say his risk doesn’t warrant the security he wants. The court will decide whether he needs (not wants) state protection. Only those who need it should have it (imo).

JemimaTiggywinkles · 10/01/2023 20:58

https://www.instituteforgovernment.org.uk/explainers/royal-finances

This says the security is paid for by the government. Do you have a better source for your claim?

cyclamenqueen · 10/01/2023 21:01

Minor point but the Queens eldest grandchild is actually Peter Philips , Zara’s elder brother

HaroldeVwilliam · 10/01/2023 21:25

Isnt this "clear boundaries" what Harry and Megan have erected?

Are " boundaries" needed in an early relationship with your brother's brothers gf?
A damaged sad young man who is not getting younger and found someone special?

I think boundaries are best used after water has passed under the bridge and it's clear that someone needs holding back with them.

HaroldeVwilliam · 10/01/2023 21:30

@IAmWomanHearMeRoar1

I hope someone studies this one day ie this narrative that Harry isn't able to make up his own mind he like millions of men ([according to million's of mils) has lost his bearings etc.

I've always wondered what " family" is he supposed to have turned his back on .

Who was actually there for him when she died?

Shelefttheweb · 10/01/2023 21:32

Claim: Harry did go on bike rides with his father at various ages. Photos available online.

Truth: Harry clearly meant he didn't have the paps around with Archie, that he could do it PRIVATELY, the fact that there are photos of Harry in the tabloids, proves his point. Archie has the ability to cycle with his father, without the paps there.

Ha! So photographic proof doesn’t count but without photographic proof it didn’t happen! What about photos taken by the family on the Balmoral estate? You know, the large private estate in Scotland where they were able to cycle around without paps seeing them?

Some non-evidence of cycling that apparently isn’t private enough to count....

www.hellomagazine.com/royalty/gallery/20210311108679/prince-harry-riding-bicycle-prince-charles-childhood-photos/1/

7Worfs · 10/01/2023 21:43

I think boundaries are best used after water has passed under the bridge and it's clear that someone needs holding back with them.

Jesus Christ. I hope you don’t work in safeguarding.

StatisticallyChallenged · 10/01/2023 21:48

HaroldeVwilliam · 10/01/2023 21:25

Isnt this "clear boundaries" what Harry and Megan have erected?

Are " boundaries" needed in an early relationship with your brother's brothers gf?
A damaged sad young man who is not getting younger and found someone special?

I think boundaries are best used after water has passed under the bridge and it's clear that someone needs holding back with them.

Everyone has boundaries.. They might be in different places and you might not like other people's, but we all have them. That's normal and healthy

LegoAmies · 10/01/2023 22:02

MrsTag · 10/01/2023 20:36

The style was plain but fussy around the sleeves. I can see a little girl thinking it was a bit shit. 😂

Ajay Mirpuri seems like a very lovely guy! But he and his employees had to work 3 nights in a row until 4am to fix all 6 dresses😱Kate was right it would have been quicker to redo the lot, she knew what she was talking about. I can't understand why Harry would draw such public negative attention to Meghan's bridesmaids including his goddaughter Florence. Givenchy won't be best pleased either. It's a mess.

Mingmoo · 10/01/2023 22:03

With regard the death and rape threats (which are awful) - everyone in the Royal family gets them. Most people in the public eye get them. It’s clearly a concern but it’s not unique to Meghan.

BethJ62 · 10/01/2023 22:07

LegoAmies · 10/01/2023 22:02

Ajay Mirpuri seems like a very lovely guy! But he and his employees had to work 3 nights in a row until 4am to fix all 6 dresses😱Kate was right it would have been quicker to redo the lot, she knew what she was talking about. I can't understand why Harry would draw such public negative attention to Meghan's bridesmaids including his goddaughter Florence. Givenchy won't be best pleased either. It's a mess.

Compared to the dresses worn by the bridesmaids ( including Charlotte) at Eugenie’s wedding, the dresses were disappointing . A sash would have helped , not to mention even hems.

Serenster · 10/01/2023 22:11

Anyway, in a turn-up which will likely surprise many people on this thread, it turns out Harry doesn’t actually think the “Kate Made Meghan Cry” story came from the Cambridge’s camp at all. He says it came from Charles and Camilla’s press team!

www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/prince-harry-spare-charles-camilla-team-planting-stories

(H also says the Turnip Toffs/affair rumours came from the same source by the way…which is quite the allegation!)

HaroldeVwilliam · 10/01/2023 22:14

@7worfs

We all should have boundaries.
In new relationships dealing with inane stuff like lip gloss and Childs dresses I don't think any of us would get very far if we had high boundaries?

Or is this what you mean by safeguarding?

Pulling a disgusting face whilst using lipgloss?

BethJ62 · 10/01/2023 22:15

Serenster · 10/01/2023 22:11

Anyway, in a turn-up which will likely surprise many people on this thread, it turns out Harry doesn’t actually think the “Kate Made Meghan Cry” story came from the Cambridge’s camp at all. He says it came from Charles and Camilla’s press team!

www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/prince-harry-spare-charles-camilla-team-planting-stories

(H also says the Turnip Toffs/affair rumours came from the same source by the way…which is quite the allegation!)

I really can’t see that . I posted on another thread that Meghan herself was suspected of planting the rumour as she was unhappy she couldn’t attend a State Banquet where Harry accompanied Rose .

StatisticallyChallenged · 10/01/2023 22:17

Serenster · 10/01/2023 22:11

Anyway, in a turn-up which will likely surprise many people on this thread, it turns out Harry doesn’t actually think the “Kate Made Meghan Cry” story came from the Cambridge’s camp at all. He says it came from Charles and Camilla’s press team!

www.buzzfeednews.com/article/ellievhall/prince-harry-spare-charles-camilla-team-planting-stories

(H also says the Turnip Toffs/affair rumours came from the same source by the way…which is quite the allegation!)

OOFT that's quite the allegation isn't it.

Mumskisail · 10/01/2023 22:24

Not at all, I think Kate just balked at a brash American trying to be best friends in a first meeting and forcing her American ways on probably the most British family that exists

DownNative · 10/01/2023 23:27

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 · 10/01/2023 20:08

This is far too easy @DownNative , and thank you for giving me the opportunity to once again, expose the fact that these so-called 'lies', are well - LIES. And distortions.

Claim: Harry did go on bike rides with his father at various ages. Photos available online.

Truth: Harry clearly meant he didn't have the paps around with Archie, that he could do it PRIVATELY, the fact that there are photos of Harry in the tabloids, proves his point. Archie has the ability to cycle with his father, without the paps there.

Claim: Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby: “The legal wedding was on the Saturday. I signed the wedding certificate, which is a legal document, and I would have committed a serious criminal offence if I signed it knowing it was false.”

Truth: That has been addressed so many times on this site that it aught to be a thread stuck at the top. In many cultures it's common to say you were married even if you exchange vows but don't sign paperwork. It is something that the UK seems to really, really, really struggle with. The idea that you can exchange vows privately, no signed paperwork, and consider it a 'marriage'. The Archbishop did not deny that they exchanged vows privately. Just confirmed that it wasn't legal.

Claim: Harry knew very well that ceasing to be a working Royal would absolutely mean losing the elite protection. After all, it was never a secret that various non-working Royals do NOT get armed protection.

Truth: funding comes from Duchy of Cornwall. As the son of the future King, an exception could be made, ESPECIALLY as Meghan was receiving RAPE THREATS AND DEATH THREATS, and Archie had also been given KIDNAPPING THREATS AND DEATH THREATS. The rules are not so rigorous that an exception can't be made for the son of the King and his mixed-race wife and grandchildren.

Claim: For security reasons, the passports of each member of the Royal Family is looked after until they require them for international travel. That's just commonsense.

Truth: Meghan wasn't told this or had it explained.

Claim: Meghan claimed she never saw her passport again until "we came here" which would be California. However, this is clearly a lie as she required her passport for travelling to Canada upon leaving the UK.
And, in 2019, required her passport for travel to the USA for a rather extravagant baby shower which was attended by many of her friends.

Truth: The RF do not line up at customs like ordinary people. Like the Prime Minister, the American President etc, the RF have couriers and people who arrange for their passport to be waved through privately. Do you honestly believe Meghan, or even William lines up with passport IN HAND??? The fact that her passport is handled for her means Meghan herself doesn't cite it or hold it. So, that clearly does not disprove the FACT that she didn't see her passport again.

Claim: On the contrary, Archie is really treated no differently to the Queen's grandchildren who aren't entitled to the Prince and Princess style.

On the contrary, Letters Patent were change BY THE QUEEN so that WILLIAM AND KATE'S CHILDREN, George and Charlotte, would be known as Prince George and Princess Charlotte. They changed the LP for William's children. They could for Harry's children. BOTH William and Harry are the SON OF THE KING. So Harry's children rank higher than a Tindall, and certainly should rank higher than Edward's. If they can call George and Charlotte Prince and Princess, they sure damn as hell should be able to do the same for Archie and Lilibet.

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"This is far too easy @DownNative , and thank you for giving me the opportunity to once again, expose the fact that these so-called 'lies', are well - LIES. And distortions."

On the contrary, it is YOU who has engaged in distortion as shall become clear. I really wouldn't have started your post off the way you did either. Oh dear!

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"Truth: Harry clearly meant he didn't have the paps around with Archie, that he could do it PRIVATELY, the fact that there are photos of Harry in the tabloids, proves his point. Archie has the ability to cycle with his father, without the paps there."

No, that is NOT what Harry said in his interview with Oprah Winfrey. His words again:

"I guess the highlight for me is sticking him on the back of a bicycle in his little baby seat and taking him on bike rides which is something I was never able to do when I was young. I can sit him on the back and he’s got his arms out and he’s like ‘whoah’.” - Prince Harry

If Harry meant what you're trying to spin it into, he would have said precisely that in plain language. It's not hard.

As it stands, we HAVE to deal with the words Harry actually used and nothing else. The PLAIN meaning of his statement is very clear - he claimed he couldn't go on bike rides with his Father.

To try to turn the plain meaning of his words into something else makes a mockery of language. See, by your flawed logic you might as well say that "I see what I eat" means the same thing as "I eat what I see"!

And the plain meaning tells us they DON'T mean the same thing. You're dancing on the head of a pin right from the very beginning there....

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"Truth: That has been addressed so many times on this site that it aught to be a thread stuck at the top. In many cultures it's common to say you were married even if you exchange vows but don't sign paperwork. It is something that the UK seems to really, really, really struggle with. The idea that you can exchange vows privately, no signed paperwork, and consider it a 'marriage'. The Archbishop did not deny that they exchanged vows privately. Just confirmed that it wasn't legal."

Again, this is dancing on the head of a pin! Once again, we have to deal with the actual words as used by Meghan which provides no basis for your attempted "explanation":

Meghan: “[But] you know, three days before our wedding, we got married. No-one knows that.

“We called the Archbishop and we just said, ‘Look, this thing, this spectacle is for the world but we want our union between us.’ So, the vows that we have framed in our room are just the two of us in our backyard with the Archbishop of Canterbury.”

The plain meaning of Meghan's words is very clear, but if she meant precisely what you're attempting to claim she'd have said so.

There is no cultural misunderstanding here between the UK and USA. All you've got there is....dancing on the head of a pin and disregarding the plain meaning of her words which led to the Archbishop of Canterbury to intervene.

You don't seem to realise the Archbishop of Canterbury did NOT confirm a thing about what occurred in the meeting three days before the wedding. He stated that will remain confidential. I'm afraid you fell into a logical fallacy on that point too which is known as appeal to ignorance (also known as an "argument from ignorance"). This is where you argue that a proposition must be true because it has not been proven false or there is no evidence against it. Exactly what you did when you asserted "The Archbishop did not deny that they exchanged vows privately".

Oops!

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"Truth: funding comes from Duchy of Cornwall."

Wrong! Funding for Royal Family security actually comes from the UK Treasury!

"Who pays for royal security?

Royals receive security for public duties and some of them are also protected around the clock by publicly funded security - namely The Queen, Prince Philip, Prince Charles, Camilla, Prince William, Kate and their three children.

This security is paid for by the UK government’s Treasury. The Treasury does not disclose the agreement regarding how much this costs or who benefits most from the agreement.

The HM Treasury website states: “No breakdown of security costs is available as disclosure of such information could compromise the integrity of these arrangements and affect the security of the individuals protected. It is long established policy not to comment upon the protective security arrangements and their related costs for members of the Royal Family or their residences.”

HM Treasury gets money from.....the British Taxpayer. As I said!

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"As the son of the future King, an exception could be made, ESPECIALLY as Meghan was receiving RAPE THREATS AND DEATH THREATS, and Archie had also been given KIDNAPPING THREATS AND DEATH THREATS. The rules are not so rigorous that an exception can't be made for the son of the King and his mixed-race wife and grandchildren."

Any and all decisions relating to Royal Security is decided by London Metropolitan Police’s Royal and VIP Executive Committee (RAVEC). It it they who make the decisions over who is entitled to Protection.

And who isn't.

The rules are stricter than you think. If Harry and Meghan wanted Royal Security to continue as before which was funded by the British Taxpayer via HM Treasury....well, they would have had to remain Working Royals.

After all, why should the Taxpayer's money be used to fund any private citizen?

So, having decided to cease being Working Royals and knowing State funded security wouldn't continue, it is really up to Harry and Meghan to pay for their own security.

Furthermore, you were VERY selective on the security issue too and blatantly ignored information you had no answer for. Such as:

"Once Harry and Meghan step down as working royals, they become high net worth individuals/A-list celebrities but that doesn’t entitle them to taxpayer-funded security. Elton John has to pay for his own security and so do Harry and Meghan.” - Simon Morgan, a former royal protection officer.

This has long been known to Harry and isn't new.

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"Truth: Meghan wasn't told this or had it explained."

Nonsense. All it literally takes is a quick look on the Royal Family website to know this: www.royal.uk/passports. This is NOT rocket science!

Did Meghan Markle not know how to use the Internet or something? Would Harry not have explained the reasoning to her having known all his life?

Or is it more likely she was inventing a convenient grievance to use as a weapon against the Royal Family?

Harry and Meghan aren't stupid, so your dancing on the head of a pin on this doesn't work either!

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"Truth: The RF do not line up at customs like ordinary people. Like the Prime Minister, the American President etc, the RF have couriers and people who arrange for their passport to be waved through privately. Do you honestly believe Meghan, or even William lines up with passport IN HAND??? The fact that her passport is handled for her means Meghan herself doesn't cite it or hold it. So, that clearly does not disprove the FACT that she didn't see her passport again."

0h dear, this is a Strawman Argument Fallacy since I didn't argue this at all. Sure, the Royals don't stand at customs like ordinary citizens. They're taken to private and secure settings to have their passports checked as a formality.

But they are required to PERSONALLY hand over their passport for inspection by officials. Only the reigning Monarch doesn't need to do this since the passport is issued in their name - this was Queen Elizabeth II and is now King Charles III. All other Royals must present theirs themselves. Palace staff keep their passports secure until then.

So, Meghan would have required to have her passport in her hands for this purpose since she is NOT a reigning Monarch. Anything else is desperate distortion and dancing on the head of a pin....

And you're ignoring the fact Meghan claimed she didn't see her passport again until they left for California. This is obviously untrue since Meghan clearly had her passport in her own possession when they moved to Canada upon ceasing to be Working Royals. She wouldn't have been permitted entry otherwise.

Oops.

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"On the contrary, Letters Patent were change BY THE QUEEN so that WILLIAM AND KATE'S CHILDREN, George and Charlotte, would be known as Prince George and Princess Charlotte. They changed the LP for William's children."

You are very deliberately engaging in distortion to the point where you blatantly disregard the context of this update to the Letters Patent by Queen Elizabeth II.

The previous rule was that ONLY the eldest son would have the title of Prince. If a girl was born first under those rules, she'd have still not been a Princess or HRH and would have been displaced by a younger brother. The Queen clearly recognised the sexism and misogyny in this rule so much so she had it changed.

But ONLY after male royal primogeniture was officially abolished.

From Reuters:

"The change was expected after Britain and the 15 other Commonwealth countries which have the queen as their monarch agreed to change the rules of royal succession so that males would no longer have precedence as heir."

The change was based on the Rules Of Succession and so there was no need to include any child of Prince Harry since they will NOT ascend to the throne.

Only Prince William's eldest child can ascend to the throne when the time comes.

IAmWomanHearMeRoar1 said:

"They could for Harry's children. BOTH William and Harry are the SON OF THE KING. So Harry's children rank higher than a Tindall, and certainly should rank higher than Edward's. If they can call George and Charlotte Prince and Princess, they sure damn as hell should be able to do the same for Archie and Lilibet."

At the time, William and Harry were NOT the "sons of the King"! They were the sons of the Prince Of Wales.

But the rules of succession is very clear. During Queen Elizabeth II's lifetime, the children of Prince Harry were NOT entitled to the titles of Prince and Princess.

But Harry's children COULD be entitled to the titles of Prince and Princess upon the death of Queen Elizabeth II and the accession of Prince Charles to the throne according to the Letters Patent. Harry knew this would be the case long, long before he even met Meghan Markle!

Thus demonstrating there was zero discrimination against Archie or any subsequent children as alleged to Oprah Winfrey. Unfortunately for them, their parents left the Royal Family as Working Royals. The Sussexes will NOT be back as Working Royals and so only Harry still has the title of Prince.

Until/unless Parliament passes an Act stripping him off it. Parliament is Supreme on this. Not the King.

Remember here Meghan incorrectly referred to Archie as one of the Queen's grandchildren. He never was that - only a Great-Grandchild.

And no, it's not the same thing as a grandchild or a cultural misunderstanding.

Let's have no more misrepresentations, distortions and lies from you, shall we?

BradfordGirl · 10/01/2023 23:29

@Mumskisail Being friendly is not trying to be best friends.

DownNative · 10/01/2023 23:36

HM Treasury website evidence regarding Royal Security:

www.gov.uk/government/publications/sovereign-grant-act-2011-guidance/sovereign-grant-act-2011-guidance#contents

Scroll down to "10. Security Costs".

It is State funded.